Jerry
Jerry

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Thoughts on attachment?

Do you think attachment and obsession are the same? 🤔 (edited)

Thoughts on attachment?

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Olli

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No attachment is like you feel connected with that person on a deep level but obsession is when your whole life evolves just around this one person and nothing else

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Stoyan

Stoyan

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I think obsession differs from attachement in the sense that it can be considered a byproduct of a difficult psychological experience - parental issues, abrupt loss of someone close, traumatic event. Attachement feels like it can't be caused by any of those difficult psychological experiences 😅 (edited)

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