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ISTJ

Capricorn

Some common things that I sense as causes of attachment

Mutually agreed upon plans (dreams, futures - that u expect or want to happen that depend on the person following through with u) manipulators will try to make u see a future with them like marriage family or other things. Trust (presuming a person is dependable, reliable, trustworthy, good... read more

INTJ

Scorpio

Feelings 🥺

It's funny we are ready to sacrifice a relationship which we build with so much effort even if the efforts were smaller or just for fulfilling our petty desires (like not being lonely, romantic pleasures) for our ego and respect. What I'm saying is never lose a good friendship or a partner for... (edited) read more

ISTJ

Aries

Don't too attached with someone.

They will leave you soon 😔

ISTP

Scorpio

Am scared

Am scared of attachments, because I believe that every attachment I have will finally break my heart or leave me and the only time I cry is when I loose the people I love through life and death or just because they are not attached to me anymore

INFJ

Virgo

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ESFJ

Taurus

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Why Love Gets Harder As We Grow Older 💔➡️🧠

Let’s be honest: falling in love as an adult is way harder than it used to be. During the week, work drains most of our energy. By the time the weekend comes, we’re either catching up on housework or just recharging at home. That doesn’t leave much space for “meeting someone new.” Meanwhile, many... read more

Clarity Before Attachment Always

Until a man makes it clear with his own mouth that he wants you, don’t emotionally lock yourself in. Texting, calling, or spending time together do not automatically mean intention. Words matter, and clarity matters even more. A man who truly wants you will not confuse you or make you question... (edited) read more

What attachment style are you?

I’m (still) extremely avoidant. But I can be present, but only when I feel that it is nearly perfectly safe to do so. And if I’m punished for showing up or not showing up, I will retreat into my shell more. Unless a need is attached to it. I experienced some very traumatic events that made me... read more

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Cause I was the challenge

I looked into his eyes with such an emptiness in mine. 'Challenge accepted', he said. Cause I was the challenge. I with the abandonment fear. I with the mood swings. I with the attachment issues. I with the anger issues. I with the trust issues. I with the black and white perspective. I with the... read more

The Cost of Caring

After thirty-six years, I’ve reached a point where I’m actually worried about myself. Not because I feel nothin, but because I feel too much, too early, and then shut it all down. I’ve realized how hard it is for me to truly love anything, whether it’s a new hobby I’ve dreamed about or a person who... read more