Universes

Value

value

Everyday is always a challenge to us. It's not about being wealthy, healthy, popular, or being perfect, it's about being true,humble,strong and being able to share and touch the lives of others with love as well.

Have you a scale of values?

Know your worth

Purpose

"Forget what you feel, remember what you deserve" 🌷

Self Love

1. Be respectful, or you’re already single
Be honest, polite, and genuine. If you play games or lie, she’ll notice immediately, and you’ll be ghosted faster than you can say “good morning.”

2. Date her family too (no escape)
Filipinas are very family-oriented. You’re not just dating her,you’re dating her parents, cousins, aunties, and the grandma who keeps asking when you’re getting married.

3. Effort matters more than money
You don’t need to be rich. Consistency, good communication, and small thoughtful gestures mean more than expensive gifts. Show effort, and you’ll win her heart (and maybe her family’s approval too).

CTTO

When you date a Filipina, make sure you do these things 🇵🇭

Your kindness may not attract people, but it always attract God's blessings.
Sometimes your kindness might go unnoticed or might even taken for granted. But don't let it stop you. Every act of kindness, no matter how small, is seen by God, and He rewards it in ways you can't even imagine.
Kindness has a way of coming back to you, not always through people, but through the peace and favor God brings into your life,
because blessings flow where the heart is clean and intentions are pure.

Keep in mind that your kindness will never be wasted, it might be the only warmth someone needs to feel today. Stay kind.❤️

Your kindness may not attract people, but it always attract God's blessings.

A family is strongest when every member feels valued, respected, and heard. Each person whether a parent, sibling, or child, plays a unique role in maintaining harmony and understanding within the home. When one voice is ignored, the balance of the entire family is affected.

Unity begins with acknowledging that every family member has their own thoughts, emotions, and perspective. By listening to one another, we learn not only what each person feels, but also where they stand on important matters. This awareness helps prevent misunderstandings, strengthens relationships, and encourages open communication.

Being heard is more than simply speaking; it is the assurance that what we say matters. When a family makes space for honest conversations, it becomes easier to address concerns, resolve conflicts, and support each other’s needs. No one should feel left out or overlooked, especially in decisions that affect the whole family.

Being heard gives a person dignity. It allows them to feel seen, valued, and included in decisions that shape the family’s path. And when every member feels this sense of belonging, unity becomes stronger, misunderstandings become fewer, and love becomes deeper.

In the end, unity is not created by silence, it is built through respect, communication, and the willingness to listen. When every voice is valued, the family grows stronger, closer, and more understanding, no matter what challenges arise.

When all voices are welcomed, the family stands firm, together, resilient, and bound by love.

An Open Letter

People say “don’t ever try someone who’s not afraid of being alone” because those are the people you can’t control, manipulate, or shake with fear of losing you.

Someone who’s comfortable being alone:

doesn’t chase bare minimum

doesn’t beg for attention

doesn’t tolerate disrespect

doesn’t stay where love feels uncertain

doesn’t fold just because you walk away

doesn’t fear silence, distance, or endings

You can’t threaten them with abandonment — they’ll let you leave.
You can’t break them with loneliness — they’ve already made peace with it.
You can’t manipulate their emotions — they don’t need anyone to feel whole.

A person who’s not afraid of being alone is powerful because they choose people out of love, not fear.
And when someone chooses you while knowing they can stand without you — that loyalty is real.

People say

If something is worth doing, it's worth doing right. Not to mention, the quality shows when you take pride in doing something even if no one else has the eyes to see it.

"Sometimes that sadness gets so deep in your heart, that you can’t even cry."

🥲🥲🥲

People can destroy your image, damage your personality, create rumours about you but they can never take away your good deeds. Because no matter how they describe you, you will always be admired by those who know you best.💗🧿

True.

🤧🤒💪🏼

Being valuable and having purpose is worthless able to be altered. Able to do all manner of things, be the best person possible capable of so much growth and have limitless potential.  Yet no one is interested, how does someone fix it? Is it possible?

Choose kindness every single day.Not because everyone deserves it,but because you do.😇

"Sometimes distances teaches you the real value of a person"....💯🌈

Value ⭐

Real Value

If a wife loses her husband, she’s called a widow.
If a man loses his wife, he’s called a widower.
If a child loses their parents, they’re called an orphan.
But when parents lose their child… there are no words.
Because no language, no label, and no name could ever define that kind of pain.

It’s a silence that never ends.
A wound that never heals.
A nightmare that no parent should ever have to live through. 💔😢

Thoughts

Dear Future Husband:

If you’re ever mad at me, just let me know so I can fix it. Write a letter or somethin. 😉💗

- Your Future Wife.

Never

I saw the video about wonderful mind..a strong words for people who always feel sorry to themselves because they blame themselves why people leave them .. and I want all of you to read and listening this video...and I agreed with this every words.. 

"..Never apologize for knowing your worth. Be comfortable with people missing out on you, because people who see your value would never take advantage of it, and If they don't appreciate what you bring to the table, it's their loss - not you..!

Keep shinning And stay true to yourself, and let them who loose you will missing out .."

Agreeee..??? Am agree...

Source : Dr. Chris on I G 💓 
Speaker : Joshua Rosa

#mindset #value #mood #mentalhealth

Value your worthy..

✅💯

Let your values be stronger than temptations. It would never be considered sin if you won't give in to it, let temptation remain to be just a temptation. Always make the decision to stay away from it..❤️

Yes, still love it 🌼

A bottle of water can be 
$. 50at the supermarket
$2 at the gym
$3 at the movies
$6 on the plane ride

Same water.

The only thing that changed its value was the place so the next time you feel   your worth is nothing maybe you're just in the wrong place

I remember losing myself after somebody broke my heart. I remember myself begging for love, but still, I've never been loved and treated properly. I almost lost my sanity for a love that never came my way. I gave my all, but that was not enough for someone to love me back. And that's when I promised that I would start loving myself more. All I know is that I need to love myself and move on.

I've always been so genuine with people. I always have pure intentions. I always give so much, even though there is nothing left for myself. But now I realize how important it is to have a little love for myself too. I've come to realize that loving too much can hurt a lot. I'm tired of suffering from the same pain over and over again. Now I want to give myself the love that I always deserve. I will no longer beg anyone to give me love; I will give it to myself and forget everything that once broke my heart.

loose myself

She's tired of the psychological mind games and people pretending to be someone they're not.

She's tired of the shallow conversations with people that only care about themselves. 

She's tired of attention from men with hidden agendas. 

She's tired of being treated like an option when she should have been treated like a priority from the first conversation. 

She's tired of spending countless nights  questioning her own self worth. 

She's tired of people not respecting her boundaries and forcing her to do things she's not ready to do. 

She's at a point in her life where she wants to be loved correctly or be left alone completely.

She's tired.

Do you have standards?
Do you have goals for the people you have as friends or who you are dating? 
What matters to you?

What do you value in a friendship or relationship?

Yes, I went down the wrong roads and made all the bad choices,
I ended up in places I never should have been-in ways that tore my spirit apart.
Truth be told, I don’t know how I got so down and out,
Nor how I made it out intact and still whole.
At the end of my rope and hating who I’d become,
I hit rock bottom.
Everyone counted me out and no one gave me a chance...
Even I didn’t know how to dig myself out of the hole..
But you know,
That’s the thing about a spirit that won’t give up.
I don’t know how to quit and I’m meant to become more in spite of my rough start.
It was never meant to be the end of my story, I just had to begin a new chapter- one where the Phoenix rises from the ashes.
I pulled myself up, dusted myself off then fought and clawed my way back.
I didn’t ask for help and no one offered me a hand, but that was what I needed to forge my own courage and build my own strength.
My dreams didn’t have an expiration and I wasn’t going to quit on them or myself.
I know I’m a mess sometimes,
A bit of a broken soul with glimpses of beauty stashed in between,
But I’m good with that.
I made my way, earned my place and I’m fighting to make my story a success.
I’ve got a lot of love to give and a passionate fire that can’t be quenched.
Sometimes, you realize along the way that you don’t set out to be strong and courageous,
But when you’re left holding the pieces of a life gone wrong,
Those are the only choices you have left.
It’s not that I’ll ever be heroic, strong and amazing like the fabled stories of heroes and lovers,
But at least I’ll write my story my way, and that’s what matters most of all.
I don’t have to set the world on fire, just be on fire for my life-
The kind of flames that make your heart and soul feel totally alive.
I may be beautifully broken and wonderfully imperfect,
But I’m still standing.
I’m still strong.
I figured where I needed to go and what it would take to get there, so I made a choice:
I didn’t ever go looking for a hero-
I decided instead to become the hero of my own story..
One small victory at a time..my way.

My story is filled with bad choices, heartbreak and deadends. But it also a tale of rebirth, survival and rising from the ashes

Indeed

Morning When life gets blurry, adjust your focus.
Don't break the lens📷

Imagine, just for a moment, that you could untangle the knots of life’s challenges – spiritually, financially, emotionally – and not just navigate, but truly steer your life’s journey

If you have strong feelings FROM AND FOR a man, and his body, health wise, cannot tolerate the chemicals that are in cosmetics, and all man made scents (all scented products), Would you give up cosmetics/scents/lotions, so you can have a life with him?

Q 2:  if you are getting to know a guy, you like him and getting to know him.
He explained to you that in order to continue having time with him (physically around with him), he is asking you to give up any man made scents and all cosmetics because that makes him sick.

THE QUESTION IS: Would you give up on stuff, because you value him enough to get to know him more?

OR Would you give up on him, because you value how the stuff makes you feel? And you can get to know other men.

Please answer with logic and emotions, and please try not to ridicule or sound degrading.

Value Community

Everyday is always a challenge to us. It's not about being wealthy, healthy, popular, or being perfect, it's about being true,humble,strong and being able to share and touch the lives of others with love as well.

Have you a scale of values?

Know your worth

Purpose

Self Love

When you date a Filipina, make sure you do these things 🇵🇭

love yourself, you deserve love from myself. coz self love is the beginning of everything. when u love urself u become stronger , you think clearer , you stop begging for validation. you start walking with confidence cox u finally understand ur own value. self love is not selfish its healing,

Dating

Keep shine

South jersey girl

Do you like to spend the day in cozy pj's?

Respect is one of the greatest expressions of love.