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Yes, exactly

I'm going for less than 10yrs younger. Just starting a conversation with a 29yr old, 6yrs younger. I cant explain why but it seems men my own age dont have the same interests for a relationship as I do. Successful young men are an attractive opportunity lol. I work 2 jobs because of being in debt and some mistakes I have to make right. I want to wait 2yrs before moving in together, unless after a yr, things are to a certain point in the relationship and I get my debt low enough to go back to just pt. I feel young making all the moves I have made to be a new me

New dating territory

I found it depressing that I thought to myself " it doesnt matter if I sleep on the couch"  reminds me of "I'll eat whatever I want for dinner and stay up as late as I want"  like shoot, what part of being an adult isn't double edged? Lol.

Damn

Laughed when the guy who asked me out decided to stop responding before setting a day or time for 24hrs saying "sorry I fell asleep" I didn't pursue meeting him and he didn't bring it back up either. The end. Still frustrating but he's not for me. I want a man that doesn't fall asleep when we're responding to each other every minute. There was no point to asking me out and being lazy about planning it. I personally want to share life with someone who wants to share life's experiences.

I'm getting better

Yooo

Single because I wasn't Worth the effort

The real struggle about finding for the right one when you're 30s and over

Single forever?

Aren't there any Normal men out there in there 30's who live in or around my area?

Normal

I just want to be pampered 😭

Being the best ex

Being alone isn't great. Spent another weekend laying in bed alone. Tired of people saying there's nothing wrong with being alone when those same people have family, friends, kids, or spouses. Plus typing everything instead of real verbal conversations are time consuming

Within 2 or 3 conversations, men ask me why or or would I go back to working day shift because they work days. I work nights for my health. Waking up at 4-5am was causing my mental health to suffer, I struggled to force myself to sleep because I don't struggle with sleep if it's 2-5am and I was barely awake by the time I got out the door to drive my commute. Since getting 2-1030pm I sleep, I'm awake before I get ready for work, the dating pool shrunk but I'm not settling for "well no one else wanted me" or "I don't want to die alone" smh I don't want my time wasted if incompatibility is something decided immediately.

Dating lol

I thought trying to see where things would go with this guy that wanted a full on relationship from the first day instead of running would be something different and it wasn't smh.

F***

Catch 22

I like you. You have good grammar and form coherent sentences. That tells me everything I need to know about you.

I love this compliment 🥰

Can always count on it

Showed a 26yr old coworker a pic of what I find attractive and she said he was ugly lol. I told her, don't become single later in life cause none of us are looking better with age lol

So this guy seriously asked me 5x in an hr if I wanted to meet irl and I told him after the 1st time that don't meet right away. He thinks I'm stupid lol. He said "sorry, I'm trying to be respectful, just trying to figure out what you would want to do when we can meet" smh. Annoying smh.

"Respect"

I want the type of man who will take turns telling stories about us and everyone can see us really be happy together.

Wishful thinking

So is it normal for someone to be super hard to reach but they still say they're interested in me but I only got 2 conversations in a week because they are busy running marketing and branding for multiple companies but idk if that's really true yet. Am I the crazy one for thinking that it's odd to take 2 days to reply my messages sometimes? Grr I liked him when he did take time to chat but I don't want to meet irl if time can't be made for me when we're not in person. Even something like setting a day and time so I don't wonder while I wait to hear from him. Our conversations have been awesome when they happen. I have almost no patience tho

Idk what I'm doing

Bored

Should there be a q and a for figuring out if you can live with someone in the future when you haven't even met in person? Is it similar to asking if that person wants kids? Or letting me know they prefer I use mouth wash because it's the compromise to me being a smoker? Nothing makes sense anymore

Pre irl meeting

Alone as per usual smh. Disappointed I was having a great time with someone but in less than 24hrs he wanted a full relationship. No one stays in my life longer than 1month unless my best friend, roommate, and friend in TN count but none of them is my boyfriend or future husband so to me, they are in a different category. Sometimes I miss the 7yr relationship I was in but that guy needed viagra to lay with me because I was never physically his type and I was the 1 of 3 women he could've chosen to avoid dying alone. Even if he never told me all that, I don't settle, I'm not afraid to die alone if it means not living a lie everyday and keeping someone from finding their person. My ex of 7yrs, he's married and fathered 1 of the 7kids he raises now. I had a brief 8month relationship where I thought that would happen but it didn't work out so 4yrs after breaking up with him to find my person, 8months of happiness with someone who lied to me about who they really were as a person, I'm still single. Would be nice if someone genuinely want me for longer than 1-4wks 😆 🤣 😂 😹

I enjoy the chance to relax but I'd rather be working than sitting at home broke and alone. If I wasn't broke, I could be alone at a mini con, a boba tea house, or treat myself to Kuras. I'm so bored

Oh joy, the weekend.

Hi, so this is rather embarrassing to post, But i'm a 35 yr old South African male looking for someone decent. I'm a big metal head, gamer and work as a Fitness Instructor but don't expect a six pack, i like good food lol.

Just Looking For Someone Decent

I find it disappointing that I'm not even talking to anyone that makes me feel excited for the future. I might have the future my best friend talks about but that means being single for the rest of my life or ending up with him instead of a man who wouldn't ever be cruel to me in any way. New year, same disappointing life goals. Maybe I will have a relationship where neither party has crossed lines and hurt feelings on purpose just to make the other one hurt. Or maybe I'll give up again.

New year

Need someone to chill with and develop a relationship my daughter keeps asking me what happend to my (ex)gf who cheated on me lol 😆

Omg! Found myself a man willing to put up with my variety of crazy! So, now his sleep schedule will leave me alone after work, like before I met him smfh. At least I got to meet him, hopefully get to enjoy things til a mutual end, *sigh* I'm dead ass when I tell my 26yr old coworkers, find someone sooner than later cause we're not all handling aging the same lol

Womp womp

So this guy I've been talking to for a wk and have spent time at his place a few times now, said he would text me later around 5pm yesterday when i left his place. I sent him "sleeping next to you is definitely better than by myself lol. Hope you are rested, goodnight " around 230am cause that is my bedtime. Around 3pm I sent "hope you're day is going well" and then around 5pm I sent "idk if you are still sleeping since I left or if I'm bothering you, or if you're done with me. I'm sorry if this bothers you, it bothers me..." so then around 6 I sent "hope to hear from you soon" so, 717pm he sent "hii sorry, I'm at my brother's, we were on the horses. Didn't mean to make you feel weird" and I sent "ah, ok, glad you're OK. Sorry" he sent "dint be sorry"  

Comments? Thoughts? I think things are still going foward but idk, I'm trying to tread slowly

Ok...

Idk why it's so hard to find someone to understand u and u work ... your ass off to kids your kids and live u wanted growing up .... I guess that not what ppl want now and days .....

Single

What is online dating so hard now and days

Tired of the single life

So I was showing a coworker the kind of men I date Me: "He's 26" 
Coworker: "he actually looks good" 
😆😂
Me: He better look good, he's younger than me

Even better still is that it dawned on me that he's 8yrs younger than me 😆 

He's for fun not for ltr tho lol

🤣

I'm so tired of crying and feeling like life has exhausted me to the point that I wouldn't be opposed to accepting my death tomorrow. I would never harm myself or others to see that happen but based on a past near death experience at the hands of my 1st and only husband I ever had, I would accept it. What point is my life if I'm trying too hard or not enough or going the wrong way with my life because I want a relationship with someone but I can't force myself to be with guys I don't personally consider attractive and since I don't want to be in a relationship with a guy I'm not attracted to and a bottle of lube, I'm supposed to be alone for being shallow which is hilarious considering my preference is 300lbs 6ft 7 Trinidadian to 190lbs 6ft 1 Scottish to 200lbs 6ft Mexican/German,  I'd say I'm not shallow, plus people that say that, make "faces" when they see pics of what kind of men I'm into. Tbh it's facial structure and eyes that get me lol

So tired

So he goes from getting a house in a different state but then he suggests something in the same state and area I live in. Thing is, he said it was a mistake to spend hrs confessing he was in love with me and wanted to be the one to stop all the misfortune I've experienced dating. Lol I would be more interested if he was my bf but I'll pass lol. How awesome is it, that he already told me the last time I saw him, to find somewhere to live at the end of our current lease and acts like he didn't 😆 I'm not reminding him, I remember tho lol

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