Singleat30 Community

Cant change some tastes

I've attempted to date younger men, me 36 them 28-33 which is still fair ahe gap wise but I prefer older men. Things are getting really tricky with men over 35 getting out of long term relationships and having raised a family that theyre not immediately looking for a new relationship even if… read more

New dating territory

I'm going for less than 10yrs younger. Just starting a conversation with a 29yr old, 6yrs younger. I cant explain why but it seems men my own age dont have the same interests for a relationship as I do. Successful young men are an attractive opportunity lol. I work 2 jobs because of being in debt… read more

I'm getting better

Laughed when the guy who asked me out decided to stop responding before setting a day or time for 24hrs saying "sorry I fell asleep" I didn't pursue meeting him and he didn't bring it back up either. The end. Still frustrating but he's not for me. I want a man that doesn't fall asleep when we're… read more

Yes, exactly

Single forever?

The real struggle about finding for the right one when you're 30s and over

Normal

Aren't there any Normal men out there in there 30's who live in or around my area?

I just want to be pampered 😭

Why is so hard to find someone…. 😣

Being the best ex

Grr

Being alone isn't great. Spent another weekend laying in bed alone. Tired of people saying there's nothing wrong with being alone when those same people have family, friends, kids, or spouses. Plus typing everything instead of real verbal conversations are time consuming

Dating lol

Within 2 or 3 conversations, men ask me why or or would I go back to working day shift because they work days. I work nights for my health. Waking up at 4-5am was causing my mental health to suffer, I struggled to force myself to sleep because I don't struggle with sleep if it's 2-5am and I was… read more

F***

I thought trying to see where things would go with this guy that wanted a full on relationship from the first day instead of running would be something different and it wasn't smh.

Catch 22

I love this compliment 🥰

I like you. You have good grammar and form coherent sentences. That tells me everything I need to know about you.

Can always count on it

Lol

Showed a 26yr old coworker a pic of what I find attractive and she said he was ugly lol. I told her, don't become single later in life cause none of us are looking better with age lol

"Respect"

So this guy seriously asked me 5x in an hr if I wanted to meet irl and I told him after the 1st time that don't meet right away. He thinks I'm stupid lol. He said "sorry, I'm trying to be respectful, just trying to figure out what you would want to do when we can meet" smh. Annoying smh.

Wishful thinking

I want the type of man who will take turns telling stories about us and everyone can see us really be happy together.

Idk what I'm doing

So is it normal for someone to be super hard to reach but they still say they're interested in me but I only got 2 conversations in a week because they are busy running marketing and branding for multiple companies but idk if that's really true yet. Am I the crazy one for thinking that it's odd to… read more

Bored

Anyone to chat with?

Pre irl meeting

Should there be a q and a for figuring out if you can live with someone in the future when you haven't even met in person? Is it similar to asking if that person wants kids? Or letting me know they prefer I use mouth wash because it's the compromise to me being a smoker? Nothing makes sense anymore

Damn

Alone as per usual smh. Disappointed I was having a great time with someone but in less than 24hrs he wanted a full relationship. No one stays in my life longer than 1month unless my best friend, roommate, and friend in TN count but none of them is my boyfriend or future husband so to me, they are… read more

Oh joy, the weekend.

I enjoy the chance to relax but I'd rather be working than sitting at home broke and alone. If I wasn't broke, I could be alone at a mini con, a boba tea house, or treat myself to Kuras. I'm so bored

Just Looking For Someone Decent

Hi, so this is rather embarrassing to post, But i'm a 35 yr old South African male looking for someone decent. I'm a big metal head, gamer and work as a Fitness Instructor but don't expect a six pack, i like good food lol.

New year

I find it disappointing that I'm not even talking to anyone that makes me feel excited for the future. I might have the future my best friend talks about but that means being single for the rest of my life or ending up with him instead of a man who wouldn't ever be cruel to me in any way. New year,… read more

Need someone to chill with and develop a relationship my daughter keeps asking me what happend to my (ex)gf who cheated on me lol 😆

Womp womp

Omg! Found myself a man willing to put up with my variety of crazy! So, now his sleep schedule will leave me alone after work, like before I met him smfh. At least I got to meet him, hopefully get to enjoy things til a mutual end, *sigh* I'm dead ass when I tell my 26yr old coworkers, find someone… read more

Ok...

So this guy I've been talking to for a wk and have spent time at his place a few times now, said he would text me later around 5pm yesterday when i left his place. I sent him "sleeping next to you is definitely better than by myself lol. Hope you are rested, goodnight " around 230am cause that is… read more

Single

Idk why it's so hard to find someone to understand u and u work ... your ass off to kids your kids and live u wanted growing up .... I guess that not what ppl want now and days .....

Single

What is online dating so hard now and days

Tired of the single life

🤣

So I was showing a coworker the kind of men I date Me: "He's 26" Coworker: "he actually looks good" 😆😂 Me: He better look good, he's younger than me Even better still is that it dawned on me that he's 8yrs younger than me 😆 He's for fun not for ltr tho lol

So tired

I'm so tired of crying and feeling like life has exhausted me to the point that I wouldn't be opposed to accepting my death tomorrow. I would never harm myself or others to see that happen but based on a past near death experience at the hands of my 1st and only husband I ever had, I would accept… read more

Damn

I found it depressing that I thought to myself " it doesnt matter if I sleep on the couch" reminds me of "I'll eat whatever I want for dinner and stay up as late as I want" like shoot, what part of being an adult isn't double edged? Lol.

...

So he goes from getting a house in a different state but then he suggests something in the same state and area I live in. Thing is, he said it was a mistake to spend hrs confessing he was in love with me and wanted to be the one to stop all the misfortune I've experienced dating. Lol I would be… read more

Supppp who single in there 03’s come join let’s get lit

Patience...

Only time passing can determine if this guy will have to bow out because we work 2 different schedules (he's 7am-5pm and I'm 2pm-10:30pm) I'm typically awake til 2-6am and then start my day 7-10am. He pulled 2 all nighters and please don't say I should've let him sleep because I told him it was 1,… read more

What Do you Think Of My Self Done Hair Cut?

Figured i'll try, maybe i'll meet with someone, I'm from Durban, South Africa