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Hope is overrated

"I hope she likes me back". "I hope true love finds me". "I hope a rich beautiful girl would come knocking at my door while I sit on my phone and scroll without making an iota of effort" Most of us feel unlucky because we hope for such things. Things where you just totally let pure chance take... read more

Maybe it’s me tbh

I often get asked why I’m still single. They say, “you’re too pretty to still be single” “no way someone like you is still single” “I’m shocked you haven’t been snatched up”. And while I’m flattered that people think so highly of me, it’s not so much a matter of IF I can find someone. I’m sure I... read more

Perspective changes as we mature...

When I was 15, I thought my parents were relatively ignorant and that I had it all figured out... At 25, I thought the 15 year old version of me was stupid, and had loads to learn... At 35, I laughed at how "stupid" I was at 25, but looked at that past version of myself with way more... read more

Introduce myself

Hi I am Jessica I came here to find cool people and talk and laugh and if I found someone interesting why not? I thought that I’ve found someone but it was not working… it happens I know but I was so clear and I feel as a big trash because I feel that he didn’t feel the same as me and he played... read more

Have you found your match online ever ? I mean like soul connection ?

So, recently I had a bad experience and I can see why others are advising me not to date online. Seems like most matches happen offline and those who are unable to find dates come online. But this differs for us, Infjs due to our personality. It is very hard to click with someone when you're... read more