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Cat-a-strophe

18h

INTJ

Scorpio

54

Killer version

They say the fog doesn’t create monsters. It reveals them. She learned early that the world doesn’t reward mercy. It rewards awareness. She watched people panic, hesitate, wait for permission to act. She didn’t. When things started to burn, she understood something most never do: fire isn’t chaos.... read more

Ezra

17h

INFP

Pisces

In time.

In time, I can finally wear my own set as an actual Groom. For now, I'll settle as the Best Man and the Groomsman. 😊

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19d

ISFP

Cancer

45

Don't be used as the introverted friend for people to trauma dump on.

People who like to yap about themselves and their own problems. Don't settle for being the emotional weight blanket friend. If they're not asking questions about you then it's not a mutual connection. Unless you don't mind being a therapist.

Anna

16d

INFP

Gemini

67

Absolutely. Don't settle, don't change for someone. Grow, stay patient.

Chrissy

6d

INFJ

Taurus

34

"WOW well done so what youre the most educated woman in your family 🙄 that doesnt get you a man. You'll be 32 with some stupid PhD wanting to settle down - competing with the fresh young pretty 18 year olds who are ready for REAL men and you'll have no one and be lonely."

This was said to me when I told a few guys at my mates birthday gathering that I have a bachelors, a masters and im doing an integrated degree while working full time in a laboratory to become a registered scientist. Had a great time informing them that I didnt do all this for a man - a man is... (edited) read more

Caterina

15d

INTJ

Capricorn

67

You deserve to be seen too

I’ve had a few people reach out about my last post, mentioning that I seem really ‘optimistic.’ To be clear, I’m not coming from a place of toxic positivity. I’m actually quite burnt out and exhausted myself. ​It’s just interesting to observe how many people believe they need to reach a ‘finished’... read more