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Looking back at my photos from a month ago, I was definitely leaner, and yes, a little insecurity kicked in. 😂 I guess as women, we sometimes associate being slim with being feminine. But a month ago, I couldn't do a pull-up without a band. Today? 5 unassisted reps, 3 sets! Learning to appreciate… read more
I've been contemplating the distinction between uncertainty and insecurity. We often associate emotional security with stability, predictability, and knowing where we stand. But even the most predictable circumstances can become emotionally exhausting when the people involved lack… read more
Throughout my life, there have always been weak, low-resource entities who tried to 'gang up' on me, desperately using social isolation tactics hoping to see me break. But I'm sorry to burst your bubble, I’ve been training for this since I was 13 years old. I recently remembered the exact moment… read more
Is a healthy relationship one where you never have to question your place in someone's life, or one where you can voice that insecurity and still feel safe?
I’ve had people ask me: “How are you still single” or “why are you still single?” I’ve also had people tell me: “Nobody wants to be single for forever” or “if they really love you, they won’t care about dealing with your health condition.” I often say in response: look at the culture. We live in a… (edited) read more
Humiliation is not leadership, it’s insecurity. Strong leaders correct in private. Weak ones perform cruelty in public. When your manager/boss/coworker humiliates you in public, it’s not always about your performance. Sometimes, it’s about their insecurity and need to feel powerful. Don’t let… read more
~Because your friend/soulmate shouldn't need a detective licence. 1. Thou Shalt Not Catfish Thyself. 🐟 Your face, please. Not your cat, dog, car, sunset or favourite cartoon character. They're lovely, but which one am I supposed to date? 2. The Witness Protection Programme Is Not a Dating… read more
For us humans, time is cruel. It waits for no one, it is spent with or without your consent, and none of it can ever be returned to you. The limited number of choices we made every day in our lives, has shaped us into who we are today, and the unfortunate, will lament the invisible path we walked… read more
It seems to be the case that people who say in their bios that they dislike time wasters, emotionally immature people and insecurity usually are all of the above. Much like the ones who say "no drama!" Are the ones most likely to bring drama to the table. Please stop highlighting traits that you… read more
Because if you’re struggling to cover your monthly expenses and have to cut back on essentials just to make ends meet, perhaps that’s not a topic worth leading with. More importantly, I don’t care how much money, property, or status someone has. The first thing a person should have is good… read more
Your new partner shouldn’t have to compete with a ghost. When you constantly bring your ex into your new relationship, whether it’s through comparison, unresolved anger, or frequent mentions, you aren't fully present. Here is the reality: It’s unfair: Your new partner is a completely different… read more
Money doesn’t create happiness, but lacking it creates stress, insecurity, and suffering. If you can’t afford basic needs like food or shelter, happiness isn’t even the question. At every point in history, survival has required some form of exchange money, labor, or goods. Nothing has ever been… read more
Do guys know that when every picture of them features a hat… we know what’s going on up there? It’s basically the male version of the “perfect selfie angle” — strategically deployed, historically by women, to look a little more petite. Same energy, different insecurity. Own the bald babes. All… read more
Do platonic friendships even exist anymore between the opposite sex? I feel like it’s really rewarding to get the perspective of the other side without directly asking your partner. Friends are able to be a good third party, but I feel like insecurity doesn’t let these things happen… read more
my buddy is currently dealing with some insane instagram drama. his girlfriend of 3 months literally monitors his 'following' list and his likes daily. last night she started a massive fight because he liked a funny meme posted by a female classmate from his university. she literally accused him of… read more
Sometimes Love doesn't fade because of wrong people. Sometimes, Wrong time , wrong place , wrong circumstances does play a role . One can see these as a challenge to build a relationship but these challenges have power to change a person 180° . Sometimes, Fate does play a role . Whatever He… read more
There are employers who genuinely celebrate seeing their employees grow, build wealth, buy land, build homes, start businessesbor become better versions of themselves. In fact, the healthiest leaders understand that when people around them grow, it is not a threat to them but rather, it is a… read more
Jealousy change the spirit of a relationship à jealous friend or family member is more dangerous than an ennemi why? Ennemi attack from a distance friends attack from access they know your vulnerability or insecurity even your weak moments they know your heart even use it against you jealousy and… read more
I feel like so many people on here are so indecisive about their desires and how to get them. My brain just analyzes the language and posts without trying. The insecurity is incredibly obvious. For those of you who are like this, what are you so scared of besides made up rejection? What do you… read more
What if you are single forever? This is a question I had to face a few years ago, after a friend of mine took his own life and we later found out why. At the time, I was recovering from a permanent injury I had sustained in the gym. I had been training far too hard, sometimes three times a day,… read more
If I found out my partner lied to me, my first reaction wouldn’t be anger — it would be concern about why they felt the need to lie. Not all lies carry the same weight. A small, fear-driven lie is different from a repeated or intentional betrayal. I would step back and try to understand the reason… read more
I'm gonna talk from a place of insecurity here. As somebody who's incredibly short, I don't really know what it is that a partner would want in me. I'm 110lbs so honestly I can't do that whole strong dwarf thing either. I'm more of a ... Geek? My two different variations of impressive are "look at… read more
Where wealth and comfort gives a false sense of freedom. And blaming everyone that's different for endangering that 'freedom (of speech)' makes us blind to see that the 'NORM' is conditioned by the powerful structures that benefit from our compliance. The very systems that profit from our… read more
I am very confused these days.. I look myself in the mirror and acknowledge all of my accomplishments, be them personal or collective 🌸 my dreams, my memories, my knowledge and my contribution to this universe 🌸 But I did dare do something that I have been long warned to watch out for and I… read more
** In many cases ladies [8/10] your guy friend is just wainting for you to open a different door.
You cannot constantly sexualize yourself online, fish for validation from thousands of thirsty men, and then cry that “men don’t take me seriously.” You’re not being misunderstood. You’re being judged by the behavior you repeatedly choose to display. And no, calling a thirst trap “confidence”… read more
I can't stand it when people are so insecure about their maturity, no there's nothing wrong with being whimsical, or with playing tag or hide and seek as an adult. Ironically, it's actually better for your brains 🤷🏽♂️
In a place where commodification of people and ideas is commonplace, it can feel overwhelming and disheartening to seek out authenticity, One night stands to mask a deeper sense of insecurity or longing to spend your time building with someone who wants to see you equally succeed, to wake up to and… read more
Don't seek validation online. Algorithms need the barest whiff of this to clobber you with content that will make you feel worse. If they get hold of any level of insecurity, you become a marketing target. If you need validation, find it amongst your friends, family and community, or find one… read more
Insecurity is my middle name
When a woman loves a younger man, they step outside of societal scripts and into a unique relationship dynamic. Can it work? Absolutely. Love is not governed by a birth certificate, but by emotional maturity, shared values, and mutual respect. However, age-gap relationships bring distinct joys and… read more
Hello, I’m… someone who has come to the realization that I am not a good person and I don’t think I ever really have been. There are people in this world whom I have traumatized and hurt who genuinely hate me. It sounds cliche but I just want to be a good person. I don’t want to hurt people… read more
My self hatred revealed a past buried in bruises and broken trust, of the boy i was lost in a family torn asunder by dramatic thunder. My fear revealed a fragile sun shadowed by dark storms trying to drag me into the fire, every broken bond a jagged wound in my chest that tore at my soul like… read more
