Safety Community

Uh oh

So, since I live an hr away from my bf, I'm supposed to drive to him every other weekend. This weekend is mine and it might rain. Currently I have one wiper that is supposed to be 2 wipers and he wasnt worried about my safety when we both know the one he left me doesnt work properly. His 1st… (edited) read more

Prologue: The Promise at the Gate

(prologue longer than this just limit on here) Helios woke before the sun, the room cloaked in darkness. He lingered in bed, listening. Usually, at this hour, he'd hear the familiar scrape of his father's whetstone, his boots crossing the floor to the water basin, and his mother's gentle humming… read more

Are we attracted to love, or what’s familiar?

Another thought I’ve been having lately… I find it fascinating how much our childhood might influence who we’re attracted to as adults. Especially the relationship we had with our parents. We might find ourselves drawn to certain people, not necessarily because they’re right for us, but because… read more

Fight, flight, or freeze

Everyone has occasions where one reaction wins out over the others, but it does seem as though the most common reaction to stress is to freeze up. I’ve spent a while thinking about how to find people who fall into either the fight or flight mode as a default among the “freeze” masses. Do you know… read more

Today I ended a seven year friendship

Feeling crushed. However, I needed to do it for my own safety.

How long will his grace period last lol

I have a baby gate blocking my room when I keep my door open to keep the big cat out. The kitten can still fit between the bars, so it means my room is the *safe zone* Which means he has been harassing the big cat and then diving into the safety of my room. Big cat is already DONE with his… read more

No photo is worth risking your life. Waterfalls can be unpredictable and deadly in seconds. Reckless choices don’t just endanger you they put rescuers’ lives at risk, too. Please put safety before the perfect shot.

Relationship

"IT TAKES MONTHS TO BUILD EMOTIONAL SAFETY, BUT ONLY SECONDS TO SHATTER IT." Words in a relationship aren’t just sounds, They are bricks. You are either using them to build trust, or throwing them to break it down. When we get angry or careless, we often say things we can’t take back. But… read more

An appeal to my community

So my grandmother passed away last month. Her name was Deb and she was a second mother to me. She was diagnosed with glaucoma and within four months she was gone. She just couldn't keep up the fight anymore. My grandmother and I were both redcoats at playhouse square for four years while I was in… read more

Maid — Finding the Strength to Begin Again

A moving drama about a young mother trying to build a safer life for herself and her daughter. Heartbreaking in places, but filled with small moments of hope. This 10-episode Netflix limited series is inspired by Stephanie Land’s memoir. Main Cast • Margaret Qualley as Alex • Andie MacDowell as… read more

Diagnostic shift

Before attempting to fix a part, it is worth asking three questions that redirect attention from the element to the structure: First: What is this element connected to?** Not what it does in isolation. What feeds it, what it feeds, what it depends on, what depends on it. Second: If I change this… read more

Really gotta humble these damn pilots sometimes... some of them need a reality check fr Safety is an illusion

Sweet Revenge

Sometimes, the greatest victory is getting your peace back. Sometimes, you reach a point in life where you are so fed up with a situation that you don't even want to argue anymore. You simply hand it over to the Lord and let life take its course. Let me tell you a little story. There was a man who… read more

He’s singing the song of his people

He enjoys the safety of the baby gate during Patrick’s nap time.

Vampire 👻

Imagine walking alone at night and suddenly coming across a vampire.. or Dracula The strange part? They’re extremely attractive.. the kind of beautiful/handsome that instantly catches attention But there’s one problem.. you have no idea what they want Maybe they’re just passing by.. maybe they… read more

If you want to change your life, then you have to change. This start with changing some of your habits ...

... but first of all : Remember this will be harder, or impossible, if you don't change some of your everyday's life components: - who you spend time with - who you talk with - what you eat or drink - what you read or listen to - games you play - where you're living Some are more or less… read more

What If it turns out my gentle, loving, generous and respectful personality, is just trauma talking?

Because I crave safety and love, I try to become something people would never abandon or hurt, would I still be a good person then or would this make me some gross narcissistic manipulator? I just want to be loved and wanted man, and I don't even know if I'm authentic in being a good person. This… read more

One... Two

One... Two..." by Crowning Flame is a song about anxiety, panic attacks, and finding safety through grounding techniques and emotional support from a loved one

🌎✈️ FROM MEXICO TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD

Have you ever met someone online from another country and eventually decided to travel abroad to meet them in person? I’m from Mexico, and I’m considering making that journey to meet someone I’ve been getting to know. Beyond flights, hotels and safety, I’m especially curious about the human side… read more

Safety first

His hell is hers

I'm trying to come up with self indulgent sequel fanfiction for Hell Is Us a game only 2 others have played and has zero fandom but my god do I love it. To most this will be random ramblings because it's all in game context but I need to put my thoughts out into the void somehow! I had a sudden… read more

The 🌽ell 5️⃣7️⃣

The circumstances surrounding the lawsuit serve as a reminder that we should exercise reasonable caution and avoid placing unquestioning trust in others. Personal safety and awareness are particularly important when there may be a significant disparity in physical strength or power. As women, we… read more

Durian

DURIAN IN THE LAB🧪 Durian, a fruit widely enjoyed in the Philippines, has shown an unexpected effect in laboratory research. Scientists found that a specially prepared extract from the fruit could trigger cell death in human leukemia cells grown in a laboratory. The study examined Durio… read more

Anger can be a safety mechanism

Found this and I've been arguing with myself since. Can anger actually protect someone? Especially women?

Fire Safety, Occupational Safety & Environmental Protection

A little glimpse into our family business. Unfortunately, the engineering side of my work isn’t exactly easy to capture in photos.

Question for men here: what was the specific moment that made you realise you wanted to ask a certain girl on a first date?

What’s the difference between a girl you're happy just chatting with and one you feel compelled to ask out? As a woman, I look for safety and leadership in a man before considering dating him. And it usually takes a conversation for me to make that decision - I'd be curious to know what other… read more

Does music affect you?

Like, for example I love rock music, but it give me energy and so if I drive, I take road safety very seriously, so I can't drive while listening to rock, as it makes me wanna speed and go by the beat of the music, so I won't do that ofc, so I listen to something more chill and soft while driving.… read more

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Safety, first.

My very first graphical art endeavor from years ago.

This represents my Inner child I preserved and hid from the world but not myself, Guiding me the Tiny Warrior Through the illusory soul school and testing ground we can life or the human experience. I tried to create the Hermetic " As above so below, as within so without" while hinting at multiple… (edited) read more

Would you rather live in a would with only men or women?

Justify ur answer, whats comes to ur mind, safety or pleasure?

Sagittarius ♐

Today I reflect on who I am becoming. I am a Sagittarius, and my heart is always searching for meaning, truth, and freedom. My journey has not been easy. I have walked through disappointment, confusion, and quiet pain. Sometimes I felt lost, sometimes tired. But even then, something inside me kept… read more

hmm

A lot of people ask me, “Why are you so obsessed with Psychology? Why do you push yourself so hard, even when you’re stressed, exhausted and barely have the energy left? What are you actually looking for in life? Is it because Psychology has good career opportunities?” Honestly, it’s not really… read more

What's something the world has taught you that no one explicitly told you?

The real monsters are human. Every story, every book, every show, every boogeyman... All human. We just dress them up in strange and grotesque imagery to make ourselves feel better. Because if it's hideous, if it's frightening, it makes it easier for us. It makes us feel like there's something we… read more

You are important!

I don't know who needs to hear this today, but with the state of the world today, I felt it's important to say. For anyone struggling with their day to day, their mental health, physical health, relationships, and safety. You are seen. You are important. You are not a burden. You deserve… read more

My Emotional Decisions for This New Year 🤍

In this new year of my life, I want a relationship with heart… but with reason, too. With passion… but with safety. With romance… but with maturity. And I want to remain myself: a woman who loves deeply, but never forgets herself while loving. 🤍 Maybe that is the sentence I want to carry with me… (edited) read more

Why modern dating patterns punish emotionally available people?

One of the most destabilizing patterns I've noticed among clients (as a psychological counselor) in modern dating is that detachment is often rewarded, while emotional availability, regardless of gender, is quietly punished. Many emotionally available men and women enter dating with clarity,… (edited) read more

THE LORD JESUS CHRIST IS ALL YOU NEED

My brothers and sisters in Christ, our struggles can sometimes seem unbearable. We may find ourselves thinking that we are unable to go on. Our burdens seem too much to carry. We can be left exhausted and spent. When we are weak, the strength of the Lord Jesus Christ is perfected. It is he who… read more