Just thinking. Being a single guy is like shopping for a new car with an average paycheck. You want a Porsche, you'd settle for a Toyota, but all you can afford is the old Ford in the back with the rusted floor boards and vomit stains in the back seat... Guess I'll keep riding my bike.

#showerthoughts

Kostas

10h

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

It's Sunday! Wake up and stretch like you're being reborn in a shampoo commercial! Repeat after me:

My aura is glowing, my heart is healing. My vibe is blessed. I will manifest wildly, I will forgive deeply. I will romanticize my coffee. This is not just any Sunday, it’s the prequel to legendary Monday. 💖🌤💫

#showerthoughts

Kostas

17h

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

They said cheating was the one thing they could never forgive. Told stories of betrayal with teary eyes and shaky breaths. Made loyalty sound sacred, like something carved in stone.

So it hit different when they were the one sending DMs, reacting to stories, sharing little jokes and private laughs with someone else. “No big deal,” they said. “Just talking.” But isn’t that always how it starts? A slow leak of attention. A little intimacy siphoned off. And suddenly, the person... read more

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Kostas

1d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

So you like to match with people who look like trauma, sound like your ex, type like a concussion.. and still hope they’ll be the one to make a difference?

Why this happens? 🤔

#showerthoughts

Kostas

17h

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

At first, it was fireworks. They said things like “Where have you been all my life?” Called every day. Texted all night. Planned futures in the span of weeks. Defences start to drop. It felt like a fairytale, until it didn’t.

Suddenly, they were “too busy.” Too tired. Too overwhelmed. Not enough time, not enough space, not enough them. And when confusion crept in? When someone dared to ask, “What changed?” they twisted the 🔪 “You’re pressuring me.” “You don’t understand me.” “Why are you doing this to us.” And then,... read more

#showerthoughts

Will

1y

ENTP

Scorpio

Comment 3 things on your bucket list you just have to do before you leave this earth 🌎

#showerthoughts

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7h

INTP

9

1

I will never forget those who came with the lanterns when I was alone in the dark, not to fix me— but only sit next to me until I could see the light again.

#showerthoughts

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7h

INTP

9

1

I find comfort in being distant, esp when I am dealing with my own struggles too. That's my coping mechanism. "Take your time" "Everyone heals differently"

#showerthoughts

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1y

INTP

9

1

Probably

#showerthoughts

Quinn

16h

INTP

9

1

What's one thing that you had to learn to love about yourself that is now something that you're deeply proud of?

#showerthoughts

Akshay

1y

ESTP

Aquarius

7

8

Why!!!

When will I get better?

#showerthoughts

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1d

INTP

9

1

🤌🤌✨✨

#showerthoughts

Natasha

6h

INFJ

Gemini

9

1

Yep 🤪

#showerthoughts

Zero

6h

INTP

Aquarius

Trust

Most relationships built on absolute trust falter because they never learned how to deal with loss of it. Likewise alot of the most trusting relationships started with little trust and earned each piece through communication and hard work.

#showerthoughts

𝔇𝔦𝔞𝔫𝔞

17h

INTJ

Virgo

8

7

That’s 💯 Ronnie 😄 ppl better stop this cringé

#showerthoughts

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2h

INTP

9

1

🐢🐢💚💚

#showerthoughts

Tony

4d

ENTJ

Bromosexuals?

Hear me out, there are a lot of men that do nothing but post complaints on here about how bad women are. Since they think women are so bad and men are so good, why not encourage these men to pair up? They don't have to be romantic partners because "that would be gay" rather they could be bros with... read more

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Jen

1d

ISFJ

Libra

1

9

Might be true

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Jen

1d

ISFJ

Libra

1

9

Career

#showerthoughts

Kostas

3d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

Sometimes you’re not ghosted because of who you are. You’re ghosted because a group chat full of people you’ve never met already decided you weren’t good enough.

Painful eh 🥂

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

You keep asking the universe for a sign but ignore every red flag like it’s a vintage aesthetic. No wonder it’s sending you lessons in bulk.

I mean, that's what it is 🚿

#showerthoughts

Jen

1d

ISFJ

Libra

1

9

Different mood

#showerthoughts

Kostas

3d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

No matter how soft you were, how much you tried, or how honest you stayed... Someone out there still tells the story with you as the villain. And honestly? Let them. If you are going to be misunderstood either way, you might as well wear the crown. 👑 ✨

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

Eh.

Maybe the real problem isn’t ghosting. Maybe it’s the fact you thought you were entitled to a response just because you felt something.

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

Eventually, you figure it out. Being sweet gets you used, being nice gets you ignored, and being soft gets you steamrolled. So you evolve.

Into what? 🧊🚿

#showerthoughts

Kostas

2d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

🌟 Hello, Friday, we've been waiting for you. Repeat after me:

Today is a celebration of how far I’ve come, and a promise of all that’s still unfolding. I release the weight of the week and open my hands to receive what’s meant for me. Joy is not a reward, it’s my right. Peace is not passive, it’s a choice I make. Success is already on the way, because... read more

#showerthoughts

Micah

2d

ESTJ

Capricorn

8

7

…

I feel like people get to know each other in the wrong order when it comes to relationships and they end up getting attached to someone they can never go through life with. You need to discuss the hard stuff, the things that matter the most. Faith. Ideology. Values. Morals. Do you want kids. Do you... read more

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

The hardest lesson? Some people never saw your light because they were too committed to believing the lie they needed you to be.

And yet you tried... a beautiful lie 😔🥀

#showerthoughts

Kostas

2d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

You weren’t confused. You were convenient. If they wanted you, you’d know. If they respected you, you wouldn’t be questioning everything. They’re just people who like your warmth but never planned to stay through winter.

Situationships aren’t mysteries 🥂

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

"They’ll change once they get to know us" Reality: They got to know us and upgraded all red flags.

Keep wishing though 🥂

#showerthoughts

Kostas

1d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

Somewhere, in a splintered timeline, we live the life we whispered about at 3AM.

We laugh. We dance in ugly kitchens and buy overpriced fruit. We don’t hurt each other. We stay. We made it.

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

If every lost sock represented a failed situationship, we'd be the CEOs of emotional bankruptcy and missing laundry.

Just think about it, how many did you lose this month?

#showerthoughts

Jess 🌻

26d

ENFP

Taurus

4

5

💡

#showerthoughts

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4d

INTP

9

1

I used to be jealous of harry potter for being able to communicate w/ the 🐍. Little did I know, I've been talking to quite a few 🐍 at work & some family events!

--- Turns out I have ability to do parseltongue, too.

#showerthoughts

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6d

INTP

9

1

Me as an animagus, I will change my form to be a giant queen octopus, who can slap up to eight people at once, or slap that 1 person eight times.

#showerthoughts

Kostas

4d

ENFP

Cancer

9

1

Repeat with me:

I do not seek light. I do not crave ease. Let the weak chase comfort, I chase control. Every wound taught me precision. Every silence sharpened my edge. What breaks others, builds me. I do not evolve. I discard what was never meant to last. I do not align. I bend the pattern to my will. This... read more

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Ana

3d

INFP

Libra

5

6

I just realized I've never actually met somebody named Max.

I've seen people named Max in media like movies and books but never is real life.

#showerthoughts

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2d

INTP

9

1

"Girl, you are too picky" "Lower your standards" My future hubby, he's gonna have to carry me through the death of my parents ; and the birth of our sons. I am not too picky. You're not picky enough :)

#showerthoughts

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2d

INTP

9

1

The less you care, the more you can enjoy your life ❤️

#showerthoughts

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2d

INTP

9

1

This is you, several months after you said : "I can fix him..."

--- Just kidding! 🤭🤭 But seriously, we can't make somebody to be somebody... especially if they don't want to... you're not bob the builder, love yourself darling

#showerthoughts

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18d

INTP

9

1

Starting over is scary. But, do you know what is scarier?? Waking up in 10 years & you are still begging for the bare minimums. And, your whole life passed you by.

#showerthoughts

A 🂡 ۵༗🐺🪷⏳️🧭☄️

10d

ENFJ

Sagittarius

3

4

Why is it that people fantasise about the things they can't see or have and show less passion for what is in front of them and "present"?! Why can't we learn to live in the moment, more, and be appreciative of what we do have?!

FYI - the questions are rhetorical 😊 This is a random reflection because I was thinking about how much I love wild cats (panthers, leopards, tigers, lions...you name it) but how many times am I likely to come across them?! Whereas I do like house cats but I'm not thinking of them in such a... read more