Uluntu lwe-Nagging

Umhlobo wam uhlala ethi ndifanele ukugqoka ijezi kube kanye ngethuba ukuze ndibukeke njengo mkhulu. Kwaye ufumene ijezi ezi-2 kuphela kwiwardrobe yam, ndiyithokozile njengokuzonwabisa kwam ngoMsombuluko🙂‍↔️ Ufanisa umama wam ophazamisayo

Uphando lwePsychology ngemuva kokuphazamiseka.

Iposi elithakazelisayo lempilo evulekile.

Ngamanye amaxesha xa ndifumana i-DM ndifumana le nto ibuhlungu yokufuna ukuphendula ngathi "HAYI!" (Njengoko kwenzeka kwiOfisi) kodwa ke ndiyazigcina.. kuba ukuphendula kuya kwenza kube kubi ngakumbi.

[Oku kugxininisa ukuba abantu abaninzi abakhathali ngama-bio, ngakumbi xa abantu abanjalo sele bezame ukuthumela imiyalezo ngexesha elidlulileyo... kwaye uyazi ukuba babonile okanye i-bio yakho okanye omnye wale miba, apho uthi ngokukodwa awamkeli izicelo ezingenayo. 😑]

Kuhle Kakhulu

Andifuni ukuziva ngolu hlobo Iingxoxo ziphindaphindwa engqondweni yam Ezinye izinto ezingeyonyani kodwa ezidumazayo zathiwa Iimpazamo zikhokelela kumphakathi wokungakhathali I-armour yam yemotional ikhululekile kuphela Ndikhathele kokuba kuhle kuphela Iingcinga ezilungileyo zihlala…funda okungakumbi

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Uhambo olungaphandle komzimba olwenziwe kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Umoya wawuziva umxinwa ngelo xesha ndiphuma ngelo mva—umqondo ophindaphindiweyo, ohlala ungena engqondweni yokuba le mini ayilandelanga umkhondo ojolise kumjoliso. Ndandihamba ndiyokwiSikhumbuzo seDolophu, kodwa imimandla…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

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Ukungafi akusiyo ingxaki, ngempela yinto abantu bejolise kuyo iminyaka emininzi. Ingxaki ephambili yokungafi kukuphila nawe, isimo sengqondo sakho kunye neqiniso elinzima lokuba yonke into kunye nabantu obathandayo nabakhathalelayo baphume. Kwaye le nto ifanayo yokuba wena wedwa uphumelele, kwaye…funda okungakumbi

Ngokwenene

Ndijolise kwi "nto", into encinane kodwa njengemikhono egumbini lam iyandixhalabisa. Kwaye kule mikhono ndinokufunda. Ukufunda isifundo kwiintsizi. Xa ndandithathwe "ngokungafanelekanga" ithuba lokufunda into endiyenzayo, ndandixhalabile kakhulu. Kwaye apho ndafunda ukuba uvuyo lokufumanisa…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

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Kakhulu amagama Kancinci ukunceda Umnqweno wam wokubona Endaweni yokubanjwa kumjelo Iileta zihlala ziguquka Kodwa le miba iphinda-phinda Iibha kwi iphepha Kwaye intetho yam ibonakala ingabizi Iibha zecala lam Zivuliwe kwaye zikhululekile Kodwa andinakuphuma Ngaphandle…funda okungakumbi

I-chili cheese dip, u-dr.pepper, kunye ne-Malone MTG...akukho mntwana ophosa umnxeba kum. Ubomi buhle.

Uhlanga okanye umnqweno.....

Ndahamba emntla, umhlangano owawuhlelwe ngumhlobo wam omkhulu. Ngexesha lokuqala ndamjonga, ndavuma umuzwa omncinci, ophazamisayo we-déjà vu, njengesong esingaphelelanga. Wayenobuhle, enobuchule, kwaye emnandi, kodwa umuzwa wokwaziwa wawuqhubeka, uhleli phantsi kokufikelela. Ngexesha lomhlangano,…funda okungakumbi

Umphakathi kaAnuv Jain

Ndiyahamba kuAnuv Jain bukhoma eMumbai ngoFebruwari, ndifuna umhla, abangane bam bahlala bendixelela, ungakhathazeki ngamaTickets. Hmu

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Kwi silence apho le cancer ikhule khona Uphanda ukuxazulula umphakathi Ngeepuzzle ezithile Ithemba lihlala njengegossip edlalayo Ngenxa yokuba ndiyaphosa njengomhlaza onzima Ukhumbulo lwemihla yang yesterday Luziva njengemibhalo endala I-stinger isekhona emzimbeni wam Zonke ezi ngcinga…funda okungakumbi

Umtshato

Kubukeka ngathi umtshato nokuba nezingane ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu xa ndicinga ngawo. Iiphephandaba ezininzi kwi-mass okanye kwenye indawo zidlula kwiingxaki ezininzi... Ixesha lonke linikezelwe kwiingane. Kukho ukunceda. Yintoni ngempela, ngaba kukho nabani na onemava akhe angathanda ukwabelana…funda okungakumbi

Ukuthandana nomntu onengane/izigidi

Yintoni imbono yabantu bonke ngale ndaba? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba umntu endithandana naye akaphumelelanga, ndikhetha ukuba andizukuphinda ndithandane nomzali...ngeminyaka yam, 39, andikaze ndihlangane nomntu esifuna ukuthetha ngokutshata, okanye ukuba neengane...ndifuna enye okanye ezimbalwa zam…funda okungakumbi

Le mizwa ibuhlungu

Ngaba wakha waba nalo mizwa yokuhlukana, kwaye ibuhlungu kuwe.. Uphanda ukuba yintoni ebangela, ithemba lokunceda le mizwa.. Mhlawumbi yinto ye-physiological, njengee-hormones eziphazamisekileyo? Uxinzelelo emsebenzini? Uxhalabo malunga nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo? Andinakukwazi ukucacisa ukuba…funda okungakumbi

Ukuba unengcinga ezikukhathazayo, ndiyacinga ukuba kulungile ukuyibhala phantsi kwi-diary kwaye uyiphose. Ijolise kum, ndiyazi. Ndacinga njalo ekuqaleni kodwa ndabhala de isandla sam saphuka. Ndaphuma nazo zonke ezi ngcinga zibi. Kukho umphumo omhle.😊👏

Zama ukusebenzisa i-sticky note okanye umva wephepha elingaqhelekanga. Nje ukuba uqale ukubhala awukwazi ukuyeka. Hayi de zonke iingcinga ezikukhathazayo ziphume endleleni. Ndiyaziqinisekisa ukuba ndiyenza le nto iiyure ngaphambi kokulala. Njengoko ndiyazifaka izinto, ukubhala phantsi ukungonwabi…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Uhlanga lweNtliziyo olukhathazekileyo ngexesha lemidlalwano ye-yap.

Andiqinisekanga ukuba le yindawo efanelekileyo yokuphosa oku, tbf kuba ndiza kuphosa phantsi ekuseni uze andifanele ndiyiphose yonke le nto kodwa le yinkxalabo kum ndingakumbi. Ndiy... Ndiyoyika. Ndiyoyika ngezinto ezininzi, ndiyoyika ngokuphakamisa ithemba lam, ndiyoyika ngokucinga ukuba…funda okungakumbi

Yintoni ongathanda ukuba kuncinane kumlingane, ukuncamathela okanye ukuxhalaba?

Uthando Olugxile kwiMali Olubi

Ndiyibonile nje le mbono yokuba ukuba ukuba umfazi akayi kuba toxic, okungukuthi, ukulandela, ukuba neempawu ezingalunganga, ukuxhaphaza, ukuxhalaba, ukujonga iifowuni/indawo, akukho mfo uphila, bathi hayi kodwa ukhetho lwabo lukhumbuza. Ngaphezu koko, kukho uthando olugxile kwiimali apho kukho…funda okungakumbi

Ngaba ndiyedwa okanye...

Ngaba kukhona nabanye abanokuthi babe nezi ziqulatho ezithile okanye iilayirikhwe ozithanda, ezikukhathazayo zihlala engqondweni kwaye umva wokuthi kufuneka zithethwe ngoluvo?

Waterfast (uhlolo lomntu)

Ndikufuphi kwiiyure ezingama-40 ngoku. Ndandinemini entle kakhulu malunga neeyure ezi-12🥺😳 iyamangalisa, akunjalo? Haha. Ukutya kwam kokugqibela kwakungu-39 iiyure ezidlulileyo. Xa ndiphakame, umama wam wayedla i-lumpia kunye neebhredi ezibukeka njengepizza grabe sobrang bango ngomhla hahaha…funda okungakumbi

Ukuba unexesha... phosa ingxelo

Ndine mhlobo ongumfazi othethelelayo malunga nentsebenziswano yakutshanje awayenayo nomfo awayecinga ukuba ubhuti. Wayedidekile ngentsebenziswano yabo kwaye wayefuna ingcebiso. Ndandinika ingcebiso yam kwaye ngoku ndifuna ukwazi ukuba le nto ibonwa njani ngaphandle. Ndafumana imvume yokwabelana.…funda okungakumbi

Ukwanelisa Abantu

Kutheni “Ukwanelisa Abantu” kuhlala kucetyiswa ukuba kuxhomekeke kumfuno/wemfuno yomntu yokuthandwa? Ndiyavuma kwiintshukumo ezithathwa njenge “Ukwanelisa Abantu”, kodwa iimotivation zam zihlala kwiimeko ezimbini: 1) umphakathi kunye nomfuno ophilayo wokungabi yinkwenkwezi kwaye ungeze kwiintsuku…funda okungakumbi

Ndiziva ngathi ndifuna ukuxhalaba ngalo mntu omnye ongaphenduliyo kwiimiyalezo zam😂 hayi ndiyazama ukulwela le mfuneko kuba... banobomi.

Umfazi Omhle

Bonke abantu bafuna umfazi omhle… de kube sekufuneka akwenze ube ngcono. Ngoba nantsi inyaniso.... Umfazi omhle akayi kuhlala ngokuthula ngelixa unika yena ingxenye yomzamo wakho. Akayi kumukela ukuphathwa ngendlela engafanele futhi azame ukwenza kube yanele. Akayi kuziqhenya ngolimi lwakhe aze…funda okungakumbi

Ngubani Oyiqondayo.

Ndiyathembisa, oku kuqala ukujolisa kumxholo ophazamisayo ebomini bam, kwi-intanethi nakwi ndawo. Apho abantu bahlala bejolise kwicala elinye lokho ndikuxelelayo kwaye emva koko bazama ukuhamba ngendlela yokuphosa umphosa, bephoxekile. Kodwa babengalaleli. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezinjalo,…funda okungakumbi

Andizukuxoka. Ndiyabheda kakhulu phambi...

Kodwa ngoku, ndiyavuma. Kulungile, akukho more ukuxaka. Just blah blah blah blah okanye ulwimi lwebele. Kwaye ngemotion engalunganga ikhangela kuwe. Ndiyawuthanda umphikiso omde, just ndithintele kwaye ndiza kuba nokuthula emva koko ndiza kulalela ngononophelo zonke izichazi zakho.

UHLANGA ALUQHUBEKI UBUDLELWANO

Ubusuku abubumeli ubudlelwano, kukhathalelo lweemvakalelo zomntu olwakha kwaye lugcina ubudlelwano. Ukuba unomntu oqonda wena, onomonde ngawe, onothando lwangempela ngawe, okhathalelayo, okhumbulayo, onomdla ngawe, onobubele ngawe, ongathathi suku ngaphandle kokukubiza okanye ukuthumela i-SMS,…funda okungakumbi

Umfanekiso wobudlelwane

Ukuba ndithandwa ngendlela efanelekileyo, ndiyenza ngakumbi i-gagging kunokuba ndingxamele

Yeka Ukungcangcazela Kum

Le nto ibuhlungu...

Uke waba nomuzwa obuhlungu wokuba kukho into empilweni yakho engalunganga - kodwa awukwazi ukuyichaza? UMorpheus wayenento ethile kwi "The Matrix": “Ukhona ngoba uyazi into ethile. Into oyaziyo, awukwazi ukuyichaza. Kodwa uyayiva.” Le nto ibuhlungu, enganiki msebenzi? Ipsychology iyibiza ngokuba…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi