Umphakathi we-Ethnicities

Kubheke njengesikhangiso 😂 Ngineminyaka engu-43, ngivela eGeelong / Melbourne. Ngifuna umuntu engingaphola naye. Okuthile okungahlelekile nokukhululekile, ngaphandle kokulindela lutho. Ngikhangwa abesifazane bazo zonke izinhlanga, ngakho ngithinte uma unentshisekelo!

Ngifuna Abantu

💕 Ngifuna Uthando, Ubungani Nabantu Abangifanele! 💕 Sanibonani nonke! 👋🏾💜 Ngihlala eJacksonville, eFlorida, futhi ngifuna nokuxhumana nabantu abasendaweni yaseOrange Park, eFlorida! Okuncane ngami: Ngiyaziqhenya ngokuba yi-BLERD (umuntu omnyama othanda izinto zobuchwepheshe namasiko…funda kabanzi

Isifundo Esifushane Ngemikhakha...

Kubantu besifazane (ikakhulukazi abaseNtshonalanga) abathi baphokophele “ukuthola umlingani wase-Asia” noma “banentshisekelo emasikweni ase-Asia” lapho bechaza khona umuntu ophuma eJapan, eNingizimu Korea, noma eChina: ngiyacela, vele uthi i-East Asia. I-Asia iyindawo enkulu enezwe elingama-50…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Ngineminyaka engu-23 ubudala, angishadile futhi ngifuna owesifazane omhlophe ongumSulumane ozinikele enkolweni ukuze ngishade naye

Ngikhetha abesifazane abangamaCaucasian noma amaLatina, kodwa ngingamukela nezinye izinhlanga. Ngizoshada bese ngithuthela e-UAE entwasahlobo( kulungiswe )

Ukuthandwa: Ngiyazonda ukubonwa njengomuntu omnyama

Ngoba lokho kusho ukuthi abamhlophe bayisilinganiso futhi ukuthi bonke abantu abamnyama banelungelo lokuba balinganiswe lapho sazi ukuthi lokho akulona iqiniso. Kimi, abantu abamnyama basala phansi kwe-totem pole yonke indawo emhlabeni. Abantu base-Asia bahlala ngaphansi kwabamhlophe (nxa…funda kabanzi

Izeluleko...?

Ngemuva kokulahlekelwa isisindo, ngihambe ngishaywe kahle okokuqala eminyakeni - izinyathelo zami zokuqala zokuhambisana nomqondo/ukubonakaliswa kwami kobulili kodwa... ngithanda *ngempela* ukuthi kubukeka kanjani, ikakhulukazi emfanekisweni, ngikhombisa umphimbo wami ophansi emfanekisweni…funda kabanzi

Uma ungumshayeli wetekisi noma uhamba nje ukuze uthole imali eyengeziwe, khona-ke ukuba nalesi sithakazelo ezweni elandulele iSoviet kungase kwenze umgibeli wakho ahlabe umxhwele.

UMukhtar kimi njengomuntu ophakathi kwe-Baltic onezizinda ze-Slavic onolimi lwesiZulu lufana nekhaya lezinja zeGerman shepherd ezivela ochungechungeni lwe-TV lwaseRussia. Noma ubani owazi kancane isiRashiya uhlale enomusa ebusweni bakhe ngemva kokuzwa igama elithi Mukhtar.

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Nginephuzu eliqotho. Ngokwesibonelo, uma wena nomunye umuntu ningama-ethnicity ahlukene futhi/noma niphuma ezinkolweni ezihlukene kodwa lowo muntu uyakuthanda. Kodwa lowo muntu empeleni akathandi iningi lokudla okuvela kwinkolo yakho ngenxa yokunambitheka noma izizathu zokwakheka. Ingabe…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Ngabe ngiy umuntu onombala (POC)? (Lena yindaba yokucabanga) Kunamagama amaningi aphesheya, angicabangi ukuthi ngiy "white passing", kodwa njengomuntu onobuhlanga obuhlukahlukene angicabangi ukuthi ngihlangabezana ngokuphelele nokuhlukumezeka kwe-POC. Ngakho angazi.. uthini umbono wakho? Futhi iyini isipiliyoni sakho?( kulungiswe )

Ubulili

Ngiyenze into. Angizange ngimangale ukuthi ngingowaseScotland, i-Ireland, iJalimane kanye neBrithani. Kodwa ngamangala ngezibalo. Kuvele ukuthi ngingowaseScotland kakhulu, ngikhula ngatshelwa ukuthi ngingowase-Ireland kakhulu. I-Norwegian, i-Swedish, ne-Danish kwaba yisimanga kodwa kuzwakala kahle…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

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Ukudla okushisayo kuyangiphoxa. Njengoba, ubani owacabanga ukuthi ukudla okulimazayo bekuyisiphakamiso esihle?? 😑 Nkosi, ngiyisiphukuphuku *esikhulu* kokubili izizinda zami (i-Indian/Mexican). . .

Sinemiphakathi eminingi lapha. Ngihlala ngibuza ukuthi ngivela kuphi. Ngiyi-Indonesia 🇮🇩

Uthando lwakho

Ngicabanga ukuthi uthando lwakho luphuthelwe emphakathini, akufanele luphazanyiswe nokuba yisithombe. Uma ubheka esibukweni, kufanele uthande umuntu obheka emuva kuwe. Akufanele kube kusekelwe ezingeni lobuhle bomphakathi wakho noma emhlabeni. Ngiyasho, njengomuntu okhule ecabanga ukuthi umphimbo…funda kabanzi

Izibongo?

Ngisanda kuqala ukusebenza emkhakheni wezokuthengisa ukuze ngithole imali ngenkathi ngiphakathi kwemisebenzi. Phakathi kwesonto elidlule ngithole izibongo eziningi (eziphathelene nomzimba/ubukeka) ezivela kumakhasimende avela ezikhathini ezahlukene, ubuzwe, nobulili. Njengomfana, lokhu akubukeki…funda kabanzi

Ukukhula kunzima

Ngikhulume nabantu abaningi base-Egypt ngaphambili kodwa ngempela lowo muntu engikhulume naye uthatha phezulu. Akagcini nje ngokuba nekhanda kodwa futhi unokuzithanda lapho ngizama ukusiza ngendaba yakhe yezobuchwepheshe. 🤦‍♀️ Angikhulumi ngobandlululo njengoba ngikhuluma nezizinda eziningi…funda kabanzi

I-Long kakhulu Futhi Mhlawumbe I-Controversial, Kodwa...

1940's - 1990's bekuyisikhathi esiyigugu se-television. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amafilimu noma izinhlelo, izigcawu nezincwadi zazivame ukuhlela kahle futhi zinemininingwane, zifaka abalingiswa abanobunzima obukhulu nobuhle. Le posi iMHLUZIWE kakhulu kunalokho engangikuhlosile, kodwa ngezansi,…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Kuhle uma abangane bami abasha noma abavela bebuza ukuthi yiziphi izizinda engizithokozelayo, babukeka bejabulile uma ngibatshela 😂 noma uma othile ecabanga ukuthi isizinda sami siwumaphakathi mpumalanga, ngithi CHA, akusiyo ngisho leyo ndawo ye-continent lol

Amantombazane aseDog River

Ngithole uchungechunge lwaseCanada "Corner Gas" futhi ngibukele zonke izinyanga eziyisithupha kathathu. Ngaphakathi kwezinyanga ezinhlanu. Noma kunjalo, kubuyisele uthando lwami lweCanada, futhi njengoba iMidjourney ikhuluma kahle ngezizinda, ngacabanga ukuthi ngizozama iqembu labesifazane…funda kabanzi

Ngabe kukhona ofuna ukuhlala ekhaya namuhla ebusuku wedwa futhi efuna umuntu ongahluleli, onobuhlanga, ukuze ahlale naye? Ngikhona... sizobulala ukudangala ndawonye.

Siyakhona.

Ukuphendula umbuzo omdala kunawo wonke.. Yebo. Kukhona abantu abahle, ngiyazi ngoba ngizibona phakathi kwabo. Abanye bethu banezizinda ezihlukene, ubuzwe noma amanani. Abanye bethu banezinkinga zempilo noma zezimali. Abanye bethu banezithakazelo, imisebenzi noma imisebenzi ehlukene. Kodwa…funda kabanzi