Systems Community

Idk if this is the right place to post this but idk where else to.

I don't feel like a girl because I don't know what it is like to be one. People assign gender roles, they call it “nature because We evolved to be like that”. Hmm. It's a bit silly to me, to hear “men are territorial, they're logical, women are emotional”. Even when I see my contemporaries growing...(besut) read more

Emotional Safety.

Emotional Safety is the foundation for any long term relationship to be successful and healthy. Most people today are unaware that the majority of their relationships lack or are completely missing emotional safety. Especially with our parents, the first relationship dynamic we’re born into. To... read more

Behind the scenes — Is it the people we miss, or the dopamine they once gave us?

I once noticed how consistency creates its own kind of intimacy. Morning wishes. Daily check-ins. Familiar rhythms. Not dramatic — just steady, disciplined presence. Over time, the body learns the pattern. The mind anticipates the reward. Dopamine quietly builds a sense of safety. And what’s...(besut) read more

Three operating systems

Is it just me, or do modern systems feel colder?

And by colder, I mean. They lack the charming features their predecessors had. Call it nostalgia. Me being old. Whatever you want. But, I feel like the 3DS was more fun. More warm and welcoming than the current gen Switch and Switch 2. I miss the colour themes. The home screen music. The Street... read more

Video Game Hot Take

The obsession with “realism” is quietly making games less imaginative. Hyper-detailed graphics, lifelike physics, cinematic camera work — they’re impressive, but they’re also narrowing the design space. When every AAA title is chasing photorealism and movie-like storytelling, we end up with... read more