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Does a bug ever just… decide you’re its landing spot too? Apparently I’m a very trustworthy piece of furniture. 😂 And somehow, today brought another little reminder that not everything that scares us is something to fear. I got the best news today actually! the biopsy I recently had showed that… (edited) read more



Why do some men feel comfortable making s€xual jokes or implications after only a day or two of talking to a woman? We’re basically strangers at that point. Most people wouldn’t approach a woman they just met on the street and immediately make those kinds of comments, so why does it suddenly seem… read more
the stylist did amazing job😍
Has anyone noticed that this app/social platform is really a decent one, full of respectful and polite people unlike other similar apps? Or this is just my personal experience.
Im curious as men ive asked across have said they cant remember and i asked in a womens group chat and they can remember all of not atleast a few of their dreams. How many of you can or cant remember your dreams and what type of dreams do you dream of or remember? I find the bad ones often stick… (edited) read more
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For me personally not really. I just want this month to be over. That day always makes me so depressed 😔 Edit: For the people asking why I said "depressed" is because I lost my mother around this time. What used to be a good holiday is just an unfortunate memory for me. (edited)
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What is something you learned/or did this past year that you are proud of? And what is something next year you want to do differently? ♡
What is the thing that people most often misunderstand about you, and why do you think this happens ?
Considering that you’re looking for a person on the dating app (any reason, the preferences are yours)… Let’s imagine that a content of two profile bios and “the vibe” are the same. The only difference is the length (so… the amount of words, details). Which would you prefer and why?
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I like women who have kinda long or ovalish face. And someone who is not morbidly obese. Besides that nothing else matters race skin tone or heights. She can be 4.2" or a 7 foot tall. Is it bad or misogynistic? (edited)

Coffee or Tea?

If someone reached out to you and told you that your best friend was lying, hiding parts of the story, talking badly about them, shaming them and trying to damage their reputation simply because they didn’t want a relationship with them anymore, Would you want to know and have a conversation with… read more
does anyone know how many years an anxiety attack is supposed to last
Are there ways to deal with workplace toxicity?
boys, what would you do if you were men for a day?

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Creative excuses to get out of plans you agreed to participate in, fast guys

I want to begin my glow-up era, the "I am definitely not thinking about my ex" vibes. Though I lack discipline, an recurring issue of mine, so I need help because I really do want to exercise or get into a beauty regime. I need my girlies, gays or whatever pronouns you identified as, I need… read more

how am I supposed to cha cha real smooth in this economy

What do you wish for this week?
I understand that everyone is entitled to do what is best for them (or what they feel or think is anyway) but many times i feel like they dont genuinely take the time to consider how it could ultimately negatively affect the other person, why would someone want potential blood on their hands or on… read more
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What ritual must I do?

Why do people think it is ok to just insult others based on surface level information? Or just based on how someone looks on the outside? Like I don't get it. Are humans really that shallow? Is it really hard to just be polite to people? I don't think I will ever understand why people feel the… read more
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I want to love and to be loved by someone. I want to experience what other feels during courtship. Not just asking only and be done with it. 🥹🥹🥹
Got cheated on twice by the person I trusted the most. Do men who choose communication over finding someone else when things get hard still exist, or am I asking for too much?

just asking 😜
I'm last in life and want to see the beautiful world again
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Just finished watching Street Fighter, and it brought back childhood memories! Growing up with older brothers and cousins, I was always asking, “Can I join? Can I join?” 😂 Chun Li was my favourite character! Now my friends say my physique reminds them of Chun Li, especially my quads and glutes.… read more


People have been asking me what my motivation is. Sometimes, negativity is my motivation. Being told I’m too big, not feminine enough, and hearing all those unnecessary comments. I turn them into fuel to grow, not just physically, but mentally. I’m here to motivate and spread positivity because I… (edited) read more
Look, seriously When we’re messaging each other, there’s no need to keep asking for photos, especially photos of me You can just check my profile and see all my photos there. Our relationship isn’t at a stage exclusive enough for you to be getting photos of me directly, on demand So, just take it… read more

These two timers guy are asking me about my virginity ... Bro , are you the one virgin till now ? If not , stop asking others .. even if yes , why ask me ? My virginity has none of ur concern.. stop thinking always from ur pants 🩳
I still wonder how old I’ll be when I finally get to experience my first date. Honestly, I’m so tired of people asking me when I’m going to get a partner. Like, do they really think I don’t want one? It’s already hard enough to find someone, and finding someone who’s actually right for you is even… read more

I know it’s autumn when I suddenly begin to make soups again. This one is with forest mushrooms and cream cheese. PS There were quite a few comments and messages asking for a recipe. There is no recipe (in the sense of proportions), but I’m gladly providing the list of the ingredients. I never… (edited) read more

We are all afraid of something. Loneliness, death, rejection, or losing someone we love. People often say, “I’m not afraid of anything.” Yet most of us experience fear when something matters to us. Sometimes, fear wakes us up in the middle of the night. Other times, simply imagining a difficult… read more
Please admire my cooking before asking if it tastes good. HAHAHA

Sometimes, when I’m tired of being strong, I wonder what it would feel like to have someone who notices the silence, sits beside me without asking too many questions, and quietly reminds me that even a tired heart deserves somewhere to rest.

Good afternoon, my future husband. ❤️🩹 Today, I ended up feeling unwell at work, and now I’m sick. Oh, my love, it’s been a little difficult trying to be strong on my own. 😞 Some days, all I want is to have you by my side, taking care of me, asking how I’m feeling, and telling me that… read more


Give me your best lie if your family found empty old alcohol bottles in ur room (asking for a friend )🤠

Have you ever been excited about the weekend and then it’s the weekend and you literally have no plans about the weekend and now you’re asking yourself what was I even excited about?
What makes you choose one woman over all the others when you're looking for something serious? 👀✨ I'm curious about what truly matters to you beyond physical attraction.
I really need someone who can guarantee me just $34. To pay my mother's hospital bill last week, instead of asking, I borrowed. I changed it on November 2. video hanya pelengkap
Things I did "right": ✔️ private university ✔️ master's degree ✔️ more courses than I can count (self-funded, obviously) ✔️ 10 years of actual design work Things that happened anyway: ✖️ in Mexico: senior work, junior pay ✖️ abroad: "love your profile, but…" Yes, I want to move. Partly for better… read more
I ended up talking to someone who was complaining about women on the app who—when messaged—would try to sell their OnlyFans or things like that. I thought it was just a gripe, so I made a joke saying I didn't have one, but that if the economy kept going the way it was, I might consider it. He got… read more
Hi, kiddos! It's your IBUUU here! 😼💗 By the way, I'm sorry we're meeting a little late. Maybe in another 4-5 years? Psssttt... it all depends on when Mommy meets her soulmate, your future Dad! 😄💗 There are still so many things I need to work on, especially within myself. For now, I'm still… read more
Asking to men. Would you seriously date a woman who choose not to have sex before marriage?
Someone asked me to explain a little about myself and my situation — because they found it hard to believe I am really 37 years old, so I would just like to be honest and open about it. My name is Zita, and I am 37 years old. I am single — I have never been married, and I do not have children. … read more
My mind keep asking, why he does it? What is his real intention? Like I need logic reason to make it sense. Is he real ? Didn't he see my age? Didn't he read I'm a single mom? (edited)

I don't know. But when I came out from the church I was crying because its too much that I can't handle the pain and I was asking for guidance. But can you see the dog in the cloud?

I give up. And I mean that from the deepest, darkest corners of my heart. Not on life. Not on myself. Not on the future I have spent so long dreaming of. This is not a final goodbye, nor is it a surrender to the darkness. It is a promise. A quiet vow to the person I have spent far too long… read more
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Before attempting to fix a part, it is worth asking three questions that redirect attention from the element to the structure: First: What is this element connected to?** Not what it does in isolation. What feeds it, what it feeds, what it depends on, what depends on it. Second: If I change this… read more

If the first stage was about separation, and the second about distraction and imposed frameworks, then the third stage reaches its final point: What happens to a person when their ability to respond is gradually replaced by automatic reaction? This is where Nassim Taleb's distinction between the… read more

Girl that I thought was asking me out left me on seen since yesterday #whatdatmean
whatever, anyways today we went for FFT after cheer practice.

Distraction. I started thinking about this when my home security camera once again went offline — a single slip-up this weekend (not on my part) made it clear who was playing games. At work, there’s sabotage — an artificial network outage. Then there’s my former employer, who keeps asking me to… read more

Is it okay to trust you? I'm quite exhausted from being strong. And would you say I'm your right person, even if everything goes wrong? Is it okay if I sleep next to you? The nightmares have made me a little tired. And is it okay if I write about how much you're admired? Is it okay if… read more