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Unpopular opinion

Unpopular opinion: Being attractive is nice, but having your life together, emotional intelligence, a good sense of humor, and knowing how to hold an actual conversation? Infinitely more attractive. 😌 I'm a sucker for witty banter, old-fashioned romance, and someone who's passionate about the… read more

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A hidden hobby 🫣 I rarely sing these days

Waterfront Kuching, Sarawak 🇲🇾

📍Kuching is the capital of Sarawak🐈 This song is a song in my language, Iban. It's rarely known to foreigners unless they've been to Sarawak and learned about the history of Sarawak. We are rare and hidden in the corners of East Asia 😝🤭😅 (edited)

Prologue: The Promise at the Gate

(prologue longer than this just limit on here) Helios woke before the sun, the room cloaked in darkness. He lingered in bed, listening. Usually, at this hour, he'd hear the familiar scrape of his father's whetstone, his boots crossing the floor to the water basin, and his mother's gentle humming… read more

Why...

Why do introductory DM's always start as "hi _____" ---( insert beautiful, princess, honey, dear. ) Why not just use a person's name ? I genuinely hate pet names, at least until people know one another on a deeper level, than it's fine... Also why not start a message with an interesting question… read more

The absurdity of trying again

Against my better judgement, I remain interested in the possibility of falling in love. I know that relationships require work, compromise, vulnerability, and the occasional conversation that makes you want to walk directly into a river. I know that people are complicated, that timing is rarely… read more

rarely online :/ me busy

just a girl who likes pretty things 🤎

Anddd I wonder why guys rarely use sheet masks when they literally make your skin glow🥹🫶🏼

Maybe our lives were not meant to be joyful

Maybe it was simply meant to be peaceful, and we meant to appreciate the little moments. So many of us are chasing excitement, happiness and all these intensely positive emotions all the time. But we very rarely think it was meant to be a special thing ocassionally.

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Sorry, rarely on this application? How are you?

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙦𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙞𝙣 𝙖 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣

Everyone talks about loyalty, sense of humor, or shared interests, and while those are great, I think the most underrated quality in a person is emotional presence. ​Being with someone who is actually there when you talk, who listens without just waiting for their turn to speak, and who can handle… read more

Hello

"Eh, sorry, I'm rarely on this application. Oh yes, how are you? I hope everything is fine 😊

When people talk about unreciprocated consistency from others but rarely give the same to their circles/individuals

I recently had conversations with people. Surprisingly it's mostly men although I have my girl besties to talk to. Day by day I'm chatting with people from different upbringing, background and perspectives. I rarely write an essay but when I have a random thought, it gotta be expressed. The… (edited) read more

Did someone looking for me? 👀

Rarely active here lols hahahahaha Just saying Hi 🤭👋

THE ARCHITECTURE OF THE BOX — PART III When the System Moves Inside You

The first two stages built the box. First, separate people. Then distract them and give them a framework through which to see the world. But a system becomes much more powerful when it no longer needs to stand outside you. When the framework moves inside. That is where the third stage… read more

donuts 🍩😋

first chocolate consumption in October (I rarely eat chocolate because I don't really like it, I prefer matcha/tiramisu/berries/vanilla)

Still my opinion, No matter the years.

People rarely stumble over mountains; they stumble over stones. The same is true in relationships. It’s rarely the grand differences that bring two people down it’s the small, recurring frictions that quietly wear away at the foundation: values compromised, boundaries ignored, priorities… read more

Today’s thoughts

It is really rare that I get along with the opposite sex. Most men that I talk with here disappear after a few exchange of messages, that’s the norm for me. It’s because I don’t feel doing the heavy lifting for both of us and I’m sure they feel my energy about it too so they do the same. Nothing… read more

Should women chase men?

What do you think? Because these days, men rarely make the first move after matching. So what's the point of matching, then? 😁

THE BOX BEHIND ASLAN STORY

If you have followed Aslan’s story, you have seen what life inside the box can look like. A marriage shaped by rules. A family trapped by debt. Decisions repeated despite their consequences. Beliefs passed from one generation to the next. But Aslan’s story was never only about Aslan. And if you… read more

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Remember you Matter too Simple words are often overlooked because they don’t sound impressive. They aren’t complicated, and they don’t try to appear profound. Yet, the truth is that many of the things that truly change our lives are simple in theory but difficult to practice. ‎ ‎“Stay… read more

Oh how the turn tables

I’ve reached a point in my life where I’m more likely and not only more likely, but I am more open to the idea to get rabies than an STD. Past forty, you realize what a complete mess you are as a person... I’m terrified that someone might truly see inside, because then they’d leave. And it wouldn’t… (edited) read more

Used,then pushed aside til we’re needed again. Very rarely do we win anymore in this world 🌎 (edited)

On meditate and hibernation

Still upload post but would rarely chatting for some period

What is the price of power?

History remembers those who conquered empires, broke traditions, and changed the course of civilizations. But history rarely asks what they had to become in order to succeed. A woman entered a world that had no place for her at the top. She learned its rules, studied its weaknesses, and… read more

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Could go both ways (man or woman) if you're the one trying... I wouldn't know, but I've seen it happen. Edit: People don't seem to understand the caption..and since there's so many new faces, they don't know I don't agree with anyone that does "gender" based assumptions. Don't come at me trying… (edited) read more

Fitness

"Ever since I started my new job, I’ve gained 3 kilos and my sleep is a mess—I'm only getting around 5 hours a day, and rarely 7 or 8. 😫 Any fitness or lifestyle tips to get back on track?"

last pencil sketch

Not a regular hobby; rarely picks up a pencil to sketch. #wlgyt

Funny thing is, it really happened to me recently

Someone i matched on this app, asked for my s0cmed account, so i gave it to him since i rarely check this app either. We followed each other there, but i dont know, whether he forgot to remove some pics with 1 particular woman who always on every photo or he is actually married / in a relationship… read more

New Opportunities Rarely Arrive Loud

Most new opportunities don’t show up with a spotlight or a perfect plan. They arrive quietly as a conversation you almost didn’t take, a class you nearly skipped, a small “yes” you made even while feeling unsure. Progress doesn’t require a leap today. It asks for a step. One aligned action. One… read more

Got back to the gym today!

First time back in about 6 months. I rarely ever want to go, but I did it, after work! I am not morning person and already get up extra early for work.... So has to be after! Pic from this morning....

Not so old photo

Forgot i had this but might as well post since I rarely look at gym photos myself. (Yes...i am bald🥀)

Some of my favorite photos of nature

I’m not a photographer, but when I’m out and about I will rarely take photos of a sight that just captivates me.

Happy Valentine's Day ♡

I rarely draw anymore. I thought it was a good time. ^_^

A fine line of distinction

As i have been working hard at unmasking these few weeks, I notice the hollow feeling again. It has a name, it is loneliness, that part is not the fine line, that is basic emotion recognition. But whilst i wish I could comfort myself, a self hug is never the same as from another. And so whilst yes… read more

Finally reached Diamond on B o.o Wowzer. 💎💎💎

Who knew a place filled with random questions, introspective thoughts, and occasional chaos would keep me around this long? 🤭 A special thanks to @Dandan; Not Not Dan - The Real Dan; What is a Dan? for your dedication in actively engaging with my post, which you rarely did. lol. Appreciate it!… read more

Have you noticed you don't see the amount of interesting content you used to see, anymore, after they removed the "for you" tab? (It is now back.. but the algorithm hasn't caught up)

They don't even show you the actual content of the interests you apparently "follow" in "Explore".. you miss out on most things. It's become extra American (Orange America).. "take away the freedom" included. (That's not even a joke). I barely see my friends' posts. I rarely see interesting,… (edited) read more

after night swim

rarely take photos just want to enjoy things in private but felt taking a photo 🫶

"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty." "Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."