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Is having an emotional connection before a physical one important for you?

10/24/2024

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Sagittarius

Yes. Need both but I wouldn't be physically attracted to them if I didn't feel emotionally involved, in the first place.

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ENFJ

Libra

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Yes, of course, at 43 it is better to have someone who understands you and can know how to give you first aid, who knows where you keep your medicines and what time you should take them, who has a connection so that in the future that person can change your diapers without problems 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

2 Awards

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Key

INFJ

Scorpio

This is getting deep. Let me ponder it while I dramatically gaze into the horizon

ENFJ

Cancer

1 Award

Both are important. :)

Madison

ISTP

Gemini

2 Awards

How people can want to be physical with others based entirely on their appearance boggles my mind tbh (edited)

Matt

INFJ

Scorpio

I’m not sure how to take that. Emotional is more important long term, and what I want, but before seems not likely if we are talking timeline.

laila♡

INFP

Gemini

1 Award

Yup, it is, without it the physical contact feels hollow, and kinda a waste of my time 😄

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INTP

Capricorn

to me, most definitely. when you feel comfortable with someone emotionally, it can create a safer space for exploring physical intimacy.

Naayra

INFP

Aries

Big yes 👍

Emma

INTP

Virgo

Yea most definetly I'd rank emotional intimacy above like physical intimacy tbh here and by that I mean like I prefer to know somebody's soul and mind, we need to be on the same sort of wavelength mentally (edited)

David

INFP

Taurus

I won't have a physical without the emotional the touch of someone I don't know makes my skin crawl but the touch of a friend makes that same spot tingle

Nolan

INTJ

Scorpio

Absolutely... Passion will burn out if its too intense... Ar turn off if not fanned properly... But emotional support and connection stays with you through thick and thin

Crows

ISFJ

Taurus

Absolutely I need both but I like to get to know someone really well before taking the next step.

Phoebe

INFJ

Aquarius

Yes. I need to know if he can be trusted first before I can become intimate and vulnerable.. true beauty comes from within. (Mind and soul comes first)

Arthur

INFJ

Libra

Ann

ISTP

Leo

Both but first I look for physical then develop emotional

Swathi

ENFJ

Leo

For me If it involves commitment thn it requires emotional connection before physical connection

Caedus

INTP

I think people will get easily tire from a strictly physical relationship

Ethan

INTJ

Virgo

Both are highly important for any relationship, you can’t really have one without the other

Sophie

ISTJ

Pisces

Personally absolutely I can't have any physical desire or connection without feeling an emotional bond or have some depth

Mary joy

ISFJ

Sagittarius

Yes emotional connection is very important for me. Without that i won’t proceed anything

Rebekah

INFJ

Aquarius

1000%

Sasha

ENTP

Libra

It's important to have emotional connection before physical

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INFJ

Virgo

Absolutely.

Caedus

INTP

Absolutely

Daniel

INTJ

Virgo

Yeah, I have this thing in which I'm not comfortable with someone else unless I have an emotional connection

Andrea

INTP

Libra

Yes. Both are important but I wouldn't be physically attracted to someone if I didn't have an emotional connection to them.

Sarthak

ISTJ

Libra

Yep, its very important for me, otherwise its all meaningless.

Gold

INTJ

Sagittarius

Yes

Bruno

ENFP

Cancer

Yes always, if i don't have it i can't feel anything at a physical level

Heather

INFJ

Virgo

An emotional connection holds more value and is essential to any form of a relationship be that friends or more. Emotional first physical later

Adam

INTJ

Virgo

An emotional connection remains a cornerstone of relationships, physical is a result of emotional, and should not be an instigator to BEGIN a relationship.

Sam

ENFP

Aries

Absolutely. I could honestly survive without a physical one at this point.

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Yes. Need both but I wouldn't be physically attracted to them if I didn't feel emotionally involved, in the first place.

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Yes emotional connection is very important for me. Without that i won’t proceed anything

1000%

It's important to have emotional connection before physical

Absolutely.

Absolutely

Yeah, I have this thing in which I'm not comfortable with someone else unless I have an emotional connection

Yes. Both are important but I wouldn't be physically attracted to someone if I didn't have an emotional connection to them.

Yep, its very important for me, otherwise its all meaningless.

Yes

Yes always, if i don't have it i can't feel anything at a physical level

An emotional connection holds more value and is essential to any form of a relationship be that friends or more. Emotional first physical later

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Absolutely. I could honestly survive without a physical one at this point.

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