Boo

Is having an emotional connection before a physical one important for you?

10/24/2024

1284

5685

Questions Community

The questions community, chat, and discussion.

best

new

ENFJ

Sagittarius

Yes. Need both but I wouldn't be physically attracted to them if I didn't feel emotionally involved, in the first place.

256

ENFJ

Libra

Yes, of course, at 43 it is better to have someone who understands you and can know how to give you first aid, who knows where you keep your medicines and what time you should take them, who has a connection so that in the future that person can change your diapers without problems 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Would you like some pizza🍕🍕🍕 instead?!! 😆🤭🤣🤪 I'm happy to share... Please enjoy! 😉🤭😋 Cheers! 🥰🌈🌻🫂💖✨️ (edited)

INFJ

Scorpio

This is getting deep. Let me ponder it while I dramatically gaze into the horizon

ENFJ

Cancer

Both are important. :)

ISTP

Gemini

How people can want to be physical with others based entirely on their appearance boggles my mind tbh (edited)

INFJ

Scorpio

I’m not sure how to take that. Emotional is more important long term, and what I want, but before seems not likely if we are talking timeline.

INFP

Gemini

Yup, it is, without it the physical contact feels hollow, and kinda a waste of my time 😄

INTP

Capricorn

to me, most definitely. when you feel comfortable with someone emotionally, it can create a safer space for exploring physical intimacy.

INFP

Aries

Big yes 👍

INTP

Virgo

Yea most definetly I'd rank emotional intimacy above like physical intimacy tbh here and by that I mean like I prefer to know somebody's soul and mind, we need to be on the same sort of wavelength mentally (edited)

INFP

Taurus

I won't have a physical without the emotional the touch of someone I don't know makes my skin crawl but the touch of a friend makes that same spot tingle

INTJ

Scorpio

Absolutely... Passion will burn out if its too intense... Ar turn off if not fanned properly... But emotional support and connection stays with you through thick and thin

ISFJ

Taurus

Absolutely I need both but I like to get to know someone really well before taking the next step.

INFJ

Aquarius

Yes. I need to know if he can be trusted first before I can become intimate and vulnerable.. true beauty comes from within. (Mind and soul comes first)

INFJ

Libra

ISTP

Leo

Both but first I look for physical then develop emotional

ENFJ

Leo

For me If it involves commitment thn it requires emotional connection before physical connection

INTP

I think people will get easily tire from a strictly physical relationship

INTJ

Virgo

Both are highly important for any relationship, you can’t really have one without the other

ISTJ

Pisces

Personally absolutely I can't have any physical desire or connection without feeling an emotional bond or have some depth

ISFJ

Sagittarius

Yes emotional connection is very important for me. Without that i won’t proceed anything

INFJ

Aquarius

1000%

ENTP

Libra

It's important to have emotional connection before physical

INFJ

Virgo

Absolutely.

INTP

Absolutely

INTJ

Virgo

Yeah, I have this thing in which I'm not comfortable with someone else unless I have an emotional connection

INTP

Libra

Yes. Both are important but I wouldn't be physically attracted to someone if I didn't have an emotional connection to them.

ISTJ

Libra

Yep, its very important for me, otherwise its all meaningless.

INTJ

Sagittarius

Yes

ENFP

Cancer

Yes always, if i don't have it i can't feel anything at a physical level

INFJ

Virgo

An emotional connection holds more value and is essential to any form of a relationship be that friends or more. Emotional first physical later

INTJ

Virgo

An emotional connection remains a cornerstone of relationships, physical is a result of emotional, and should not be an instigator to BEGIN a relationship.

ENFP

Aries

Absolutely. I could honestly survive without a physical one at this point.

Meet New People

50,000,000+

DOWNLOADS

What's a skill you have that nobody would guess?

12/8/2025

128

929

12/7/2025

INTP

Virgo

If you had eternal life among the stars, would loneliness crush you or would freedom excite you? (Why?)

265

2252

What hair color attracts you?

12/6/2025

474

4291

What are your intentions for using this app?

12/3/2025

533

4408

What social stigma does society need to get over?

10/23/2024

509

4190

Are you more of a gym person or outdoor activities type or couch potato?

11/29/2025

532

3870

In your opinion, what truly makes someone a good person?

12/1/2025

446

3550

10/22/2024

ESFJ

What rule do you think everyone in the world should have to obey? Why?

484

4447

Give one deep question you wish people would ask you here or what’s one question you wish people would ask but they never do.

12/2/2025

263

2459

What is your biggest regret?

10/21/2024

582

5503

The world would be better off if ______________?

12/5/2025

186

2340

How can someone make you feel emotionally safe?

11/27/2025

488

3227

What makes you realize you’ve fallen for someone?

11/30/2025

419

3257

Do you prefer someone to listen or give advice when you’re stressed?

11/26/2025

776

4012

How important is physical health to you in a relationship?

11/28/2025

638

3047

How do you want your partner to support you during tough times?

11/25/2025

477

3372

Are smoking or drinking habits important to you when it comes to dating?

11/22/2025

523

3922

Does religion matter to you when it comes to choosing a partner?

11/21/2025

490

3786

Do you have crush here? If yes, drop the hints. Who knows he/she might do the first move. 😜🤣😅

12/4/2025

192

1636

Would you mind if your partner was a little clingy like always wanting your attention? or a bit possesive?

11/24/2025

753

3900

What is the best authentic foreign food have you tried?

11/23/2025

327

3031

What do you prefer in the first conversation or message, shallow topics or deep ones right away?

11/20/2025

364

3215

INTP

Sagittarius

Weirdest Loved Food

What's the weirdest food combination you've accidentally loved? 🍔🍰

134

944

How many languages do you speak except sarcasm? 😝😂

11/19/2025

400

3223

What’s something you find instantly attractive in someone?

11/16/2025

422

4095

Do you have a type when it comes to people?

11/18/2025

429

3381

What do you look for in a longterm partner?

11/12/2025

382

3472

What’s something you’ve learned from your past relationships?

11/17/2025

381

3737

INFP

Libra

today is quite tiring for me, how about you friends?

292

391

What is your dating age range?

11/11/2025

438

4297

Do you believe in soulmates or more in building connection over time?

11/15/2025

458

2888

In relationship, what does commitment mean to you?

11/14/2025

374

2738

ENFJ

Cancer

What Is Your Love Life Like?

Context: I took the time to look at all the daily questions, from the very first to the most recent. To my surprise, they were so repetitive, saying the same ones over and over. Allowing some leeway on the questions asked by real people, as not many people see each other's questions, the app itself... read more

321

Do you think you deserve someone? If yes why?

11/13/2025

515

3460

ENTP

Taurus

Memory loss

What is that one book you wish you could experience for the first time again?

125

340

6/12/2025

INFJ

Cancer

How's life treating you ?

634

4253

What would you choose: a relationship full of adventures or a peaceful one?

11/7/2025

595

4076

Is it okay to have secrets in a relationship?

6/23/2025

567

4137

Is it necessary to control falling in love?

5/26/2025

632

4120

What would you tell your past self if you could send one text?

8/21/2025

428

3964

What's the best way to spend a rainy day?

11/4/2025

430

3960

Do you believe that opposites attract?

10/28/2025

645

3550

ISFJ

Leo

Hi

So I'm socially awkward at times and blend into the background due to wavering confidence whats the best way I can stand out?

128

Is having an emotional connection before a physical one important for you?

Questions Community

Yes. Need both but I wouldn't be physically attracted to them if I didn't feel emotionally involved, in the first place.

Would you like some pizza🍕🍕🍕 instead?!! 😆🤭🤣🤪 I'm happy to share... Please enjoy! 😉🤭😋 Cheers! 🥰🌈🌻🫂💖✨️ (edited)

This is getting deep. Let me ponder it while I dramatically gaze into the horizon

Both are important. :)

How people can want to be physical with others based entirely on their appearance boggles my mind tbh (edited)

I’m not sure how to take that. Emotional is more important long term, and what I want, but before seems not likely if we are talking timeline.

Yup, it is, without it the physical contact feels hollow, and kinda a waste of my time 😄

to me, most definitely. when you feel comfortable with someone emotionally, it can create a safer space for exploring physical intimacy.

Big yes 👍

Yea most definetly I'd rank emotional intimacy above like physical intimacy tbh here and by that I mean like I prefer to know somebody's soul and mind, we need to be on the same sort of wavelength mentally (edited)

I won't have a physical without the emotional the touch of someone I don't know makes my skin crawl but the touch of a friend makes that same spot tingle

Absolutely... Passion will burn out if its too intense... Ar turn off if not fanned properly... But emotional support and connection stays with you through thick and thin

Absolutely I need both but I like to get to know someone really well before taking the next step.

Yes. I need to know if he can be trusted first before I can become intimate and vulnerable.. true beauty comes from within. (Mind and soul comes first)

Both but first I look for physical then develop emotional

For me If it involves commitment thn it requires emotional connection before physical connection

I think people will get easily tire from a strictly physical relationship

Both are highly important for any relationship, you can’t really have one without the other

Personally absolutely I can't have any physical desire or connection without feeling an emotional bond or have some depth

Yes emotional connection is very important for me. Without that i won’t proceed anything

1000%

It's important to have emotional connection before physical

Absolutely.

Absolutely

Yeah, I have this thing in which I'm not comfortable with someone else unless I have an emotional connection

Yes. Both are important but I wouldn't be physically attracted to someone if I didn't have an emotional connection to them.

Yep, its very important for me, otherwise its all meaningless.

Yes

Yes always, if i don't have it i can't feel anything at a physical level

An emotional connection holds more value and is essential to any form of a relationship be that friends or more. Emotional first physical later

An emotional connection remains a cornerstone of relationships, physical is a result of emotional, and should not be an instigator to BEGIN a relationship.

Absolutely. I could honestly survive without a physical one at this point.

Related Posts

What's a skill you have that nobody would guess?

If you had eternal life among the stars, would loneliness crush you or would freedom excite you? (Why?)

What hair color attracts you?

What are your intentions for using this app?

What social stigma does society need to get over?

Are you more of a gym person or outdoor activities type or couch potato?

In your opinion, what truly makes someone a good person?

What rule do you think everyone in the world should have to obey? Why?

Give one deep question you wish people would ask you here or what’s one question you wish people would ask but they never do.

What is your biggest regret?

The world would be better off if ______________?

How can someone make you feel emotionally safe?

What makes you realize you’ve fallen for someone?

Do you prefer someone to listen or give advice when you’re stressed?

How important is physical health to you in a relationship?

How do you want your partner to support you during tough times?

Are smoking or drinking habits important to you when it comes to dating?

Does religion matter to you when it comes to choosing a partner?

Do you have crush here? If yes, drop the hints. Who knows he/she might do the first move. 😜🤣😅

Would you mind if your partner was a little clingy like always wanting your attention? or a bit possesive?

What is the best authentic foreign food have you tried?

What do you prefer in the first conversation or message, shallow topics or deep ones right away?

Weirdest Loved Food

How many languages do you speak except sarcasm? 😝😂

What’s something you find instantly attractive in someone?

Do you have a type when it comes to people?

What do you look for in a longterm partner?

What’s something you’ve learned from your past relationships?

today is quite tiring for me, how about you friends?

What is your dating age range?

Do you believe in soulmates or more in building connection over time?

In relationship, what does commitment mean to you?

What Is Your Love Life Like?

Do you think you deserve someone? If yes why?

Memory loss

How's life treating you ?

What would you choose: a relationship full of adventures or a peaceful one?

Is it okay to have secrets in a relationship?

Is it necessary to control falling in love?

What would you tell your past self if you could send one text?

What's the best way to spend a rainy day?

Do you believe that opposites attract?

Hi