Is it necessary to control falling in love?

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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You what? 🤔😐 What's with these questions lately?! If love is real, can you control it? And if you have control over it, is it really love? What we can control, however, is how we act and react, once we start feeling emotions, so as to not be impulsive. (edited)

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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Well the choice is yours... lol! 🤪😆😅🤣😂 You are in control of yourself! 💘🤘 Cheers! 🥰🌿💖✨️🌻🌈

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INFP

Leo

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Yes. I feel like if it starts too fast its likely to fizz out the exact same way

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INFP

Leo

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It's more necessary to control falling apart🫠

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INFJ

Scorpio

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Go with the flow and trust one’s instincts

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ENFP

Scorpio

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Yes. You need to control your emotions and not fall in love too quickly. Otherwise, you might just get burned. (edited)

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INTJ

Sagittarius

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You might not be able to control it, but you can control the way you respond to such feelings. If you have fallen in love with a bad person, with someone who has no respect for you, or someone who you clearly shouldn't love - don't act on those feelings.

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ENFP

Pisces

Yes. Even if you cannot control who, you can control your moves and that is what it means to be experienced. To say there is no control throughout the process would reveal someone sloppy, naive, or desperate. I don't think I am a mysterious person but I give in measure. I know how to be sociable while verifying who I am talking to. I don't need a genius or comedian but if your profile has zero text and your first message is "hi" after all of the of the talking topics I provided... that is just common sense. I will keep my peace and not become a nag lol.

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ESFP

Taurus

Yes it is, because loving someone too much is bad for your health

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INTJ

Libra

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Yes, because feelings can be out of control at times. So, guard your heart always. Besides, we don't always fall for the right person. (edited)

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ENFJ

Scorpio

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You can't control it. That's why it is called *falling in love*

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INFJ

Capricorn

Absolutely yes

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INFJ

Aries

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Hmm… I think trying to control it is like trying to hold water in your hands. You can try, but if it’s meant to flow, it will. I don’t chase love, I don’t even expect it. But when it quietly arrives, in moments, in chemistry, in connection—I feel it. Even if I know it won’t go anywhere. I just let it be, experience it fully, then let go if I have to. Because for me, love isn’t something to own. It’s something to feel—deeply. And maybe that’s enough.

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ENTP

Sagittarius

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Depends on your perspective of love.

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INFJ

Virgo

Yesssssss

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INFJ

Leo

I wouldn't ever fall for a bad person and if I did and found out they were lying about who they are then I didn't fall for them I fell for an idea.

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ISFP

Gemini

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No

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ENFP

Aries

Yes why not wat if u choose the wrong person

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ISTP

Libra

Yes because you can fall in love with bad person

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ENFP

Gemini

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Your heart and your brain should both be part of the process, ideally. But we don't live in an ideal world...

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INTJ

Sagittarius

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You cant control your feelings. People fall in love, it happens. Love is a beautiful thing sometimes

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INFJ

Virgo

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To love someone is to give of yourself. Loving someone is a choice, sometimes it is effortless like like with your children, sometimes it takes effort like in a mutual balanced relationship, and sometimes we choose to love someone who is incapable of loving us back or simply doesn't love us. . Limerance is something you have to control. (edited)

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INTJ

Taurus

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Everyone has a choice and love is not just simply a feeling but a decision - you decide who you dedicate yourself to

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ESTP

Capricorn

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Well.. why should fall in love? Don't we have other chores to do? I mean falling in love is good but only with a serious person.

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ESTP

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Absolutely not

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ENFP

Aquarius

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Depends on boundaries and communication, but attraction and chemistry can be one h3ll of a Rollercoaster at times 😅😂 Taking "control" is a bit much. I think being Assertive and honest is important though, and if they cant respect that then idk, maybe they're not the right one 🫠🤷🏻‍♂️ (edited)

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INFP

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If the love is unhealthy…best not to

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INTJ

Libra

even i never try but i think cant control 😂

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INTP

Gemini

Love cannot be controlled, only molded and nudged in the direction you may think it leads where it will ultimately lead you.

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INTP

Capricorn

I think it's natural to fall in love, but maybe it's good to keep some perspective. Control could help avoid rushing into things. What do you think?

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ESTP

Leo

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You can't... But stay aware while it happens. Feel everything but don't hand over the keys to fast. You don't have to cage your feelings but fall with your eyes open 🧡

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INTJ

Scorpio

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Yes so that you won't end up in wrong places with wrong people

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INFJ

Aquarius

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I chose not to fall in love because I am emotionally unavailable.. Until I know how to balance my heart and mind I won't give my heart to anyone.

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INFP

Libra

Absolutely, if you ignore all the red flags because you ✨️ Love them ✨️ then youre gonna get hurt

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INFJ

Leo

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Good question with lots of good answers. My perspective is that: love is more than controlling our feelings, or falling all over someone. It's about the *actions we put into showing our love*, that truly matters. ❤️‍🩹

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ENFP

Virgo

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It’s a behavioural pattern of a psychopath to control whether they’re in love or not. Love is love, you can’t control when to be or not to be “in love” like a flick of a switch. But you can choose whether to persue the person or not depending on your morals and self worth.

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ISFJ

Yes, specially if it's not right

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ENTJ

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Yeah i always do that

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ISTP

Cancer

Love has its own pace. I believe we should just let it happen naturally and see where it leads us.

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