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Do you prefer talking about the future or the present?

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Jess

INFP

Capricorn

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I prefer not to talk at all 🫥

182

A༗

ENFJ

Sagittarius

The present. Prefer talking about what is "real" and current. It's nice to dream and talk of what ifs but I don't like to live in a fantasy world. I keep that for my movie/series time. I've met too many people who speak of "what ifs" and forget to live, in the present. (edited)

Kan*^•^*

ENFJ

Capricorn

Both : present can tell today and pass Future can tell how we can get goal🥰💖🌻✨ (edited)

Kostas

ENFP

Cancer

None, I am obsessed with the past.

Arthur

INFJ

Libra

Matt

INFJ

Scorpio

I’d say present, it’s the most recent events I’m processing

Juris

INFJ

Libra

Futures thinking ♥️♥️♥️♥️ to draw scenario analysis on adaptive and radical changes ♥️

Michelle♡

INTP

Virgo

I prefer to be in the moment. Its the only thing we can control

🔆🥨🔅Koffy🔅🌰🔆

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Live at the moment... Enjoy what you have because time passes so quick and tomorrow never a promised... The future is uncertain and that life is unpredictable... So never take time for granted and appreciate what you have...🫴☘️🌎💕 Stay you... Be you... Stay happy and be at peace...🫶😉 Cheers! 🪼🌿🥰💖✨️🌈

Leah

ISTJ

Capricorn

Both... I need whats happening in the present to get to the future.

Journey

INFP

Scorpio

the now

Jann

ISFJ

Scorpio

I prefer to be talking about the present and mention some about the future.😉 It is like, To live happily today gives you hope to be more happier in the future. So, walk the talk. Talk now (present) so you may walk the silver lining path tomorrow.( future)😉

Mira

ESFP

Aquarius

Present. Life can end any moment, future is hurting

Harps

INTJ

Scorpio

The future

Medusa

ISFJ

Cancer

Present 🎁

Madelyn

INFP

Gemini

I prefer talking to the future mostly cuz that way da person knows more about u I would say

Sadia

ENTJ

Cancer

That depends*

Myya

INTJ

Libra

Both are fun ☺️

INTP

Libra

Both

Kaylin

ESFJ

Sagittarius

I definitely always wind up talking about the future. But I really need to start living more in the present. Always thinking about the future is stressful. I need the balance of just living in the moment :)

Eden

INFJ

Pisces

The future. I love talking about the infinite possibilities of progress, even if they are unrealistic. While its not exactly healthy, i try to detach myself from current events as much as possible. (edited)

Dandan; Not Not Dan.. The Real Dan. What is a Dan?

INTJ

Capricorn

I prefer talking about everything. Planning the past for when you arrive is the best thing to think about

Julieth

INFJ

Cancer

Talking about the present. 😍

Sirenity

INFP

Gemini

Both

Leslie

INFP

Cancer

Both are necessary

Ashley

ISTJ

Aries

To talk about the present

Kushal

ISTJ

Aquarius

Future sounds cool… but my present self is still buffering 🌀

Chris

INTJ

Libra

They tend to go hand-in-hand don't they. We determine our future goals based on past lessons and hopefully keep growing from both.

Nevena

ENTJ

Leo

present

Stephanie

ENFJ

Leo

I prefer talking through the darkness of future past that the magician longs to see.

Marie

INFJ

Pisces

The future is so uncertain. I prefer talking about the present, or just sharing any thoughts or experiences that come to mind. When you're with the right person, it's just about sharing the bond not necessarily the topic of conversation.

Ruby sharma

ISFJ

Cancer

I don't think about it

Magda

INFP

Cancer

about the present!

Ryan

INFP

Pisces

I like to keep things in the now. When a connection gets deeper, then dreams can be shared since they expose a vulnerable part of you

Christine

ISTJ

Aries

Do not mind either. Future is there to explore. Present is taking you there

Broken spirit

INFP

Scorpio

I just go day by day

Stella

INFJ

Virgo

The timeless.

Don

INTJ

Pisces

I love talking about Both the future and oresent. It's intertwined after all.

Michael

INTJ

Gemini

Future

Zoë

INFJ

Cancer

I feel like it's better to talk about the present.

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I prefer not to talk at all 🫥

The present. Prefer talking about what is "real" and current. It's nice to dream and talk of what ifs but I don't like to live in a fantasy world. I keep that for my movie/series time. I've met too many people who speak of "what ifs" and forget to live, in the present. (edited)

Both : present can tell today and pass Future can tell how we can get goal🥰💖🌻✨ (edited)

None, I am obsessed with the past.

I’d say present, it’s the most recent events I’m processing

Futures thinking ♥️♥️♥️♥️ to draw scenario analysis on adaptive and radical changes ♥️

I prefer to be in the moment. Its the only thing we can control

Both... I need whats happening in the present to get to the future.

the now

I prefer to be talking about the present and mention some about the future.😉 It is like, To live happily today gives you hope to be more happier in the future. So, walk the talk. Talk now (present) so you may walk the silver lining path tomorrow.( future)😉

Present. Life can end any moment, future is hurting

The future

Present 🎁

I prefer talking to the future mostly cuz that way da person knows more about u I would say

That depends*

Both are fun ☺️

Both

I definitely always wind up talking about the future. But I really need to start living more in the present. Always thinking about the future is stressful. I need the balance of just living in the moment :)

The future. I love talking about the infinite possibilities of progress, even if they are unrealistic. While its not exactly healthy, i try to detach myself from current events as much as possible. (edited)

I prefer talking about everything. Planning the past for when you arrive is the best thing to think about

Talking about the present. 😍

Both

Both are necessary

To talk about the present

Future sounds cool… but my present self is still buffering 🌀

They tend to go hand-in-hand don't they. We determine our future goals based on past lessons and hopefully keep growing from both.

present

I prefer talking through the darkness of future past that the magician longs to see.

The future is so uncertain. I prefer talking about the present, or just sharing any thoughts or experiences that come to mind. When you're with the right person, it's just about sharing the bond not necessarily the topic of conversation.

I don't think about it

about the present!

I like to keep things in the now. When a connection gets deeper, then dreams can be shared since they expose a vulnerable part of you

Do not mind either. Future is there to explore. Present is taking you there

I just go day by day

The timeless.

I love talking about Both the future and oresent. It's intertwined after all.

Future

I feel like it's better to talk about the present.

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