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Do you prefer talking about the future or the present?

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1mo

INFP

Capricorn

I prefer not to talk at all 🫥

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1mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

The present. Prefer talking about what is "real" and current. It's nice to dream and talk of what ifs but I don't like to live in a fantasy world. I keep that for my movie/series time. I've met too many people who speak of "what ifs" and forget to live, in the present. (edited)

1mo

ENFJ

Capricorn

Both : present can tell today and pass Future can tell how we can get goal🥰💖🌻✨ (edited)

1mo

ENFP

Cancer

None, I am obsessed with the past.

1mo

INFJ

Libra

1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

I’d say present, it’s the most recent events I’m processing

1mo

INFJ

Libra

Futures thinking ♥️♥️♥️♥️ to draw scenario analysis on adaptive and radical changes ♥️

1mo

INTP

Virgo

I prefer to be in the moment. Its the only thing we can control

1mo

ESFJ

Sagittarius

Live at the moment... Enjoy what you have because time passes so quick and tomorrow never a promised... The future is uncertain and that life is unpredictable... So never take time for granted and appreciate what you have...🫴☘️🌎💕 Stay you... Be you... Stay happy and be at peace...🫶😉 Cheers! 🪼🌿🥰💖✨️🌈

1mo

ISTJ

Capricorn

Both... I need whats happening in the present to get to the future.

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

the now

1mo

ISFJ

Scorpio

I prefer to be talking about the present and mention some about the future.😉 It is like, To live happily today gives you hope to be more happier in the future. So, walk the talk. Talk now (present) so you may walk the silver lining path tomorrow.( future)😉

1mo

ISFJ

Cancer

Present 🎁

1mo

ESFP

Aquarius

Present. Life can end any moment, future is hurting

1mo

INTJ

Scorpio

The future

1mo

ISFJ

Cancer

I don't think about it

1mo

ENTJ

Cancer

That depends*

1mo

ESTP

Pisces

Future always

1mo

INTJ

Libra

Both are fun ☺️

1mo

INFJ

Leo

The present, because the future is not guaranteed.

1mo

INTP

Libra

Both

1mo

ESFJ

Sagittarius

I definitely always wind up talking about the future. But I really need to start living more in the present. Always thinking about the future is stressful. I need the balance of just living in the moment :)

1mo

INFJ

Pisces

The future. I love talking about the infinite possibilities of progress, even if they are unrealistic. While its not exactly healthy, i try to detach myself from current events as much as possible. (edited)

1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

I prefer talking about everything. Planning the past for when you arrive is the best thing to think about

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

Talking about the present. 😍

1mo

INFP

Gemini

Both

1mo

INTP

Taurus

Definitely the present

1mo

INFP

Cancer

Both are necessary

1mo

ISTJ

Aries

To talk about the present

1mo

ISTJ

Aquarius

Future sounds cool… but my present self is still buffering 🌀

1mo

INTJ

Libra

They tend to go hand-in-hand don't they. We determine our future goals based on past lessons and hopefully keep growing from both.

1mo

ENTJ

Leo

present

1mo

ENFJ

Leo

I prefer talking through the darkness of future past that the magician longs to see.

1mo

INFJ

Pisces

The future is so uncertain. I prefer talking about the present, or just sharing any thoughts or experiences that come to mind. When you're with the right person, it's just about sharing the bond not necessarily the topic of conversation.

1mo

INFP

Cancer

about the present!

1mo

INFP

Pisces

I like to keep things in the now. When a connection gets deeper, then dreams can be shared since they expose a vulnerable part of you

1mo

ISTJ

Aries

Do not mind either. Future is there to explore. Present is taking you there

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

I just go day by day

1mo

INTJ

Scorpio

Neither unless I really wanna know someone of course I ask them. I like living for the now here right now. The past was the past. Future isn't known..

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I prefer not to talk at all 🫥

The present. Prefer talking about what is "real" and current. It's nice to dream and talk of what ifs but I don't like to live in a fantasy world. I keep that for my movie/series time. I've met too many people who speak of "what ifs" and forget to live, in the present. (edited)

Both : present can tell today and pass Future can tell how we can get goal🥰💖🌻✨ (edited)

None, I am obsessed with the past.

I’d say present, it’s the most recent events I’m processing

Futures thinking ♥️♥️♥️♥️ to draw scenario analysis on adaptive and radical changes ♥️

I prefer to be in the moment. Its the only thing we can control

Both... I need whats happening in the present to get to the future.

the now

I prefer to be talking about the present and mention some about the future.😉 It is like, To live happily today gives you hope to be more happier in the future. So, walk the talk. Talk now (present) so you may walk the silver lining path tomorrow.( future)😉

Present 🎁

Present. Life can end any moment, future is hurting

The future

I don't think about it

That depends*

Future always

Both are fun ☺️

The present, because the future is not guaranteed.

Both

I definitely always wind up talking about the future. But I really need to start living more in the present. Always thinking about the future is stressful. I need the balance of just living in the moment :)

The future. I love talking about the infinite possibilities of progress, even if they are unrealistic. While its not exactly healthy, i try to detach myself from current events as much as possible. (edited)

I prefer talking about everything. Planning the past for when you arrive is the best thing to think about

Talking about the present. 😍

Both

Definitely the present

Both are necessary

To talk about the present

Future sounds cool… but my present self is still buffering 🌀

They tend to go hand-in-hand don't they. We determine our future goals based on past lessons and hopefully keep growing from both.

present

I prefer talking through the darkness of future past that the magician longs to see.

The future is so uncertain. I prefer talking about the present, or just sharing any thoughts or experiences that come to mind. When you're with the right person, it's just about sharing the bond not necessarily the topic of conversation.

about the present!

I like to keep things in the now. When a connection gets deeper, then dreams can be shared since they expose a vulnerable part of you

Do not mind either. Future is there to explore. Present is taking you there

I just go day by day

Neither unless I really wanna know someone of course I ask them. I like living for the now here right now. The past was the past. Future isn't known..

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