How do you know when someone is genuinely interested in you?

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1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

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Usually well after they stopped being interested in me.

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1mo

ESFJ

Sagittarius

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They make time and effort to know you... To be with you... To talk to you .. To spend time with you... ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿซฐ๐Ÿ’˜ The consistency is always there... They remember the small details about you... ๐Ÿซ ๐Ÿ’ Well that's what my @Dylan do up to today...๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿ’ž I love you honey! ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿง€๐Ÿงธ๐Ÿ’•โœจ๏ธ Cheers! ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ”†๐ŸŒป๐ŸŒพ๐Ÿ’–โœจ๏ธ๐ŸŒˆ (edited)

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1mo

ISFP

Scorpio

They actually pay attention and remember what you say.

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1mo

ENFJ

They are intentional, communicative and you don't have to ask if they are interested.

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1mo

ENFP

Cancer

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If we had this answer, we wouldn't be here ๐Ÿ˜ซโœจ But DM if you wanna figure it out together ๐Ÿ˜

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1mo

ENTJ

Scorpio

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When they straight up tell me because subtle hints don't work. I'm oblivious. ๐Ÿคฃ

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1mo

INFJ

Aquarius

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Attunement.

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1mo

INTP

Sagittarius

Take note that nobody owes you their time and energy. But a person that's really interested you will set time aside to be with you. They'll make efforts to cross paths again and get to know you. (edited)

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1mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

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๐Ÿง If I like you, you'll know, cause I'll tell you. When they like me... I know. They don't hide it very well. (edited)

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1mo

INFJ

Libra

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1mo

ISTJ

Sagittarius

I think it's when someone responds quickly to your messages, consistently reaches out, never forgets to send you good night messages, and even when they're really busy, they still try to make time just for you. For example, if you tell them you like something, they'll definitely take note and make many small gestures to keep you happy. There are so many more, but I believe that's usually just the beginning. I hope you find someone who brings you happiness. :)

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1mo

INFP

Gemini

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If they take the time to check in on me frequently, if they listen to what I'm sharing, and also share about themselves with me. Consistent quality time is my love language

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1mo

INTJ

Leo

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I have absolutely no idea! ๐Ÿ˜‚

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1mo

ISTP

Scorpio

They return the effort to talk or interact with you

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1mo

INFJ

Pisces

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Idk, but if you figure it out, please let me know

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1mo

ISFP

Pisces

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1mo

ENFP

Cancer

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When the interest lasts longer than 2 months ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…

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1mo

ENTP

Scorpio

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Communication and action

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1mo

ENTP

Cancer

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Honestly I'm normally very clueless sadly ๐Ÿ˜ž

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1mo

ENFJ

Aries

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Me reading the COMMENT section be like๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜œ (edited)

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1mo

INFJ

Cancer

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I donโ€™t, I guess thatโ€™s a contributing factor as to why Iโ€™m single

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1mo

ENFJ

Aries

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If they're not just "ALL TALK" but do the TALK .. and free their time just to spend it with you even when they got busy schedules. ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ‘Œ

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1mo

INFP

Virgo

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When they make the effort to get to know you, want to meet you and spend time with you.

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1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

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5

When they keep contact and communicate on a regular basis

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1mo

INFP

Virgo

people usually know?

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1mo

INTP

Capricorn

5
4

You'll know because they'll definitely seek you out and make an effort to communicate their feelings.

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1mo

INTP

Taurus

When they consistently feed you lol

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1mo

ISFJ

Pisces

When thay tell me

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1mo

INFP

Virgo

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7

They make time for you no matter their schedule. They listen to your concerns, not debate you.

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1mo

ISFJ

Scorpio

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They put genuine effforts to make sure that ur happppy n fine

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1mo

ENTP

Aquarius

Usually they aren't, they just pretend

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1mo

INFP

Sagittarius

I'm going to be real honest here... I don't ever know. And then I question them about it forever. ๐Ÿซฃ

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1mo

ISTP

Leo

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7

I dont

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1mo

INFJ

Pisces

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Its only temporary๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธAll you can do is... Enjoy the moment while it lasts.

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1mo

INFJ

Libra

I actually do not know ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ maybe because they can give time and effort โ™ฅ๏ธโ™ฅ๏ธโ™ฅ๏ธ

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1mo

INFP

Cancer

When they make the time to talk to you, remember the things you've told them, and takes initiative ๐Ÿค—

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1mo

INTP

Libra

If I knew that I wouldn't be here

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1mo

INFP

Capricorn

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When they remember the little details. If they remember something sparks joy for me. If they check in because I made a comment about something that they remember is particularly difficult for me. When they are excited to tell me things. Obviously there are other things but those ones tend to shine the most for me

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1mo

ENFJ

Aquarius

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They want to spend more time with you

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