When's the best time to message someone you like?

10/29/2025

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INFJ

Aquarius

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I like mine clingy. Text me, call me, video call me 24/7 🙂‍↔️

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

My anxiety says never 😭🤣

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ESFJ

Sagittarius

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Anytime but you also need to know how to respect someone's time... Know your boundaries and limits... Before expecting someone to treat you nicely, you have to treat others nicely too... 😉🤝🌎💓🌞☘️ Cheers! 🥰🌻🌿🌈💖✨️

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1mo

ISTJ

Virgo

There is never a wrong time to express your interest.

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1mo

INTJ

As fast as you can, honestly. People who think “Oh, they’ll think I’m needy, I need to stay cool” won’t usually find a genuine connection. The moment I genuinely like someone, I act. We all have time, but time has a frame too.

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INTP

Aries

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No time if I like you I’ll respond even at 3 am if I don’t I won’t even see your texts

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INTP

Scorpio

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Nighttime cause I never sleep

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1mo

INFP

Aries

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Whenever you feel like it

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INFJ

Libra

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1mo

ENFP

Virgo

In the evening 5ish.

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1mo

INFJ

Aries

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Whenever i want. 🤭

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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If you know you like her... message her. If she doesn't reciprocate, at least, you'll know. Don't waste your time and don't be like these new age people.

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1mo

INFJ

Libra

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After midnight. Then you can know if they're a pervert immediately and not when it's too late.

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1mo

INFJ

Virgo

Whenever u want, if u like someone show the interest for them

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1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

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As soon as you think of them. The first thought and the last thought.

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1mo

ENTP

Aries

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Anytime. Why not put yourself out there?

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1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

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The times they usually respond…meaning the times they are free, if you want a conversation

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1mo

INFP

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You can message them anytime you'd like. BUT you also have to have the level of maturity to understand if they don't feel the same or if they are already in a committed relationship. Then please stop, don't dishonor your bloodline by stooping so low as to call them names just because they don't see you the same way. If they like you back, neat! If they don't, don't sweat it. You know right up front, right then and there. And the best part? You wouldn’t have wasted your very finite and precious resource. Time. Move on and someone will meet you halfway. Aside from that, you got this champions. I believe in you! (Who knows maybe they've been secretly crushing on you too.) (edited)

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1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

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Yesterday. She's already taken because you hesitated.

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1mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

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Okay hear me out...

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1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

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Anytime even more so if you know they are having a hard time. Just don't blow up their phone because they could be busy.

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1mo

INFJ

Virgo

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Any time

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1mo

ENFP

Aries

When ever they are on my mind 😘

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1mo

INFP

Gemini

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When i can give a thought out response, asap (edited)

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1mo

INTJ

Taurus

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When you're emotionally available

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1mo

ISFJ

Pisces

Around 1pm when I leave my office for lunch. Have someone to talk to and relieve my work stress.

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1mo

INTJ

Virgo

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I don't know when I like someone I find it hard to message them and usually want them to message me

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INTP

Virgo

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1mo

ENFP

Pisces

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Anytime! If I like you, I'm gonna message anytime I think of something I wanna say, double text be damned

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1mo

INFJ

Capricorn

Anytime you have time

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1mo

INTP

Virgo

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The moment they need the most? Any moment?

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1mo

ENTJ

Capricorn

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As soon as you wake up a great good morning text always let's the other person know your interested and can brighten anyone's mood

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1mo

ENTP

Taurus

New year's Eve 😆

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1mo

INFP

Gemini

Anytime lol

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1mo

ISFP

Libra

Anytime, because the massage from his makes my days full of enthusiasm 😍🥰🥰

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1mo

ENTJ

Virgo

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anytime if i like person

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1mo

ISTJ

Leo

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As soon as you can

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1mo

ISFJ

Sagittarius

Find out when they have time then you can message them.

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

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Anytime, just ensure to respect their boundaries.

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