What do you look for in a longterm partner?

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1mo

INFP

Leo

8
7

Basic human decency to start with

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1mo

ENFP

Aries

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In a long-term partner, I truly value emotional intelligence and the ability to communicate openly. It’s essential that we can share not only our joys but also our vulnerabilities. Life is so much richer when you can connect on that deeper level.

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1mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

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1

Someone who thinks of what they can give to a relationship, and not just what they want from it 😌

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1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

6
5

If they have a matching blood type, just in case…😃

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1mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

Funny,respectful and cam act like my bsf and a partner

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1mo

ENFJ

Sagittarius

3
4

As most think: 7 feet tall 200k salary Good in every single aspect... (kna' I mean).. Hair for days. In reality: I don't look. Stop asking silly questions. Edit : I've met some of the best looking people who have great roles/jobs but still didn't want to be with them... it is all about feelings. Real people don't chase specific details. (edited)

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1mo

INTJ

Gemini

8
7

Friendship, kindness, loyalty, empathy

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1mo

ISTJ

Cancer

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Someone who knows how to take care of themselves and the people they care about

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1mo

INFJ

Libra

2
1

Personality, honesty, loyal, funny honestly just a good person (edited)

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1mo

ENFP

Leo

Funny, good communication, treats me well :)

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1mo

ISTJ

Pisces

Gamer

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1mo

INFP

Virgo

4
5

Someone silly n cute lol

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1mo

ENFP

Virgo

Consistency. Can't trust you if I'm always on my toes around you. 🤷‍♀️ (edited)

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1mo

INFJ

Leo

8
7

Sincerety, able to stay together thru thick and thin, trust, tolerance, honesty.

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1mo

ISFJ

Capricorn

8
7

Compassion, comprehension & consideration. Once upon a time I used to believe Communication was 🔑. However, I would communicate 365 days to someone who didn't care to understand. Lesson learned.

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1mo

INFJ

Virgo

1
2

Consistency, a strong emotional connection, passion, kindness. Someone I can be my full self (the good and not so good)

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1mo

INFJ

Scorpio

Compassion, emotional intelligence, emotional stability, empathy, sympathy, sense of humor, knows how to communicate their feelings with maturity.

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2

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

Kindness, patience, leadership, perseverance, and wisdom. *Fruit of the Spirit

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1mo

INFJ

Pisces

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8

Trust and a strong bond. Two important things that I look for in a long-term relationship.

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1mo

ISFP

Scorpio

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3

Honesty, Respect, Loyalty

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2

1mo

INTP

Libra

8
7

Be loyal, be consistent, and make me laugh. :)

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1mo

INFP

Gemini

5
4

Honestly, I look for depth someone emotionally intelligent, loyal, and grounded. I value consistency over charm, someone who communicates openly, respects boundaries, and still knows how to have fun. A real teammate not just in good times but when things get messy. Trust, effort, and emotional safety matter more to me than surface-level attraction.💝

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1mo

ISFJ

Virgo

Authenticity

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1mo

INFP

Virgo

Respect, honestly, ambition

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2

1mo

INTJ

Capricorn

9
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Honest, kind, creative, empathetic, and loves animals and nature. Pretty sure we did this one on Oct 22nd. (edited)

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1mo

ESFJ

Capricorn

9
8

i just want someone who can be my partner in life. someone i can rely on and grow with. physically i'd like him to be taller than me. and it would be nice if we share the same beliefs. someone who can truly commit for the long term.

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1mo

INTP

Pisces

2
1

An equal, a partner means someone who uplifts and inspires you. They should keep the peace in your life. Not disrupt it. You should always strive to be comfortable and happy alone and only seek someone because you want too.

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0

1mo

ISTJ

Virgo

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1mo

ENFJ

Libra

3
4

Funny loyal honest & who loves animals and nature.✨

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1

1mo

ENFJ

Gemini

Loyalty

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1

1mo

INFJ

Cancer

Honesty and good communication

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1

1mo

ISTJ

Sagittarius

Loyalty mainly

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0

1mo

INTP

Aries

That he’s committed to Christ

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3

1mo

INFP

8
7

Patience. A lot of patience.

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1

1mo

ISTJ

Leo

2
1

I need someone who lives nearby. I need someone who can lead, who has similar interests, who has a similar schedule, is ok with kids, and wants a relationship. (edited)

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1mo

INFJ

Leo

1
2

Honesty, commitment, and kindness

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1

1mo

INFJ

Libra

8
7

Honesty empathy trust love

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1

1mo

INFJ

Aries

6
7

Someone honest, kind, and emotionally mature. I don’t need perfection — just consistency, peace, and real connection. Someone who grows with me, not against me. ✨

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1mo

ENTJ

Pisces

8
7

Honesty, loyalty and intelligence

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1

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