Niani

1mo

INTJ
Virgo

I digress

I feel like for ever person who thinks you're "pretty" there's another person who'll say you're not their type 🤷🏽‍♂️ just wanted to clear up my stance on my previous post. Hope that helps others see my perspective. Anything physically seen is judged through an objective lens... and that's life. No wrong or right, just.....is.

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Randy

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I didn't see your last post so I'm going to start with this.Through my perception I see a lot of women as beautiful. However there are levels to this when it comes to who I choose to be with.Physical Beauty is important because we have to be attracted to you. However The personality also matters. I've dated woman who was beautiful but overtime the lust went away because we couldn't connect more than just a sexual level. The some woman i was less attracted to physically but mentally. Those relationships was great when it came to companionship however in the bedroom wasn't so great. So in order to find someone with the balance of both you have to get to know them. We are all different in several ways. We all have Passions and things we enjoy. We all have ways that we feel when we are around people. All those things add up to find the right mate by choosing what we like, don't like, and compromises. Now with that being said because I find most women attractive doesn't mean that i think they are all a good match for me. Those simple moments that shows me how special they are is what draws me into thinking about wanting to be with them. I see a lot of women so focused on trying to look good for a man that they forget that's not the only way to attract a man. I've seen men cheat on women who woman say are a "down grade" however those type of woman make a man feel special. Men are drawn to attractive women but through time they're attracted through how a woman treats him. It's the same way woman want to be treated.

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Niani

1mo

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Virgo

Wow I enjoyed reading that. Very insightful. I forgive you since you admitted that you didn't see my previous post so this response obviously doesn't fit what I was talking about but it is well said and thoughtful. Thanks

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Randy

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INTJ
Pisces

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@Niani You're welcome

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Venkat

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INFP
Scorpio

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Logan

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INTP
Gemini

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Everyone has their type. And every type is different levels of attractive to different people.

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Niani

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INTJ
Virgo

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Goldy

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INFJ
Scorpio

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I view it like when you tell someone, "You're beautiful," it's just a happy sensation. However, telling someone "You're really beautiful" is an inner acceptance of feeling mentally and emotionally at ease. as you view a person from within, rather than through their eyes.

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