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Posted Saturday, October 12, 2024
2mo
INTP
Taurus
Never allow yourself to be someone's second choice
When you entertain a man that keeps you as his backup option, you’re missing out on building relationships with guys that are interested in making you their main priority. Why waste time on men that are not deserving of your time? Don’t feel bad for blocking and deleting him, you don’t owe him anything.
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Bear Herron
2mo
INTP
Virgo
It is very much the exact same situation. I was the backup option, I missed out on building relationships.
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Bear Herron
2mo
INTP
Virgo
Wow, and y'all wonder why we don't open up to y'all 😂 imagine if a man said to you what you are saying to me. You would have a conniption fit, tell him he has no right to tell you what your situation is and is not. Well guess what sweetheart, you don't get to say what mine is or isn't.
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Bear Herron
2mo
INTP
Virgo
And quite frankly, if this is how you talk to people, I'm surprised you are anybody's choice period.
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Jelena
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Idk why i cant see the commnets ?
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