I'm not used with asking every little details about someone else's background like their numbers of siblings, other friends, distant relatives, their occupation and so on, especially during beginning of the conversation. Because I believe such infomation are quite sensitive and I respect their privacy. I rather engage in lighter kind of conversation like common interests, other topics etc. End.

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Its like ....Hey, I’m not applying for a job, so I don’t need your full resume just yet. Let’s stick to common interests first like how you take your coffee or which side of the bed you claim as your territory.😂😂

Definitely not the only one! I have been also asked what days I work quite often ... 🥴

I’m not the FBI! I don’t need your entire family tree or the coordinates to your childhood home just yet. Let’s start with the basics like, do you believe pineapple belongs on pizza?😂😂

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