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Introvert vs extrovert

Most of the people here are introverts like me , so i have questions for those who are introvert , Do you guys try to be extrovert ? Do you guys think being introvert effects in a negative way in your daily life activities ? Do you guys try to be one who starts conversation or friendship ? . Do you guys wants to join parties , friends gathering etc but your personality doesn't allow you to do so ?

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It takes a long time and a lot of adjustment to change your personality. In my case I thought I was an introvert for a long time but realized it was how I was raised that suppressed my personality. I actually got my energy from socializing but was scared to do so due to parental pressures. So I supplemented to keep my energy up with negative results. That said speaking up and being an extrovert are different things. Being an extrovert is to get energy from being socialible, to thrive in it. Any introvert can speak up and be the life of the party. You guys just need to seek solitude and decompress afterwards. Ask yourself if other factors are feeding into your anxiety to interact and work on those. I have seen people get on well by speaking about something they have knowledge on instead of trying to follow water cooler talk. (edited)

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I tested as Infp 4 years ago, but I want to retake the test as I do feel more extroverted at times.

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