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Cutie

Cutie

2y

INTP

Libra

Socializing

Hello Guys, I'm an Introvert and I'm not good at socializing, Can you give me some advices on how to socialize effectively?

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Colin

Colin

2y

INTJ

Taurus

5
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1. People love when you express interest in their interests. 2. Genuine compliments can absolutely make someone's day. This is especially true for guys, who generally aren't showered with compliments the way attractive women are. 3. If they're not investing energy in the conversation too, there's really not much you can do. 4. There's nothing like a good story. 5. Ask insightful questions - don't just ask what they do, ask them why they do it. 6. Ask follow up questions, this allows the conversation to progress into other topics naturally instead of feeling like a stilted interview. 7. Don't be afraid of rejection. Just put your best foot forward and see what happens. 8. Take opportunities to jump off from things they've said to share details about yourself, you don't need to be asked! (edited)

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Igor

Igor

2y

INTJ

Capricorn

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6

don't leave your room, don't make a mistake.

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Wynn

Wynn

2y

INFP

Pisces

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3

Nothing is more hilarious than the fact that almost everyone responding are introverts. The most important skill you can learn in conversation is asking open-ended questions, not close-ended ones (though the occasional close-ended question won't hurt if it doesn't shut down the conversation). Also like everyone else said, try to not stress! Have fun with it

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Jeffrey

Jeffrey

2y

INTJ

Cancer

I think you just have to sometimes jump into a conversation. Say something nice about or to them but keep it short. Don't wanna overwhelm someone you just met! Easier said than done but it's easier if you mention something you have in common, if possible.

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Shai

Shai

2y

INFJ

Aries

@Cutie I think what you're doing now is a good start. Just having the confidence to put yourself out there little by little and take a chance to ask a question or start with a comment or compliment is good. I'm an introvert too and I don't really like small talk so I tend to open conversations with a fun, interesting question or a comment on something I find relatable on a person's bio. If they respond, cool. If not, just keep it pushing.

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Hector

Hector

2y

INTP

Leo

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4

Sometimes you would need to calculate on what do you want to say without hurting yourself or others that ends in awkward situations. It happens on everyone where they often self-monitor themselves to get in touch with their own beings as anxiety blooms. Just thinking and focus on the topic and if fear still kick in. Take a couple of deep breaths to set it at ease

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