The age old question: how do I know if a girl is gay?!I'm a chapstick lesbian looking for someone to possibly date. But my sense of style apparently isn't gay enough to to tell the world that I like girls😭 Do you guys have any signal or rules that helps you scope out potential partners?

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I hear you can add a rainbow or lesbian flag-thened accessory, like a button or bracelet. Or wear flannel.

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No clue, if I knew, I'm sure I'd have a gf by now.

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Same boat here ;-;

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This is also my dilemma 😅

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I mean there's pubs, apps, communities and in general if you're not sure and you're hitting it off with someone, you can always just be straight (phun intended) forward and ask if they're into women in a subtle or none subtle way, depending on your style.

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Grow your mustache out

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Well aside from straight up telling them. I guess personally I only could guess by the group, like if she's on the fem side and doesn't look gay to me at all, I look at who she's mostly around, any gay stereotypes like the basic nails, flannel... Because although those are stereotypes, I think we started using them as a way to find each other in crowds. However, I do believe that the best way to tell someone you like that you're gay is to tell them, to flirt with them, make eye contact... Only as long as it's safe too though. I hope I helped even a little bit?

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Maybe something with rainbow colors or lesbian flag color pattern? It's mostly a vibe than a thing. Dressing androgynous?

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This is also my dilemma 😅

I mean there's pubs, apps, communities and in general if you're not sure and you're hitting it off with someone, you can always just be straight (phun intended) forward and ask if they're into women in a subtle or none subtle way, depending on your style.

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