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My Struggle

I learned a lot about emotional intelligence, spirituality, the language of love, the psychology of love, and the language of anger (where many people don't know why we often fight with our partners and what causes it). But I haven't found someone I'm looking for or loves me the way I learned. Is... read more

On being "too much"

Most of my life I've had a myriad of connections dissipate over the years, to what seemed to me to be quite suddenly. People who were entirely enamored of me or extraordinarily fond of me one day were sick of me the next. But I wasnt any different?! I've been told my whole life that I'm too much.... read more

Falling in love at 40

1. Prioritize comfort over mere heartbreak. In their 40s, many people look for a partner who soothes their hearts, not just the sensation of falling in love. 2. Judge based on character, not just appearance. Honesty, maturity, responsibility, and how they treat others become more important than... read more

Expectations are the bane of every relationship!

People are conditioned from very early on that every relationship is transactional. Everyone keeps an invisible score of good vs bad things and usually because of our psychology we tend to remember and focus on the bad. It’s a survival mechanism. It’s actually the expectations we place onto others... read more

Silly

Its silly to believe the world will turn a new leaf when all around me seems bleak. I can't pin point the time in my life where I had that light. I was always struggling in some sort of way, either physically, financially or mentality. Even when I come home, to my partner whom I need to vent tells... read more

Relationship Musts

For everyone here who is wanting to be in a healthy relationship or to those who are in a healthy relationship please consider the following: To create, build, and maintain a healthy relationship these are the dues and also don'ts to consider when dealing with your chosen partner and developing... read more