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Posted Wednesday, September 17, 2025
2mo
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Libra
Making a polycule
how do i even start making a closed lesbian polycule? like i don’t want something messy or open, i want it to feel like home, a circle where everyone’s committed and respected. it’s hard enough finding one person who matches my energy, so how do you find more than one, and make sure everyone connects with each other too? i keep thinking about balance, no one left out, no one carrying all the weight. i want to know how to build it healthy from the ground up, not just fall into chaos. how do you keep it fair, keep it loving, and keep it *ours*?
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