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Posted Thursday, November 30, 2023
7mo
INTJ
Gemini
Do you think dating in the 90s and 00s was easier than it’s been over the last decade?
Would especially like to hear from Millennials and Gen X
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7mo
ENFJ
Capricorn
Likely yes. Dating apps werent too much of a thing back them. Actually going out and meet people and put in the actual effort did wonders. We subconsciously focus on directing our effort toward someone in specific when there are less options available than when there are more (to the tip of our fingers). Also people become very picky for that same oversaturated amount of people. So, because of how saturated dating apps are, that means there are more people "we" males and females think will be up for dating us. While yes it gives you more possibilities and opens up locations beyond your typical day-to-day routines, it also makes most people give less value to actual dating, because they end up dating multiple people throughout a period until they feel one of them is the one. But no relationship will ever be perfect, and there will always be an issue. The mistake people make is that they try to find perfection when that is just not realistic. A proper relationship will work through issues by using proper verbal communication when issues are present. With few exceptions being infidelity (which i wouldnt personally give a chance to anyone after that, and just inform the other person we are effectively over), and perhaps other big things. But the very vast majority of issues can be talked and properly solved if both parties properly talk and agree to try to find a solution.
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7mo
INTJ
Aries
Highly depends on your popularity. High demand - easier than ever before. Huge dating pool, easy access with technology. Low popularity - had to compete just with a local population. Now with the world. Depending on people around - it could go both ways. Now - no chance.
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