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How to start a conversation

So I'm new to dating and dating sites, and I'm honestly too shy to even start talking to someone, so how would you start or how would you like someone else to?

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From my experience the best way to start conversation is avoid small talk. Women are less likely to be interested in basic conversation starters like hi how are you? Or in any way of introduction. Conversation to start is either asking a question both you and her have in common or a reference that she can pick up on. My starters would be something like. "Krusty Crab Pizza is the pizza....." Her response should be "For you and me!" That's one way to start a conversation with a smile and something each know

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Introduce yourself. Start a conversation based on mutual interests or something that intrests you from their profile. In most cases, there is a fully developed, thinking, feeling adult human on the other end. Treat them like one.

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Thanks for the suggestions! I'll give them a shot

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