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Posted Saturday, May 25, 2024
6mo
INFP
Capricorn
Dealing with poly shaming
Whenever someone makes you feel like you being yourself needs to be fixed, that's not the kind of person you want in your life. You don't want someone who's gonna make you feel like there is something wrong with you. That will only hurt you more, especially in a romantic relationship. You also don't need to be stereotyped. Polyamorous doesn't mean open relationship, a lot of poly relationships aren't open relationships and even if they are that's ok. Polyamory isn't a shameful thing, it's consensual, meaning all parties involved agreed on it. You don't not need someone who makes you out to have commitment issues or calls you a cheater. Nah, you deserve to be accepted the way you are. Take it from me, being polyamorous is part of the person I am. Monogamy feels wrong to me and that's ok.
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