As a therapist, relationship coach and NLP master practitioner, I have seen many fellas get this wrong. Wildly so. From the clients I've coached a lot a guys often talk about themselves and forget to ask questions of the person they're chatting to. Often they feel that they are sharing there personal life what they for up to, thinking that it's bonding because men don't share so openly, but forget to ask questions, and it leaves the girl with room to only respond with " oh nice" "sounds cool" "glad you had a good day" etc. However women want to be asked how they are, what their days been like and feel the guy has interest in her. It's not a red flag but the girl loses interest as the guys seems to be self centred. So check your texts to see how balanced they are with sharing information and asking questions to find out more about the other person. Happy hunting (edited)

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