Alondra
Alondra

1y

INFP

Gemini

What do yall think?

Do you believe it’s better to get even or do you think it’s better to be mature and give the person the benefit of the doubt?

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Alondra

Alondra

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1y

INFP

Gemini

Personally y’all I believe in both cases. I think it honestly depends on the circumstances of the situation. Part of me feels that the fact that you can hurt me makes me wanna hurt you and in some cases I believe it’s better to leave. Idk does that make me toxic? (edited)

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Tom

Tom

1y

INTJ

Libra

7
8

Most of the time I really have no idea what even is... Walk away, no stress and find peace elsewhere.

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Jason

Jason

1y

ISFP

Aquarius

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3

If you are considering giving them the benefit of the doubt then theres a part of you that thinks they didnt do it... getting back at someone for something they didnt do seems harsh

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Übermensch

Übermensch

1y

INFJ

Sagittarius

9
1

Give the benefit of the doubt. It results in less emotional baggage, fosters better relationships, and allows for growth. However, use your judgement and walk away if the person is a repeat offenders or intentionally harm you . Instead of revenge, consider a direct conversation, setting boundaries, or focusing on your own well-being. Remember - Living well is the better revenge.

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