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"The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new." — Socrates

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When choosing people, we may look for beauty, money, or health because those are the things that catch our eyes first. But we forget that money can disappear, health can change, and beauty is never permanent. While focusing on what is external, we completely overlook the true essence of a person —... read more

39 Single and having an existential crisis

I am 39, but I feel great and I get to enjoy my life doing what I love that I could not do because I thought I needed a relationship to be happy. It does get lonely being a single older fart, especially since I am new to the area I am living in and feel like an outcast after and I spent my entire... read more

What's your opinion?

For six years, I have been in a committed relationship with someone from Bihar, India. Despite the length of time we have spent together, we have never met in person. Our connection has been built entirely through text and voice, as I have always felt more comfortable avoiding video calls.... read more

Once

The flames burned with incredible anger and lashed outwards to any that tried to calm it. In isolation the flame roared and spat out embers, trying to destroy all it saw wrong with the world, but in reality it was clarifying itself. Slowly reducing the tongues that lashed to and from and focusing... read more

Back again 😊

Been a while, but just to update: We had our third kid in October and have been focusing on him. We also made a new friend who's fun to be around. I've also been working on some new puppets and drawings while Jenny's been trying to get some crochet projects done. We are still interested in... read more