I have a lot of baggage from multipletraumas, I tend to be all in from the start, fall easily, get clingy because I've fallen...and that's just the personality...looks wise, I've a lot of curves and extraweight and that steers people away from me...
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Birute
2mo
INFJ
Scorpio
I think because I still didn't decide in which country I want to live so I don't want have any person who would be in my way. Or maybe people with who I dated wasn't a best option. I just didn't feelsafe with them 100 percentespecially when I saw they dark side and they saw mine🤔
Interesting question 🤔 Problems with trust (and I know where they came from). And sometimes I think I'm not really good at communicating with people. But maybe it's just my self-esteem. I'm working on it
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Szabó Bálint
2mo
INFJ
Sagittarius
Just, I don't know, maybe I'm out of luck to find someone who thinks "Hmm, that guylooksfineenough for me, letsdate with him"
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Posted April 1, 2023
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8w9
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Trust issues and high walls 🙈🙈
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Well if you have high walls like that then its doing its job at least!
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8w9
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@Maxwell Haha 🤣 Well now I'm not sure if it's a good thing or not 😂
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@Eena how about lowering that wall a little bit... That could make a huge difference.
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8w9
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@Yunior R. Oh I do. It just takes time and a lot of trust :)
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Because I won't settle for less and their is no friendship anymore because person wants to jump into relationship straight away
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8w7
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I'm just not what anyone of the opposite sex wants. And I'm ok with that. (Even as a cis-straight male)
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6w7
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I refer to myself as a professional introvert and I can be oblivious to people who actually like me more than just a friend.
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8w7
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Lack of confidence, don't go out of my way to talk to people, don't openly flirt, dark humor, oblivious to people who find me attractive, inherently off putting and look like I'm mean (resting itch-face), don't smile for no reason despite having dimples and abnormal standards (kinda of their pretty bare actually I want someone who I can connect with rather it though similar taste in music and movies , both play videos games, sci Fi/anime nerd you know at least someone I can have actual conversation with)
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As someone with too high standards myself, I always saw it as a way to not be absolutely neurotic about someone i get into a relationship with because those thing will pick at you and eventually cause problems. Though I also see it as selfishness on my part so there is probably a middle ground we're both not seeing lol.
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8w7
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@Maxwell yeah i prefer to be able to actually have a conversation with someone instead of letting vices take the way they would of my only interest in that is their pretty finding that middle ground is really important imo for me without the conversation I become really clingy to the good things someone offers but also really distant because their another part of me that need intellectual stimulation and If they don't meet at least one of those standards I'm just gonna push them away cause their no substance for me to be attracted too to want to go back where brings me to another reason I'm single is because I will ghost someone in a heartbeat
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2w1
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Low self confidence
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9w1
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Because I get bored by people easily and then leave them, and I have anger issues. And I can't fake it until I make it.
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2w3
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Currently because I choose to be. I will not enter into another relationship until I decide it is what I want
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I'm not single, but when I was, it was because I wanted to be. I had things to do, and I was much happier alone than in a romantic relationship
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2w1
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I have a lot of baggage from multiple traumas, I tend to be all in from the start, fall easily, get clingy because I've fallen...and that's just the personality...looks wise, I've a lot of curves and extra weight and that steers people away from me...
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2mo
I think because I still didn't decide in which country I want to live so I don't want have any person who would be in my way. Or maybe people with who I dated wasn't a best option. I just didn't feel safe with them 100 percent especially when I saw they dark side and they saw mine🤔
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5w4
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Because I'm an autistic asexual and homoromantic potato with zero social skills. I guess that's why I've been forever alone 🤔
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I don’t put myself out there and being 5’4 doesn’t help either, I’m not saying all women but most women prefer tall men
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4w5
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Interesting question 🤔 Problems with trust (and I know where they came from). And sometimes I think I'm not really good at communicating with people. But maybe it's just my self-esteem. I'm working on it
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Just, I don't know, maybe I'm out of luck to find someone who thinks "Hmm, that guy looks fine enough for me, lets date with him"
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5w4
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I just don't think people stay long enough. They get to know me and then decide to disappear. There are times when I confuse attention with love and get disheartened. Whenever this has happens I doubt my judgement skills. I am probably not approachable too; and think that no one would be able to stay 'happily' with me Well.
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2w3
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Hard to gage sense of humor online and in person everyone is married 🥲
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