Opposite Community

Who is your perfect fit?

I keep seeing couples that make sense together. Ie two PhDs, two BJJ fighters, 2 gym rats, etc. What would your ideal match be into? I find myself attracted more to the complete opposite of me. Or maybe adjacent interests, but no major overlap.

Duality of life

Anyone else ever get the urge to travel or go on a hike, then get hit with the opposite urge to just do nothing but brainrot. Me currently 😵‍💫

Which hurts worse? Your partner leaving you for someone of the same gender as you, or someone of the opposite gender?🤨🤔😔🥺🥲

You are not the same person with everyone

Psychologists call it the relational self. The version of you that shows up with your parent is genuinely different from the one with your partner, your oldest friend, a stranger. Not performance. Not fakeness. Each relationship activates a different part of what's already there. Most people assume… read more

What are the first things u look at

At the opposite sex? Or same sex if u're attracted to same. Like, turn on and turn off. Both vise.

From Fragile to Antifragile

If the first stage was about separation, and the second about distraction and imposed frameworks, then the third stage reaches its final point: What happens to a person when their ability to respond is gradually replaced by automatic reaction? This is where Nassim Taleb's distinction between the… read more

Rethink...

To be self centered isn't to be narcissistic, quite the opposite. Narcissism comes of a lack of self, a lack that requires overcompensation to "mean" something. To be self possessed or self obsessed in a way that allows you to show up as your best, most true and authentic self is exactly what those… read more

Values or Personality

Do you think similar values or similar personality is more important in forming a relationship? 🤔 I reckon opposite personality attract but need to have similar values 😅

😂

Im the opposite but this is kinda funny.. I wanna help her pinch big bro..pls look at my dress u big guy🥲🤣

“Men this” “Women that” I’m no expert, but maybe if you stopped blaming your problems on the entire opposite sex you’d be a little bit happier person. 🥲

Today’s thoughts

It is really rare that I get along with the opposite sex. Most men that I talk with here disappear after a few exchange of messages, that’s the norm for me. It’s because I don’t feel doing the heavy lifting for both of us and I’m sure they feel my energy about it too so they do the same. Nothing… read more

Room in my dream

All I need is a room with a wide sliding window, a comfortable bed, a bright room painted in light pastel pink, a study desk by the window diagonally opposite the bed, a cozy floor cushion for watching TV, and a cream-colored or light wood bookshelf. I could easily spend all day in a room like… read more

Sacrifice

What would you: You want happiness. You wnat it with your utmost heart (Happiness is subjective. Like wantingto succeed is happinessfor some one). But it comes at the cost of someone's sadness. What you want is the exact opposite someone else will get. They want the happiness too. So what will you… read more

LOVE & SEX — TWO DIFFERENT ENERGIES

You may be surprised to hear this: Love and Sex are not the same thing. In fact, they move in opposite directions. The more deeply Love develops within a person, the more Sexual desire begins to transform and lose its dominance. And when Love becomes absent, Sex can become the strongest force… read more

Not much in my fridge so it's fajitas

Really glad I learned how to velvet meats, the freeze really well I had a dream last night, it was the best dream I've ever had I only remember the last bit of it Where this stylist took time out of her busy day to fix my hair It made my heart skip a beat I haven't felt that in years Being nice… read more

The Ultimate Fake Scripture: Unpacking "God Helps Those Who Help Themselves"

Opening Prayer: Heavenly Father, we come to You with grateful hearts, praising You for being our true Father and Provider. Lord, open our eyes to recognize your complete truth and dismantle the lies of worldly self-reliance. Teach us to come to You freely as Your beloved children, relying entirely… read more

Wylder (Nightreign)

I drew this a year ago when ELDEN RING: NIGHTREIGN came out one day when I was bored and staring at the side profile of Wylder on my screen I never did the rest of the body but i had wanted to draw his sword resting upon the opposite shoulder. I'm very proud of it cause I'm quite rusty when it… read more

Question 4

What do you think of having opposite gender best friend? And what should be the boundaries??

Is It fine to Have friends of the opposite gender if you're Dating someone? What's your opinion?

Women authors

So I've read around 3000 books by now, history, fantasy and sci-fi, but as I choose only male authors, only a few of them were written by a woman, who I mistaken to be a man by their name - the books were nice and didn't "magically" become bad after I learned the truth, and I didn't see difference… read more

✨️Unwanted Advice✨️

If someone's availability affects your mood that much, the solution isn't to punish them for having a life outside of you. Silent treatment, passive-aggressive comments, guilt trips, and creating distance just because someone isn't constantly available won't make them want to be closer to you. It… read more

Opposite 🩶

I was dreaming talking to a stranger and get feel better 🤍

Anyone in Ipswich wanna start going gym together? Or be bad influences on eachother to either be beach ready for 2027, or whenever the opposite is

I asked why am I attracted to people who look like me? (ie. dark hair, skin tone etc.) Do you feel the same or the opposite?

Does personality really matter at the beginning?

Most people judge the book by the cover and do not give the time or intent to dig any deeper. Yes, for some members of the opposite sex needs to find the other person pyhiscally attractive to start dating them. Most people try to put their best foot forward but everyone acts at the beginning. When… read more

Making assumptions

When u try to get to know someone, making assumptions based on what they look like, or just some silly hunch, is really unnecessary. No one likes when ppl making assumptions on them. Ure trying to get to know them? Just ask. Its off putting. Its gives the opposite result. Its not funny/amusing. Its… (edited) read more

Men asked me what kind of men I was looking for and I told them the details . And they became the opposite.. 🥹🙄😆😂

Now you won't wondering anymore why I kept laughing 😂😂 people and life are just that "funny'

Leaving without clarity…

🙌 Clarity allows the mind to accept what happened. Missing information does the opposite. ✍ When answers are missing, the mind fills the gaps with assumptions, doubts, and stories that may never be true. Sometimes, the damage is not the absence. It is the uncertainty left behind.

Love is beautiful in all its forms.💕

From what I've seen in people—though I could be wrong—single individuals naturally long for a soulmate, building a connection gradually through conversation. Sometimes you really click with someone, only to drift apart silently. Other times, you barely chat, yet the connection lasts for years. With… (edited) read more

Advice maybe? Or even just your opinion. (I reserve the right to retaliate if you're rude 🥲)

I'm currently talking with two girls. It wasn't what I intended, but here we are.. Honestly at this point it's probably going to be neither.. 1 Started talking to me after I felt like I missed an opportunity with a girl I saw again around Christmas, a family friend. She broke up with her bf, I… read more

I don't know who needs to hear this:

I don't know who needs to hear this but your ability to create the reality that you want is directly determined by your willingness to experience its opposite. Saving money will have you feeling broke while it's actually making you rich. Setting boundaries will have you feeling alone while you're… read more

When people post viral food pictures..

I keep seeing some people, on here, just sp4mm¡ng the food feed with pictures they've taken online and passing it off as their own...and I wonder why? The only person they're cheating is themselves. Is it the fake thrill of approval? That dopamine hit for false recognition? It is baffling. On… (edited) read more

Is it okay for your partner to have a best friend of the opposite gender, or is that asking for trouble?

Yappers or no?

I wish guys (based off my dating pref, idk from the opposite pov) wrote more in their bios, I mean idk, appearance isn't enough for me. I could be a yapper tho based off my long ass one but I wish the people I'm considering matching wasn't so broad in their bios and it just doesn't catch my… read more

14km ride to and along The Strand

Today, I cycled to and along The Strand, Townsville's most popular strip of beach. It is in the opposite direction to where I normally ride. Here are some photos I took there.

For ladies

With low visual, how did you put on brownzer or contour? I still don’t know how to apply those two on my face. For context: Low visual is a face that has no strong feature, for example rounder eyes and soft jaw. Meanwhile high visual is the opposite of low visual (sharp eyes and jaw).

Lots of female friends, never a couple

As the title says, I'm a male with way more friends who are women than men, as women have been more interesting to hang out with. I've rarely gone on a date though. I do value platonic relationships, and am not attracted to my friends romantically or sexually. However, when I am interested in a… read more

From Fragile to Antifragile

If the first stage was about separation, and the second about distraction and imposed frameworks, then the third stage reaches its final point: What happens to a person when their ability to respond is gradually replaced by automatic reaction? This is where Nassim Taleb's distinction between the… read more

Advice people

Oh well it has been three weeks since my life changed. I decided that some outside perspective was needed on this issue I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. I am 55. The main treatment was removal of the organ. The main side effects as it relates to romance is being rendered surgically impotent… read more