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Ramblings of a madman

I give up. And I mean that from the deepest, darkest corners of my heart. Not on life. Not on myself. Not on the future I have spent so long dreaming of. This is not a final goodbye, nor is it a surrender to the darkness. It is a promise. A quiet vow to the person I have spent far too long… read more

I miss this cat! He was an Introvert like me

I missed this neighborhood cat. He was an introvert just like me when you don’t have friends and all you have is like a toxic family. The idea of a pet is very comforting because it brings you that closure that was always missing.

Bad Person

Am I bad person for ignoring someone who like me?but I don't like him. I've made closure and told him that i can't love him. But, he persists.

Cowboys dancehall closed..

Just my luck, I scheduled a day off to go this week, then they announced the closure...

Venus Retrograde is here (Oct 3 – Nov 13, 2026) 💫

A time to slow down and reassess love, relationships, values, and even our finances. Old feelings or people may resurface, not always to come back, but sometimes to show us what still needs closure. ❤️‍🩹 Basically… the universe said, “Let’s revisit that.”

Closure

Today after work I went to malmö sweden to leave some gifts i had gotten for a girl I had 1 date with in front of her door. Had an amazing first date with her and we really hit it off but due to personal reasons she was no longer interested in pursuing a relationship. For me to get closure I wanted… (edited) read more

Closure

Today after work I went to malmö sweden to leave some gifts i had gotten for a girl I had 1 date with in front of her door. Had an amazing first date with her and we really hit it off but due to personal reasons she was no longer interested in pursuing a relationship. For me to get closure I wanted… read more

Have I been standing in a queue line for 150 minutes? Yes 😂

*insert numerous expletives* stupid wind causing delays across the park!! 😅 At least it's running now! (Until the next gust of wind that triggers a closure!) Edit 1: As soon as this uploaded, an announcement was made its ceased operations due to adverse weather! 😂😂😂 Edit 2: 160 minutes… (edited) read more

final conclusions and rigid identity Vs ongoing descriptive refinement

a shield against psychological suffering and intellectual stagnation i have found is viewing your thoughts as open-ended, revisable models (provisional), rather than static absolute truths the "looseness" allows you to effortlessly adapt when reality contradicts your expectations. when people… read more

A healthy connection doesn't disappear when the conversation gets difficult.

Nobody apologizes anymore, they just disappear and call it moving on. Accountability died somewhere between pride and ego. People would rather lose someone than admit that they were wrong. We've normalized walking away instead of working through it. Communication became optional, ghosting became… read more

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Sometimes you forgive someone who never apologized, and the lesson is that peace is something you give yourself, not something you get from them. Forgiveness isn’t about pretending the hurt never happened—it’s about releasing the hold it still has on you. It’s choosing to stop waiting for an… read more

Not everything has closure .... Most of the time just end without closures. Accept it and keep going 🙌

How do you manage frustration over experiences where you never got closure or resolution?

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Maturity is accepting that closure does not always come from conversations. Sometimes it comes from acceptance. - ✍️

Assessment Results

Has anyone taken an autism assessment and ended up being told you weren’t confirmed to be autistic? How did it make you feel? Did they tell you you might have something else like ADHD? I just took my first appointment today. My next one is this Friday, and then the last one will be about the… read more

Accurate

I let myself believe that today would be the day I got closure. Instead, silence.

You ain't special ...you are just another dude in her list

The moment you match with her, there's a good chance you're not "the guy." You're another profile in a queue. Another notification. Another conversation competing for attention. While you're thinking, "Maybe this is different," she's deciding which conversation is worth continuing.Want a reality… read more

Do guys actually get scared of a real connection, or is "she's just not the one" always the truth?

Guys, I want to ask something honestly, based on a real situation I just went through. When you say things like: “you’re not the right person,” “I don’t feel what I’m supposed to feel,” “I don’t see a future,” what does it actually mean for you? Is it really just incompatibility? Or is it… read more

I got the message, but how hard is it to say “Hey, I don’t want to talk to talk anymore”

Guess the silence is the closure. I just wish some people aren’t as cowardly about it.

Slow goodbye

The beauty in slow goodbye is that it teaches u to grow. It teaches u that closure is not always about words but sometimes its about acceptance....Because not all story ends with a clear goodbye, some just fades and in fading u learn to let go with grace 💪❤

Psychology of Faith

Why Humans Need Religion's Meaning Why does faith persist across all cultures and times? Humans are fundamentally meaning-seeking creatures who are uniquely aware of their own mortality and the chaos of the universe. Religion steps in to provide the ultimate comfort. 1. The Meaning Imperative… read more

Rainbow Road

I've been going around to different parks near the ATL area and this one really caught my attention. People place the collars of their beloved departed pets on the railing. You can see some in the picture. The bridge itself goes over a small stream and leads to a mile long walking path. It's… read more

What Happened To The Honest Goodbye?

Not too long ago, it was common place to tell someone: “I had a great time, but I’m not interested in pursuing this any further.” It was the common decency and respect we used to have. Today, it no longer exists. That clarity, that closure, Is often replaced with ghosting, leaving the other… read more

Sometimes, when we still care about someone, we want to know their side not because we plan to return—but because we want closure inside ourselves.

Why are some people so against apologizing?

It’s like admitting they’re wrong feels like the worst thing they can do, when the truth is if they apologized and worked to make it right, forgiveness could be theirs. Sometimes I wonder if they just don’t apologize because they think they did nothing wrong or it would be too hard for them to… read more

why do some women feel its ok to not give closure?

I understand that everyone is entitled to do what is best for them (or what they feel or think is anyway) but many times i feel like they dont genuinely take the time to consider how it could ultimately negatively affect the other person, why would someone want potential blood on their hands or on… read more

Finally got closure with an ex. Is this what feeling healed is like. I feel great!!

It's still better to waste your 4 or 5 months to figure out that you can't match the energy with them, or to figure out that they aren't going to give you any closures you deserve and you cut the ties off. Rather than spending 2 or 3 years for one same person just because you believe they'll change

--- Once you know they won't give you the closure you deserve, walk away. No regret, as long as your intentions are pure and honest, it's not you, it's them.

Closure

Trials & trainings aren't meant to loop indefinitely. Heal then rise.

Silence

Silence is difficult because the mind wants closure in a language it can control. A reply. An explanation. A sign that the waiting meant something. But sometimes silence is not emptiness. Sometimes it is information. It shows you where effort is one-sided. Where access was mistaken for… read more

Wat a sleepless night 😌 If you could receive closure from one person, who would it be?

Question....

Let’s talk closure. Do you actually need it from the other person, or is it just a boundary you set with yourself?

Inseparable, Until We Were Strangers

We were once completely inseparable, the kind of friends who went everywhere together, until we abruptly drifted into strangers and left me wondering if I was just a temporary placeholder all along. Years later, he still visits my sleep like clockwork, but last night's dream broke the usual… read more

Closure doesn’t come from understanding; it comes from acceptance.

Question: women to men

Why do men suddenly ghost someone instead of giving closure? (edited)

J.U.

"What’s Left of Me" I don't remember the moment I cracked maybe it was quiet. Maybe the silence screamed louder than your goodbye. Either way, something in me split, and I’ve been crawling through the pieces since. You left without thunder, no final fight, just distance dressed in… read more

The closure.

Today he emailed me. He admitted that he’s wrong. All he did to me and his wife is wrong. I’m glad that he acknowledge it and trying to fix their marriage. But deep down I’m still hurt. I thought he’s the one. We connected so well, from A to Z was too perfect. I just hope someday I will find… read more

My fav rave closure

Atlantis is always a good choice

Which one is hurt the most?

If you are the one hurting others, which reaction hurts you?