How can I be less of a jerk?

#showerthoughts

droolstain

10h

INTP

Virgo

6

7

Infantilization

As a millennial in the USA, I think we’re one of the lamest generations, and I believe it’s mostly due to how obsessed we are with childhood. We cling to it like no other generation has. Even gen Z, I believe, is making more of an attempt to transition into adulthood than most millennials. It’s... read more

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Ara

23h

INTP

Gemini

6

7

They Said Age Is Just A Number

Wrong. Age is alphabet; A, G, E= AGE.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

17h

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

That one momen, when you finally accepted that they'll never come back. And it feels like mourning someone who's still breathing. Knowing you still care about them, but that chapter is closed and you realize you can never talk again.

--- And when your intentions were pure and genuine, that's not your burden to carry.

#showerthoughts

Jesse

4h

INTP

Virgo

I'm so confused by dating now.

So sad story incoming be ready. Hello everyone. So I haven't dated in about 10 years. The reason for that is I was married for 9. My wife recently passed away in March and yes I know it seems fast to date so quickly. My wife had muscular dystrophy before she passed away which is a degenerative... read more

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Dakota

2y

INFJ

Cancer

“Floating in outer space, have I misplaced a part of my soul? Lost in the in-between, or so it seems, I'm out of control Floating in outer space, have I misplaced a part of my soul? Lost in the in-between, but it can't keep me asleep for long…”

#showerthoughts

Ara

23h

INTP

Gemini

6

7

You know what? I also don't know. That's why I asked. 😌✋🏻

#showerthoughts

Treavor

7h

INFP

Aquarius

9

1

Bro nothing feels better than a shower when your a inebriated

#showerthoughts

Umut

2y

ENTP

Gemini

4

3

Microwave

What if microwave is stealing warm food from other dimensions and replacing your cold food with theirs?

#showerthoughts

Karanbir Singh

58m

INTJ

Taurus

3

4

I miss u

#showerthoughts

Kayleigh

2y

ISTP

Leo

6

5

I wish there was a network of real life "Dexter's"

Like in criminal minds evolution, but for the greater good.

#showerthoughts

Steven

7h

ENFJ

Cancer

2

1

True!!

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

6d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Ballerina Cappuccina 🩰🩰

Ballerina Cappuccina, mi-mi-mi-mi È la moglie di Cappuccino Assassino E ama la musica, la-la-la-la La sua passione è il Ballerino Lololo

#showerthoughts

𝔇𝔦𝔞𝔫𝔞

21d

INTJ

Virgo

8

7

Somehow I can’t even stand those pleasers. Usually their real intentions are hidden and kindness / supportiveness is so fake.

#showerthoughts

Kendar Nekoli

4d

ISFP

Pisces

2

1

Wrong place

So, this is a question that I've been struggling with since I was little. If you die in this life, even ever so briefly, and come back, are you the same person afterward as you were beforehand? Or, is it that while all your memories are still there intact, a different soul takes over? Because,... read more

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MrVal

4d

INTJ

Gemini

8

7

Wich is the oldest language in the world ?

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Mbaly

21d

INFP

Virgo

What's the first thing you notice when someone approaches you?

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Mbaly

3d

INFP

Virgo

I'd like to make friends from around the world. People that can actually hold a good conversation.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

13d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I don't know how to respond to a person's comment on my post if they do it privately (through DM) because that means : I NEED TO accept your request first so I can reply to it when I'm not even sure whether you wanted to be friends with me/you just wanted to share your thoughts on that post~

--- That's why usually I only read that, and let your request hanging. Sorry not sorry 😅😅

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

16d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I finally reached the point where I still believe in healthy marriage & a happily ever after—ending, but I no longer dreaming about it.

Marriage isn't for everyone. And maybe, I'm that "everyone". So married, unmarried, I'm still me, a girl who'll treat people with kindness and always try to be their sunshine and rainbows ☀️☀️🌈🌈 Plus, people told me that the whole process of divorce is exhausting and expensive ~

#showerthoughts

Mike

4d

ENTP

Sagittarius

8

7

Lemonade

The magic was inside us all along.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

19d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️ : "Souls don't meet by accident" NO. It was truly an accident. And I was the only one who got hurt.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

14d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Funny how they always say that they wanted to have a girlfriend, someone to talk to, someone to have conversations with... yet the moment they finally got match with a woman here, they talked inappropriately,asked us inappropriate things, or wanted inappropriate stuff.

--- Please go work on yourself, some of you really need it. It's exhausting, even for anyone who's not looking for anything.

#showerthoughts

Mike

7d

INTJ

Aries

6

7

Unanswered question ⁉️

What does a hippopotamus taste like?

#showerthoughts

Baby

2d

ISFJ

Libra

7

8

Keep living 🤞✌️💫........

#showerthoughts

Mbaly

29d

INFP

Virgo

Tell me about a good day you will never forget.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

20d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

It's okay 👍👍

1/2

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

11d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️:If God wills, He will reunite two lost souls again — at the right time Me, thinking about God makes me reunite with people from my past:

#dating

Kenya

3mo

INFP

Scorpio

6

7

For the love of god...

Can someone please help me understand the point of liking someone only to not say anything or respond?!? #boo #single #showerthoughts

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

17d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

☹️☹️☹️

#showerthoughts

Robert

20d

INTP

Virgo

6

7

I just thought of a new nickname for the andrew tate banbase. "Tater tots"

#showerthoughts

Santia

13d

ENTP

Capricorn

4

5

Connection

How many people have made real connections on this app? Love, romance, friendship???

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

20d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️ : "Never let anyone ever get comfortable disrespecting you"

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

10d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

Me looking at my cat's old photos, knowing that she'll be my biggest heartbreak one day...

At the same time she's busy doing zoomies, run happily hunting for cockroaches & doesn't care about my feelings...

1/2

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

16d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

POV: you NO LONGER believe that love and loyalty still exist because, even 🦋THIS!🦋 gorgeous woman still get cheated on by her fiance?

--- I think I am good with getting old, spending time with my cat only.

1/7

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

13d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

🗣️ : The most dangerous anger comes from someone with a good heart. — If their heart is good, they won't bother to throw dangerous anger, they'll simply leave with no words spoken for your own good, and for their own sanity, bc they know you don't deserve them and their emotions.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

20d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I love three-members friendship. I love going anywhere with 2 ppl, so I can get the backseat, and go mute myself.

I like to listen to them talking like it’s a podcast. A podcast from my favorite podcasters 🌸🌸🌸 (edited)

#showerthoughts

Keith

20d

ISTP

Capricorn

2

3

Relationship success, Realistic expectations

I heard something recently that made sense, Relationships succeed when there's 100% effort put in between 2 people, 50/50 each but it only works when each person tries to put in 60. Interesting theory as anyone who's been in a relationship knows that there are peaks and troughs when it comes to... read more

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Arlind

19d

ENTP

Sagittarius

Future is the same too.

It remains unknown.

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

11d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

People on break-up day mostly : "In the right time, let's meet once again with the best version of us" Me : You had me & the best version of me. And yes, you wasted it. So no there's no "the right time" for you. Not to mention the "meeting you" once again, bc I'm not planning to

#showerthoughts

χαρμολύπη

17d

INTP

Scorpio

9

1

I'm so grateful for the people who never sugarcoating things ; never hides their 'aggressive', and mean attitude from the First 10-lines of our conversation. They technically saved me bcs we didn't have to waste each other's time.

——— That mean attitude needs to be healed first before they go outside to socialize with people. Just calm down.

#showerthoughts

Abena Buena Voz

8d

ISTJ

Cancer

4

5

Decluttering My Mind (edited)

1/6