Hapori Hurts
Te hapori hurts, kōrero, me te matapaki.
177 WAIRUA
KATOA
hurts
Tūtaki Tāngata Hou
TIKIAKENGA
Te hapori hurts, kōrero, me te matapaki.
177 WAIRUA
KATOA
hurts
Tūtaki Tāngata Hou
TIKIAKENGA
Kaore au e taea te moe i muri mai na te mea e tino mamae ana taku puku 😭
E pā ana tēnei ki te whakaute i a koe anō me te mārama ki tō uara i roto i te aroha🩷 Ka whakamaumahara mai i a tātou kāore te aroha tūturu e pā ana ki ngā kupu, e pā ana ki ngā mahi. Mena e tino manaaki ana tetahi, ka hangaia e rātou te wa mōu, ahakoa te nui o ngā mahi i te ao. He māmā ngā mea e…( whakatikahia )pānui atu
Pūrehuroa, pātea, te pāwera. Ki te pēnā, he pai te awhi. Engari kāore he tangata e awhi 😩😩
E kore au e whakapono kua tāhae anō taku ex i a au, ā, kua whakatūpato anō ki te patu i a au. Kāore au i te mea e tuku i a ia he āheinga, koia i reira te uaua ki te whakawhirinaki ki te tangata i ēnei rā.
18 tau i roto i te whanaungatanga. I whakaae ki te maha o ngā mea mō te mea i whakaaro au he aroha me te noho tahi. I haere tonu, te mamae i muri i te mamae. Ka mutu te whanaungatanga engari ka haere tonu rātou ki te hinga, ki te haere ki ngā ara e pā kino ana ki a au. Ka hiahia au ki te whakapono…pānui atu



Ki te kore te whara i ahau e whara i a koe, kaore e taea e koe te kii mai ki ahau e aroha ana koe ki ahau. 🤞💯
I te wā e tīmata ana koe ki te piri ki tētahi anō Ka maumahara koe ki ngā mea i tupu i te wā i pēnā ai koe
Nā reira, i mea mai tetahi ki a au ko taku ahurea he ahurea pātea tino pātea, he mea tino whakaiti ki te mea mō te ahurea o te tangata😡😔
Kua tino ngenge.


A, ka whakaaro au kāore au e pai ki te tangata... he aha i tuku ai au:( ka huri koe i tō whakaaro mēnā ka inoi au ki a koe ki te noho..
Ka hiahia au ki te pupuri i te whakaahua pai o au i roto i te mahara o te tangata, me te hiahia hoki ki te pupuri i te whakaahua pai o te tangata i whai wāhi nui ki ahau i roto i taku mahara, engari ka tino pāwera au i te wā..... Kaore e taea e au te whakaahua i aku kare ā-roto pouri...
A, i etahi wa, i te noho pūmau o te pō, ka whakaaro au mēnā kei te titiro tātou ki te marama kotahi e kanikani ana i te rangi me ngā whetū, kāore rānei e whakaae koe ki tō rātou ātaahua...


He tūtohu āu mō te rongoā i te pānga hinu?

He aha te take e mamae ai te mohio kei te aroha tonu koe ki tenei tangata engari kei te tarai koe ki te neke i mua engari kaore e hiahia ana ahau, e rongo ana ahau e hiahia ana ki te tangi engari kaore e taea.
- Kua riro au hei tangata i tino kino ahau, engari kei te koa au. 🙂

Ko te Akoranga Nui hei ako, ko te aroha me te aroha hoki.
Ngā Pānui Whai Pānga
Kua pānui koe i tētahi mea nā tētahi atu i tuhi, kāore rawa e whai tikanga, engari me wetewete tonu koe kia mōhio ai ki tā rātou e hiahia ana ki te kī, ā, ka roa ake tēnā i te mahi ake? Tērā rānei kua tino ngenge noa ahau? 🤔

He tino mamae, ki te ngākau me te hinengaro.

Ki te kawa rawa te ao, titiro mai ki ahau, he iti nei te reka kei roto i ahau. 🤣🤣
He tangata ahau kāore rawa ōku mātua tipuna. I mate rātou i mua i taku whānautanga, i roto rānei i taku tau tuatahi o te oranga... Ka rongo au i te tangata e kōrero ana mō ō rātou mātua tipuna, ka puta ake he paku hae ki roto i ahau, ki taku whakaaro. Ka kaha ake mēnā e kōrero ana rātou mō te…pānui atu
Kei te hiahia au ki te kōrero i aku whakaaro ki konei. I pēhia ahau e te ahotea i ngā rā tata nei nā ngā take ā-whānau, me te āta whakarite kei te pai ōku teina, engari i ētahi wā ka ara ake noa he raruraru. Ko te mea hou rawa ko te matenga o taku koroua. E mōhio ana ahau kua toru marama, engari…pānui atu
"I ētahi wā ka tupu anō Kāore au e maumahara ko tēhea te mea tuatahi Ko te mamae rānei Ko te mōhio kei te mamae" Nō hea ēnei kupu waiata?
Ka mamae te tūtaki ki tētahi nāna koe i whakapono anō ki te aroha, engari i ētahi wiki i muri mai, ka kitea koe e ako ana me pēhea te tuku atu anō 💔
He aha te mamae nui ake: ko te ngaronga o tētahi e arohaina ana e koe, ko te mōhio rānei kāore rawa te tangata i arohaina e koe i noho pēnei i tāu i whakaaro ai? Kaua e homai i te whakautu māmā. E hiahia ana ahau ki te rongo i ō whakaaro hōhonu rawa mō tēnei.
Ka hiahia koe ki te tangata e whakakata ana ki a koe tae noa ki te mamae o to puku, ki te tangata e tuku ana i nga awhi tino pai, ki te tangata e mohio ana ki a koe kaore e hiahiatia he whakamarama? Whiriwhiria te mohio. Kaore he whakautu he. 💗
#E kore rawa te aroha e whakamamae i tētahi... ko te ngākau tinihanga kē te take o te mamae.


He tangata e moe ana i te pai. Ka huri rātou i tā rātou pātea. Ka huri rātou i tā rātou moenga. Ka huri rātou i tā rātou tikanga pō. Ka whakamātau rātou i te melatonin, ka whakamātau i te whakangā, ka whai rātou i tētahi hōtaka māmā. Ko ia whakaritenga he mea tika. Ka pāngia ia ki tētahi take…pānui atu

Kāore he mea mamae atu i te whawhai puku i ngā pakanga, kāore he tangata hei tahuritanga atu, e kawe ana i te āwhā i roto i a koe, me te mau tonu i te āhua mārie ki waho, me te mōhio ahakoa ka whakarongo mai tētahi, tērā pea kāore rawa ia e mārama ki te hōhonutanga o tō mamae.
Kua kore au e tino maumahara ki taku moemoeā. He mea rerekē te āhei o te hinengaro ki te pupuri i tētahi ao katoa kia kotahi i a tātou e moe ana, kātahi ka wāwāhi i taua ao i te wā tonu ka oho ake tātou. Ka tauhou ngā wāhi, ka ngaro ngā kupu o ngā kōrero, ka memeha ngā kanohi kia kore ai e…pānui atu
Kāore he tangata e whai mana ki te whakangaro i te rangimārie i homai e Ihu Karaiti ki a koe, ahakoa he whanaunga toto nōu. Nō reira, e mea ana ahau, ahakoa te mamae: “tapahia atu ngā mea e whakamamae ana i a koe.”🙌🏼🙏🏼🕊️🕊️🕊️
ka tūmanako au kāore he mea anō e pā ki taku ngākau


He tokomaha e whakaaro ana ka pā te tuku karere tuatahi i muri i te whakataurite ki tō rātou mana. Kia mataara ki te mea pono: mēnā i tino hiahia koe ki te whakataurite, he mangere noa iho te noho noa me te tatari kia whakatakotoria he whāriki whero māu. Ki te hiahia koe ki ngā hononga kounga…pānui atu

He aha te aroha ki ahau? Ko te hiahia ki te whakapau i ō kare ā-roto, ō pūtea, me tō wā. Ko te mahi. Ā, ko te mea nui rawa, he aroha ina puta noa mai, he māori noa: ina hiahia koe ki te tunu kai mā tō tau aroha, nā te mea e puhake ana ō kare ā-roto. Ko te whakarite ohorere i ngā mea iti e arohaina…( whakatikahia )pānui atu


Kei te rongo anō tētahi atu i te tino mokemoke, me te mea nei kāore he tangata o te ao, o ō hoa, o tō whānau e aro mai ana ki a koe... ā, he mamae te noho i tēnei ao nanakia... Mehemea ka aro kē te katoa ki ā rātou ake mahi, kaua e whakaweti i ahau mō aku hē... he aha rā?
Ina tino aroha koe ki tētahi, ka nui rawa tō manaaki i a ia, ā, ka mamae koe ina kore ia e pērā anō te whakaaro ki a koe. Ka hoatu e koe tō wā, tō aroha, tō aro, me tō tautoko ki a ia, me te kore tono i tētahi mea hei utu. Engari, kei te hōhonu o tō ngākau, e hiahia tonu ana koe kia pērā anō tana…pānui atu
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E mamae ana tōku tinana, engari e hiahia ana tōku hinengaro.. nō reira i hoatu noa e au tāna i hiahia ai.

I mātakitaki ahau i tētahi ataata e tangi ana te pāpā o tētahi wahine mārena i tana kitenga tuatahi i tana tamāhine e mau ana i tōna kākahu mārena, ā, kāore au i te mōhio he aha i tangi tahi ai au. Ehara i te mea e mārena ana au, engari nā te mōhio ki te nui o te mamae o te whakaaro kāore rawa pea…pānui atu
Ka tino mokemoke ahau ki a ia, ā, ka mamae. I hiahia noa ahau ki te whakapuaki i tēnā. Kāore au e hiahia ana ki te aro mai. I hiahia noa ahau ki te kī atu.
I nga wa katoa e tata ana te Kirihimete, ka mamae rawa. Ka ngaro ahau i a rātou. Ka ngaro ahau i ngā Kirihimete i whakamahia e mātou… te pāmahana makariri, engari te wera i pā mai i te noho tahi. Kāore te Kirihimete i pēnā i ngā tekau tau e haere ake nei. Mēnā ka taea e au te hiahia mō tētahi mea i…pānui atu
He aha taku he i te mea i aukatihia koe e au ahakoa kāore e noho tahi ana mātou, ka taea tonu e mātou te noho hei hoa. I tino kaha ahau, ā, he iti te wteckless, engari nā te mea ko koe tāku tuatahi i ngā mea katoa, ā, nāu i hanga hei wahine hari rawa. I whakaaro au kua mutu mātou i runga i te pātea…pānui atu

Nō reira, kei te akomanga au, kei te pātea, e 60 pea ngā tāngata kei reira. Ka pātai te kaiako mēnā he tāngata Pākehā kei te akomanga. Kāore te tangata e kōrero. E toru ngā tāngata, ā, ko au te mea e pā ana. He tāngata mai i ētahi atu whenua hoki… Ka hanga au i tētahi whakaahua kanorau hei…pānui atu
Ki taku whakaaro, ka noho te tau 24 hei tau pōuri mōku. Koinei taku rā whānau tuatahi kāore taku māmā i konei, ā, kāore hoki he ohorere. Koinei te wā tuatahi kua pōwhiritia e au tētahi tau hou o tōku oranga me te tangi mokemoke. He mokemoke, he pātea te āhua, me te mea nei kei te amo ahau i tētahi…pānui atu

Mōku, ko te mea hei tangata he mea mō te katoa. Ko te āheinga ki te pupuri i ngā mea rerekē i te wā kotahi: te mōhio me te pōuri, te ngākau māhaki me te kaha, te hari me te pōuri. He noho tuwhera ahakoa te mamae. Ka pāngia e te ataahua me te pā ki te mamae o ētahi atu, e mōhio ana ko mātou te hē o…pānui atu

Ka hiahia mātou ki te noho hei tino tūnga mō te tangata, nāna i te mea kāore e whakaarohia e mātou ā mātou ake hiahia? Koia te take e pā ana te mamae i te wā e kī ana rātou kāore mātou i te mea nui ki a rātou i tēnei wā?
Ka mamae ina kore tētahi e whakapono ki a koe, ahakoa kua whakamātau koe ki te whakamārama kāore rawa koe i mahi i tā rātou e whakaaro ana i mahia e koe. Ka nui ake te mamae ina kore rātou e ngana ki te mārama ki tāu e kōrero nei, e whai wā rānei ki te kōrero tahi kia tau ai ngā take. Engari, ka…pānui atu