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Have you ever had to remove someone from your life because you knew that they was really bad for you, even if you really loved them? (edited)
Hey guys i just got out of a long term relationship and it was also my first one. A big part of me was hoping weβd reconcile but recently I got a cold awakening itβs really over. Whatβs everyoneβs process in healing? This really hurts since the breakup was my fault and this was a friend of mine forβ¦ read more
How many breakups have you experienced in 2026 alone?
Can we just chat or talk for a bit
Vent because he choosing own choice, he saying said 'were done with me" he left me. yeah, I'm deaf and Asexual admitted.. and ll move forward myself.. π₯² (edited)
I can't stand that I want you to scream hateful words at me just so I can hear your voice.

So Iβm going through a hard breakup right now. Iβm kind of struggling to get over her does anyone have any advice?
My ex is finally gone still more stuff at the house I gotta ship back to her but Iβve cried to much over this and I hope I donβt anymore Iβm so tired of this feeling and drinking all that last night I figured out Iβm not a drinker anymore
Hey everyone, I have a question. And I ask this from the male perspective because Iβm still working on my own emotional intelligence and male dominated upbringing. I just got out of a 6 year relationship with my girlfriend and being honest, everyday has sucked since. She was the only one I feltβ¦ read more
Guys, be honest with me. When you end something with someone you cared about, but still say: βWe can still talk, but it wonβt be good for youβ What does that mean? Is it protection? Guilt? Emotional distance? Or just closure for yourself? Because for me it doesnβt feel like full ending. It feelsβ¦ read more
She chose to move on with out me make a life without me and all I ever did was try to make my life with her but it still wasnβt enough I was chasing somebody something that wasnβt there and I think thatβs what hurts me the most is that I wasted all my feelings my actions of a good healthyβ¦ read more
Breaking up means one needs time rebuild self. (edited)

Moral of the story, never be with a guy with no emotional intelligence?β€οΈβπ©Ήππ. He had zero expression, zero openness, zero honesty... Just cold low effort, vague vibes. What would you have done, cause it seems my confrontation just made him bail...
So I got a little curious, and was wondering what do you all think is the most overlooked thing about a break up with a partner you've been with for a while? Mine would probably be pets. I miss the dog we used to own called Nico to absolute bits. And I think my cat misses him too secretly!

Hi all, I'm new here but I'd like to get some advice and maybe some similar stories. I'm currently going through a break up and it's been very difficult. I was broken up with feeling neglected and my trust betrayed constantly. I recognize that it wasn't working, but I still feel hurt and sadness⦠read more
πi always wanted to post it but never faced a breakup, i was confused π when should i post it.

Quick question. Going through break up and ex still wants to be on my Amazon prime account. Is it just me or is that weird ? FYI I bumped her off

Recently ended a relationship I was in for close to 20 years. Getting my house back and cutting things off with the woman I thought was my forever feels so strange. Part of me just wants to pack up, sell my house, quit my job, and just... disappear from everyone and everything I know, and go start⦠read more
Why do you ladies do the whole βI want to be friendsβ but then ghost the second you start dating someone new? Is it to focus on the new relationship, or is it just because you feel you no longer need that βback upβ option? Very curious on your perspectives! β€οΈ
Well, today's the day I break up with my girlfriend. It's been a 3 year relationship that im throwing away but in all honesty.... I just can't do it with her anymore. There's alot of things wrongs with in the relationship most of which just can't be fixed. Yay..... back to the single life. (If you⦠read more
This probably going the be the hardest thing I do in my life. I love this woman for 17 years I did basically everything for her. I would still. She is my best friend, my cuddle buddy, she was the roots to my tree. She was everything to me and it hurts the most seeing us become different people. Its⦠read more
I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. Why does it hurt so bad? I divorced my ex of 18 years and not even that hurt this much. Probably cause he cheated and did drugs and I dealt with his bs for 8 years. But this was only 7 months. Does it ever get better? How do I stop myself from reaching out?
How long does this feeling lastβ¦ that hopelessness that anguish the pain of knowing you cared moreβ¦
That ill always carry her with me. </3


Hey there. It would be nice to chat with somebody about your and my interests, to get to know somebody and be friends to distract me from the pain from the breakup I recently had. If you have any advice or consolation for the post breakup stage, please feel free to share.

I still love you, but I want the best for you... Even if it without me... (edited)
I was just in a 5 month relationship with someone who chose to end things by ghosting me. I expected this from people who you casually see but not someone I was actively in a relationship with. So I'm curious if anyone else has hand this situation happen and how you overcame it.
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First I'm 40m live in nyc. single now, had a mutual breakup feelings faded long before we ended it. Now im ready to learn someone eventually love and build with someone. I work, I drink casually I don't smoke cigarettes. I'm a big going to the movies type of guy. I watch anime play games, hang out⦠read more

A breakup hurts, but nothing hurts like realizing you stayed through every red flag because you believed love meant patience. You kept understanding, forgiving, and fighting for them, only to wonder why you were giving everything to someone who wasn't even fighting to keep you. - βοΈ
Is it true that when a man says he wants to focus on improving himself/his religion after a breakup, he does it seriously? Because my last experience, a month after my ex said that, he posted how he spent the night with a woman he had just met until morning and said that it was a positive thing he⦠read more
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Iβve been reflecting a lot lately on modern romance and where it all went wrong. The stats don't lieβdivorce and breakup rates are through the roof compared to barely 30 years ago. βHonestly, dating apps feel like such a paradox. The place where you're supposed to find love is the exact same placeβ¦ read more
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Motivation thoughts for a person recovering from breakup π
Anyone whanna tell me about how ur day is goingβ£οΈ Mines not that great.. im working.. painting.. But i feel sad. Coz i feel this feeling u feel after like.. a breakup.. For some reason.. And its lingering. Wish there was an app for hugs.. Request a hug, and someone brings one over.
Even the executor stood me up.π (She's supposed to collect some tax nonsense 500β¬). For the record: I had a normal dating and relationship life until the breakup 2021. So you don't need to be scared to date me.

Also what helped get over it (edited)
After a breakup, you come back stronger than before π


So I unintentionally started a bookclub. Long story short I went through a very rough breakup that im still dealing with. One of my goals is to reclaim and remake memories with the things/activities we made together for myself. One of those things was reading at bars. It always sparks⦠read more

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Having a 10 year relationship end was not on my 2026 bingo card. During that time I've completely dedicated my life to building a future. All of which included cutting out distractions such as friends. It's hard to have friends when you're main focus is family. Well, now that we're separated, I'm⦠read more


So guys let me tell you a fun fact . Most of the times at breakup you stop your partner try to make things right but doesn't happen because some things , some scars can't be healed. But you know what after breakup everyday you feel them you remember them you want to be with them again not⦠read more
Pencil drawing of my OC Solara after a breakup with her long time partner. Planning on adding details and colors next

just finished gym and it's so crowded, my mind is crowded too but talk to who?

pov: you're a writer going through a breakup, and your best friend reads a poetry from your own book to you (poetry that, incidentally, you wrote to help her through a breakup six years ago). Immersion: You were a deep ocean, Yet, for that person, You became a mere pool. You dissolved the blue of⦠read more
Id breakup with her

tell me about your life after breakup experience
Stumbled upon this beautiful prayer on TikTok. This is for those who are still healing from past relationship/s. The love was real but it's time to let them go, babes. Surrender the heartache to God, let go of the hate, accept that love was thereβit just wasn't meant to last. 2026 will be betterβ¦ read more

Nietzsche says: "Our old flaws never truly vanish; the moment you grow weary, the very flaws you thought you had conquered float right back to the surface." Nietzsche despised any notion of an epic triumph over the self, or the idea that a human being could at a single moment declare their old⦠read more
Im on loop and I'm sad. How do u cope or develop yourself from the breakup? My ex was being dishonest to me. It breaks my heart so much. All tgese feelings of confusion, anger, and shattered. (edited)

I just really need to find my people (friends) right now. Hmu if our interests and vibes are compatible!
Went to their concert in Malaysia in April 2026 like a month after my 8 years relationship breakup π₯Ή Didn't expect to go there actually but I REGRET NOTHING! Can't wait to see them againnn βΊοΈπ―
I've gone through really dark periods of time with breakups in my past. It's always extremely painful because I get attached. Breakups feel like withdrawals to me. If you think about it deeply, for people who get attached to their partners, love does work like a drug and so separation feels like⦠read more
πππ So this is my first crafting project I've done. Never sewed before, or done anything else like this, so I know it's SUPER amateur. ππ But I started the project months ago, after a breakup, so it's been a healing venture, though I have taken my time on finishing it. You never get good atβ¦ read more
I sometimes wonder if it's possible for me to find someone when I consider just how many mistakes I've made and how low I've sunk in recent years. On the one hand, I haven't done anything unforgivably evil: I've never assaulted someone, I've never had any children to abandon or neglect, and on the⦠read more
People move on after they mistreating you. They're not sitting up in their cold dark room, crying and thinking about you. Most of the time they move on and live perfectly fine after doing you dirty. Some will jump into a new relationship immediately. Some will simply crawl back to their ex⦠read more

Ive been seeing this girl for a few months, and things were alright. I wasn't particularly crazy for her but things were nice, I enjoyed the company and excuses to get out and do stuff. About a month ago, work had gone crazy and it stressed me out, so I pulled back from the relationship to deal⦠read more
If you had to choose, which would you pick... the heartache of a breakup or a toothache because you didn't take care of your teeth? π πβοΈ
Thoughts on finding a person to distract you after a breakup?
A love breakup i am afaird of loving himself and others.
Honestly inspired by a breakup with someone I'm glad I didn't know very long at this point. Over it π Also, the next one I want to do πππ


