Breakup Community

Masculinity VS Vulnerability

Hey everyone, I have a question. And I ask this from the male perspective because I’m still working on my own emotional intelligence and male dominated upbringing. I just got out of a 6 year relationship with my girlfriend and being honest, everyday has sucked since. She was the only one I felt… read more

I met a guy so full of himself he thinks a misunderstanding is a breakup 😂

Moral of the story, never be with a guy with no emotional intelligence?❤️‍🩹😕😂. He had zero expression, zero openness, zero honesty... Just cold low effort, vague vibes. What would you have done, cause it seems my confrontation just made him bail...

What's an overlooked thing about a breakup?

So I got a little curious, and was wondering what do you all think is the most overlooked thing about a break up with a partner you've been with for a while? Mine would probably be pets. I miss the dog we used to own called Nico to absolute bits. And I think my cat misses him too secretly!

Honest opinions

Quick question. Going through break up and ex still wants to be on my Amazon prime account. Is it just me or is that weird ? FYI I bumped her off

Just a tired day… some accidentally situation from the ex and his new gf…

When you break up with someone do you Unfollow their socials right away, Some of them every once in a while on follow, or do you still follow them after the break up?

That hard decision

Have you ever had to remove someone from your life because you knew that they was really bad for you, even if you really loved them? (edited)

Going through a breakup💔

Been broken up for 3 months now from a 2 year relationship

Hey guys i just got out of a long term relationship and it was also my first one. A big part of me was hoping we’d reconcile but recently I got a cold awakening it’s really over. What’s everyone’s process in healing? This really hurts since the breakup was my fault and this was a friend of mine for… read more

2026 Breakups

How many breakups have you experienced in 2026 alone?

Damdam

Can we just chat or talk for a bit

Break up for Relationship 6 month ended

Vent because he choosing own choice, he saying said 'were done with me" he left me. yeah, I'm deaf and Asexual admitted.. and ll move forward myself.. 🥲 (edited)

Even if

I can't stand that I want you to scream hateful words at me just so I can hear your voice.

Burying the 13 years with this

I don’t know if there’s ever a right way to say goodbye to thirteen years. There’s no script for this — just a heart full of memories and a quiet ache where something once lived. We were so much more than the ending. We were late-night talks and early-morning hellos. We were birthdays and bad days… read more

Help

So I’m going through a hard breakup right now. I’m kind of struggling to get over her does anyone have any advice?

Broken numb

My ex is finally gone still more stuff at the house I gotta ship back to her but I’ve cried to much over this and I hope I don’t anymore I’m so tired of this feeling and drinking all that last night I figured out I’m not a drinker anymore

We can still talk, but it won’t be good for you

Guys, be honest with me. When you end something with someone you cared about, but still say: “We can still talk, but it won’t be good for you” What does that mean? Is it protection? Guilt? Emotional distance? Or just closure for yourself? Because for me it doesn’t feel like full ending. It feels… read more

Hurt

She chose to move on with out me make a life without me and all I ever did was try to make my life with her but it still wasn’t enough I was chasing somebody something that wasn’t there and I think that’s what hurts me the most is that I wasted all my feelings my actions of a good healthy… read more

Healing.

Breaking up means one needs time rebuild self. (edited)

Getting through break up advice

Hi all, I'm new here but I'd like to get some advice and maybe some similar stories. I'm currently going through a break up and it's been very difficult. I was broken up with feeling neglected and my trust betrayed constantly. I recognize that it wasn't working, but I still feel hurt and sadness… read more

Goodbye

😎

😂i always wanted to post it but never faced a breakup, i was confused 😕 when should i post it.

The desire to disappear is real potent

Recently ended a relationship I was in for close to 20 years. Getting my house back and cutting things off with the woman I thought was my forever feels so strange. Part of me just wants to pack up, sell my house, quit my job, and just... disappear from everyone and everything I know, and go start… read more

Anyone want to talk?

I might close the door but i never lock it, if it’s rainy outside, don’t think too much, just step in again. I still clean your space in our bed.

Question… for the ladies:

Why do you ladies do the whole ‘I want to be friends’ but then ghost the second you start dating someone new? Is it to focus on the new relationship, or is it just because you feel you no longer need that ‘back up’ option? Very curious on your perspectives! ❤️

Today's the day

Well, today's the day I break up with my girlfriend. It's been a 3 year relationship that im throwing away but in all honesty.... I just can't do it with her anymore. There's alot of things wrongs with in the relationship most of which just can't be fixed. Yay..... back to the single life. (If you… read more

13 years

This probably going the be the hardest thing I do in my life. I love this woman for 17 years I did basically everything for her. I would still. She is my best friend, my cuddle buddy, she was the roots to my tree. She was everything to me and it hurts the most seeing us become different people. Its… read more

And than she was gone

Sad

I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. Why does it hurt so bad? I divorced my ex of 18 years and not even that hurt this much. Probably cause he cheated and did drugs and I dealt with his bs for 8 years. But this was only 7 months. Does it ever get better? How do I stop myself from reaching out?

How long does this last

How long does this feeling last… that hopelessness that anguish the pain of knowing you cared more…