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The Kindest Funeral

There is a peculiar kind of grief that does not wish death upon a person, but upon the version of them that continues to haunt the heart. I loved him with such abandon that sometimes I catch myself wishing he would disappear into the mythology of my past—not because I want him gone, but because I... read more

I Drew a Line in the Sand

I wake to the phantom weight of him, a ghost that settles in the empty chair, in the sudden quiet of a room that knows his name. I miss the way he crowded the air— I miss the warmth of a fire that, in the end, only burned. ​But there is a difference between longing and surrender. I have learned to... read more

Is it normal to still mourn my cat who died 2 years ago?

Do you mourn the versions of yourself you had to kill to survive?

30-Day Eviction Notice Just Dropped: What’s the Move?

30-day eviction notice just dropped. What’s the move? Do I spend the last month packing like a mature adult, or do I give the room a proper farewell tour? Like, “Here’s where I overthought everything. Here’s where I made bad decisions. Here’s where I swore I was changing my life at 2:14... read more

Blurred visions

Pictures of me and you reel around my thoughts two by two I mourn the lovely melancholic memories They prick like thorns draw blood for you to use To paint warm watered shores pouring adoration through and through Blurred visions parade an outline that's not quite false and masks what's true