Gulu la Ghosting

Pain yopisika, yochuluka kuti ipulumuke 🌫️⏳

Ndaona kale munthu amene anandisiya pano nthawi yayitali. Wabwerera pano, tsopano ndi 'zombie' 👻🧟‍♂️😂😆 (abwerera ku moyo)..

Kulankhulana Ndipo Kulumikizana:

zizindikiro kuti ukhoza kukhala ndi chithunzi: mphamvu imasintha kuchokera pa nthawi zonse kupita ku random, mayankho akuchita mwachangu komanso osakhudzidwa, mapangano a mtsogolo akutha kukhala mu “tidzawona,” ndipo mwadzidzidzi mukumva chikhumbo choti mukhweze, kulemba mwachikhalidwe, ndi…werengani zambiri

Ngati mukufuna kuchita, chitani mwachikondi

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Pali anthu omwe akutha popanda kutumiza mauthenga osavuta Chifukwa chake zimasiya chikhala chotchedwa chabe ngati njira yathu yokhayo yothandiza

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Kusowa...

Kusowa ine? Ndizokonda kuti muthe kukhulupirira kuti ndingachite chiyani 😌

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kuwotcha

Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndi bwino kuwotcha munthu amene mukuyankhulana naye kwa miyezi ingapo? si bwino kuphunzira ch真kuti ngati iye/siyo sakufuna izo?

Kusowa

Tili mu nthawi yomwe imakondweretsa kulumikizana kosalekeza, komabe yapangitsa kuti kusowa kukhala chinthu chachisokonezo, pafupifupi chosalankhula. Kusowa kwakhala kosavuta, kwambiri kosavuta. Chofunika ndi kutap, chat yomwe yachotsedwa, chizindikiro chomwe chachotsedwa. Koma kumbali ya chinthu…werengani zambiri

N'kosavuta kugwila mtima mwachangu pamene munthu amene umamukonda ndi weniweni komanso wodalirika kwa iwe, osati ena. Pa chiyambi, amangokonda iwe koma kenako amalephera kutuluka.👻👻👻👻#ghost 😅😱

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Kodi ngati YOU mukuchititsa kuti kuchitike kuchotsedwa?

Ndikuganiza kuti mutu wa #ghosting ndi wosangalatsa, ndipo ndikuwerenga izi popanda cholinga chabwino, chabe kuti ndiyesetse kukweza nkhani pa izo. Sabata yatha ndinapeza akazi atatu omwe anachitira chisoni za izi, ndinawafonera, ndipo ndinayesa kukambirana nanu. Pa masiku asanu ndi awiri,… (kusinthidwa)werengani zambiri

Bwanji? Chifukwa chiyani? Bwanji munthu angathe kukusiya popanda chifukwa ??

Bwanji munthu angathe kukuwuzani tsiku lina kuti ndidzakhala pano ngati mukufuna kulankhula ndipo tsiku lotsatira, akuchotsa ndi kuchita ngati palibe chochitika ??? Ngati mwachita mantha, ngati ndinena chinthu choyipa, osati kungondiuza ndipo akandisiya?

FUNSO LOPHUNZITSIRA : Funso kwa aliyense Kodi kuchotsedwa ndi anthu ndi chinthu chachizolowezi lero?

N'chifukwa chiyani anthu amachotsa pamene zinthu zikuwoneka bwino? Choncho inde ndakhala mu pulogalamu iyi kwa masiku angapo ndipo ndakhala ndi mwayi wochita ndi abambo awiri omwe andichotsa pambuyo pa masiku awiri okambirana. Sindinachotsedwe mu moyo wanga ndipo choyamba chachitika…werengani zambiri

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Sindinachitepo kanthu kwa munthu aliyense koma ndakhala ndikuchitidwa choncho 99% ya nthawi. Zikuwoneka kuti ndi vuto lawo kuti sanakhale pansi, koma ngakhale choncho, ndimakhalabe ndi mtima wanga, makamaka pamene takhala pamodzi ndipo tikuwoneka kuti tikugwirizana bwino. Chifukwa chake, tsopano…werengani zambiri

Irony ya kutaya pa boo

Ndinali ndi chibwenzi ndi mnyamata 😎 ndipo ananditumizira uthenga wotsiriza ndi usiku wabwino, nditafika pa app lero m'mawa, kukambirana kwathu kwatha. Tinali ndi chibwenzi chabwino. Koma poof. 😂 ngati angandiuze kuti sanakonde chinthu chotere, koma aye.

Kukhala ndi chithunzi

Kodi mukufuna kuti anthu akutumizireni izi m'malo mokhudzana nanu? “Hey, ndakhala ndikukondwera kwambiri kulankhula, koma sindikutsimikiza kuti tikugwirizana. Ngati ndizabwino kwa inu, ndingafune kukhala anzanu.”

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#boo #ghosting #adhd #overthinking

Ndikuwona kuti Boo ali ndi chithunzi chachikondi cha mzimu koma musandichotse

Kuchotsa, komwe kumadziwika kuti simmering kapena icing, ndi mawu a m'zinenero zomwe zimafotokoza njira yotsiriza kulankhulana ndi kulumikizana ndi munthu wina popanda chizindikiro chachikulu kapena chifukwa ndipo kukhudza maulendo onse akutsatira kulankhulana. N'chifukwa chiyani? Ichi ndicho…werengani zambiri

Malo awa akuwoneka bwino 🤣

Chifukwa chiyani ena sanawone kuti tonse tili ndi makolo... Koma palibe amene akulankhula ngati makolo 🤣 #kulankhula #kukhalaakulu #ngatiunafunaungakhalepo