Umuryango wa Divorced
Umuryango wa divorced, ikiganiro, n'ibiganiro.
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Guhura Abantu Bashya
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Umuryango wa divorced, ikiganiro, n'ibiganiro.
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Guhura Abantu Bashya
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Ese ndi se mubi? Umugore wanjye yambeshye, cyane. Yatwibye avuga ko se atameze neza mu buzima, kandi agiye kuguruka milimetero 3000 kugira ngo amurebe no kumugarura ahantu heza. Naje kumenya ko ku munsi yavuye, yarangije kubaka umusingi w’inzu kandi awushyira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga. Iminsi ibiri…soma byinshi
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Ndashimira cyane ikigo ngororangingo njya mu nzu y'ubushyuhe. Umugore wanjye wahoze ari umugore yambwiye ko yatangiye gukundana n'umwe mu nshuti zanjye z'inkoramutima nijoro mbere yo kuryama. Naramaze amezi menshi ntagira icyo nkora nari mu buriri bwanjye. Iyi ni inzira nziza cyane yo kubyitwaramo…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi
Nuko rero mperutse kugera ku bwumvikane. Umugore wanjye wahoze ari umufasha afite 60/40 mu mutungo w'inyubako (mu nyungu ye) kuko afite inzu y'ibanze ku mwana wacu w'imyaka 8, ariko sinzabona amafaranga kugeza Noheri itaha igihe azaba arangije imari ye. Nta bindi byinshi byo kugabana rwose.…soma byinshi
Ndarambirwa kujya hanze n'umufasha...




Ni ibiki bito bigutera ibyishimo?
Inkuru yanjye y'ubukwe, kuko hari umuntu wambwiye ko ngomba kuyisangiza Nahuriye n'umugore wanjye wa kera mu mwaka wa mbere mu ishuri, twanyuze mu mashuri abanza n'ayisumbuye nk'abakunzi, kandi dutangira gukundana mu mashuri yisumbuye, urukundo rwacu rwose rufite imyaka irenga icumi Twashakanye…soma byinshi
Nyuma y'igihe cy'imyaka hafi icumi ndi kumwe n'umuntu, biratangaje kutaba hafi ye, ndicuza uko ibintu byarangiye, nizeye ko umunsi umwe ntazongera kumva iki gace k'umutima wanjye.
Byabaye bigoranye kugerageza kumusaba gufata ibikoresho bye bya nyuma. Naratangiye gushyira byose mu gikoni kugira ngo abishake mu gihe cye. Ariko ni ibyishimo gusubiza ahantu.
Nyagasani, nkeneye ibyo. Umunsi wa mbere w'umwaka kandi ngomba kuganira n'ikigo gishinzwe ibikoni ku buryo nzishyura amafaranga y'ubwishingizi umukunzi wanjye wahoze afata... Umwaka mushya muhire 🫠🎊

Mu gihe cy'iki gikorwa, nagiye nsohora cyane n'inshuti yanjye...wenda cyane...sinshaka ibi bimenyetso kuri we ariko ndishimye cyane mu gihe ndi kumwe na we kandi kuba kwe bituma ntagira ubwoba cyane ariko mu kwezi gushize nabonye ko ibi bimenyetso bigenda bikomera...nakoze iki kuko nshaka kureba…soma byinshi

Nakoze isuku ku ruhu rw'umusatsi kugira ngo rube rwiza nyuma


Sinzi icyo navuga, nizeye ko buri wese afite umunsi mwiza


Nari ndimo kureba mu telefone yanjye ntekereza ku bihe byiza n'ibibi nko kumva indirimbo no kwibuka uko njye na x yanjye twatandukanyijwe ntitwabyitaho icyo gihe ariko ubu ndabireba neza.... igihe kirasa gutya. Ikintu gishimishije ni uko ntazi na gato indirimbo.

Hari uwagira inama ku buryo bwo kumenya ko wari mu rugo rw'ubukwe bw'inyungu mu myaka 16 kugeza igihe umufasha wawe yabonaga amafaranga/igihe gihagije cyo gufata byose?

Icya mbere, narasezeranye Icya kabiri, ntuye wenyine Kandi icya gatatu, ndi gushaka umufasha mwiza Kandi icya kane ni—niba hari uwankunda cyangwa atankunda—uwagenewe kundukunda azabikora, kandi uwatabigenewe, ntazabikora 5, sinshaka gukangisha umukobwa uwo ari we wese ngo ankunde, kandi sinjya…soma byinshi
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Igice gikomeye kuri njye ni ugukora byose njyenyine nyuma y'imyaka myinshi turi kumwe, kandi nzi neza ko ari ko bimeze kuri bose banyura cyangwa banyuze muri icyo gikorwa. Kujya kurya, sinshobora kurangiza ibyo ndya. Mu gihe ngenda ahantu hatari hamenyerewe, nta mutekano mfite wo…soma byinshi
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Inyandiko Zifitanye Isano
Ninjye umunyamuryango mushya kandi natekereje ko nagira ngo nselfuze. Nitwa Sara, bisomwa Sarah 42 Yatandukanye 5'3 Ingano nini Nta bana (nzi) Mfite inzu Nshobora gutwara Ndi mu rugo neza Nkunda gusoma, guteka, ibibazo byo mu kabari, gufungura hanze, teya, sinema, gukina imikino no…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Mfite inkuru nziza ku bijyanye n'ayo makorosi y'ibicu asa n'ibikoma by'inyama z'inyama. Ababyeyi banjye batandukanyije igihe nari umwana, bityo umuntu w'ingenzi wanjye mu bwana bwanjye yari sekuru. Umunsi umwe ubwo nari mfite imyaka nka 7-8, twari tugaruka mu fishing kandi duhagarara ku itara…soma byinshi

None umugenzi wanjye w'inkoramutima arankunda kandi mfite umukunzi. Umukunzi wanjye azi ko umugenzi wanjye w'inkoramutima arankunda kandi asobanukiwe ko nta mpamvu mfite yo kuba n'umugabo wigeze kubona amahirwe yo kuba nanjye, akanshira hanze, hanyuma akambwira kenshi uko umugore warushinze wabuze…soma byinshi
None se biba bite igihe ufite abana ukaba waratandukanye? Sintekereza ko ari icyaha kandi si umunyabyaha 🤣

Bimeze bite kuba waratandukanye cyangwa waratandukanye kubera amakosa y'undi mugabo?
Bafite umwiyahuzi ku bipimo by'ibiro kandi bahora bagaragaza ibibazo byabo kuri njye igihe cyose, birakabije. Ndi umuntu w'igikundiro. Mfite icyizere mu mwuka. Kandi buri gihe, bagerageza kubihindura. N'ubwo naba ndi muto, cyangwa mfite ibiro byinshi, niga gukunda ubwanjye igihe cyose. Ariko bahora…soma byinshi
Ku myaka 44, ubusabane kuri njye si ibintu by'ubukorikori. Ndashaka gusa kumenya neza, gukomeza, kuba inyangamugayo, no kugira umuntu w'ukuri. Nshaka gufata ibintu buhoro buhoro, ariko dufite umusingi ukomeye. Kuri njye, ukuri n'ubudahemuka ni ngombwa cyane. Sinzemera umugabo uri mu mubano cyangwa…soma byinshi

"Nshimye abavuga neza uko bahagaze, niba ari abashakanye, abashakanye batandukanye, cyangwa abapfakazi. Ibi bigaragaza ko ari abanyabuntu—buri kimwe ku giti cyabo no ku bandi—kandi biteguye gukomeza batitaye ku byabaye mu gihe cyashize. Buri wese afite amateka; ikibabaje ni uko ubikora, kandi…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Kureba ababyeyi b’abandi hano bahitamo kuganira nanjye kugira ngo barebe ibyo ndi byo. Ndabyemera, numvise ntagira icyizere gito ku kuba ndi se w’umwana umwe, warushinze, mu kuza hano, Ariko kugeza ubu byabaye ahantu hiza kandi hubaha, ahantu hafunguye mu buryo bwiza. 🖤
Iyi ntambwe, igihe abantu bakuri hafi batandukanye kandi bamaze gushaka undi, ariko ubu “bikozwe mu bwitonzi” hehe 😜
Ku byo nabonye mu bantu—nubwo nshobora kuba mfite amakosa—abantu bonyine bakunda cyane gushaka umukunzi, bakubaka umubano buhoro buhoro binyuze mu biganiro. Hari igihe wumva uhura n'umuntu, ariko ukaza gutandukana mu silence. Igihe cyose, ushobora kutavugana cyane, ariko umubano ukaramba imyaka…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Nk'umuntu ufite igitsina gito, uherutse gutandukana, kandi uri umubyeyi w'umwana umwe sinshobora kwirengagiza niba nzashobora kongera gukundana. Gukundana biratandukanye cyane n'uko byari bimeze imyaka 15 ishize. Abantu bazi ko batavuga ibyo bifuza kandi sinshaka kugerageza kumenya ubutumwa bwabo…soma byinshi

Ntabwo nzi neza Icyongereza, ariko nzi neza aho nkomoka. Nshaka kuba mbonye ku bijyanye n'imibanire: Kuba umwe: Bisobanuye ko utari mu rukundo cyangwa mu buryo ubwo aribwo bwose 'buhambaye'. Niba urushinze ariko mutuye ahantu hatandukanye, ntabwo uri umwe. Mu mategeko, uracyari mu rukundo.…soma byinshi

Ntegereje gusa ko nzazuka buri munsi nta burwayi, mfite ibiryo byiza byo kurya, nishimira amahoro, kandi nkirinda kugirana imikoranire idakenewe n'abantu. Bavuga ko guhurira n'abandi bigufasha kubaho igihe kirekire. Nshaka imyaka mike y'amahoro kuruta kumara igihe kinini mvugana n'abandi.
Waba wakundana n'umukobwa ufite imyaka 26 umaze gutandukana?
Kuki abashakanye, n'ubwo bafite abana, bakomeza gutandukana no gutandukana kubera ubusambanyi? Sinigeze mbisobanukirwa, kandi ntekereza ko ntazabishobora. Ubusambanyi ni ikintu kibi cyane—ni ugutenguha amarangamutima n'icyizere. Kandi ku bantu bemera kwinjira mu rukundo n'umuntu nk'uyo, abashaka…soma byinshi

Ntabwo nari narakomeje gukora hano nk'uko nari nsanzwe mbikora mbere y'igice cya kabiri cy'umwaka ushize kubera akazi, umwana wanjye, umukunzi, n'ibindi bintu mu buzima. Ariko uyu munsi ndandika kuko maze umwaka ndakundana n'umukunzi wanjye (nahuye na we kuri iyi app ya Boo), kandi ndashimira ko…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Uyu munsi mu gitondo nagendeye mu rugo mvana ku mukino w'umwana wanjye nubwo umugozi w'icyuma cy'umuzunguruko wanjye wari wacitse kandi sinari mfite igitekerezo ku bimenyetso by'ikimenyetso - kandi kuko ntazi na gato ibijyanye n'imodoka (Nize gutwara imodoka mu myaka 6 ishize kandi nari mfite…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi

Ndi mu gihe cy'ubuzima aho ntakora ibintu by'ubusa. Ibyo bigezeho, ndi se w'abana umwe w'umutwe w'ubwiyunge ufite abana 2 beza. Narebye anime nyinshi, ariko ndashaka kubona ibitekerezo by'abandi bakunzi b'ibikurura ku byo nagomba kubatangiriramo. Bizaba byiza gusoma ibitekerezo.
Ntimukagire na rimwe—mu bihe byose—mwizere umugabo ugukunda mu magambo meza kandi ukavuga urukundo rwe mu minsi ibiri gusa. Nabyiboneye ku giti cyanjye, kandi ndabihamya ko ari igihombo cy'igihe. Yari mukuru kandi yarasezeranye; yoherezaga amafoto n'amashusho menshi ariko ntasobanure impamvu…soma byinshi

Ntukarebe umuntu nabi gusa kuko akiri singo mu myaka ye mirongo itatu. Bamwe muri mwe baratandukanye ku myaka nk'iyo, ariko ntimukigwaho kuba mwarashakanye muto mutiteguye mu mutwe cyangwa mu bukungu. Ntitwibagirwe ikibazo cyo gukora urubyaro rushya mu miryango yangiritse 🙂 Kandi ntukigere uvuga…soma byinshi
Nshaka inama ku bagore: Hari umugore nahuye na we mu 2017 kandi nari narakomeje kuganira no kumarana igihe kugeza mu 2020 ubwo nashakaga undi. Dufite imibanire myiza ariko twari turi mu nzira zitandukanye mu buzima. Naje gutandukana n'umugore wanjye umwaka ushize kandi twongeye guhura vuba nyuma…soma byinshi
Nabonye vuba aha ubutumwa bw'umugore w'umutai washakanye n'umunyamahanga uturuka mu gihugu cy'ibendera ritangirana n'inyuguti "I" kandi kikagira oranje ku ruhande rw'iburyo. Yavuze ko batandukanye kuko nyuma yo gushakana no kubyara, umugabo we yirukanye ibikoresho byose byo guteka mu rugo kuko…soma byinshi
Ni iki kiri kuba mwese ndi mushya hano kandi nashakanye n'uwundi. Nuko numva ntazi uko nabikora ukundi. Ntimukangire mumbwire.

Narahukanye ntekereza ko igihe kigeze ngo nsubire mu isi ariko mbere na mbere nashakaga kwiyungura. Hamaze umwaka umwe ndangije.


Muraho mwese, ndashaka kuvuga ko nashakanye n'undi muntu vuba aha kandi ndi mushya kuri uru rubuga, nshaka abantu b'akarere bafite ibitekerezo bisa, kugira ibihe byiza, ibikorwa, ndetse no gukina imikino hamwe. Nishimiye kubamenya mwese
Ikibazo giteye amatsiko: Ese waba witeguye gufata umwanya wo gukundana n'umuntu ufite amahirwe yo kugira alzheimer y'igihe gito (cyangwa dementia)... bazibuka gusa umukunzi wabo wa mbere (w'igihe cy'imyaka irenga 6 cyangwa irenga bari baratandukanye cyangwa barasubiranye, ari we wahoze ari…(byahinduwe)soma byinshi
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Hari ikintu gishimishije cyane cyo kubabona baremye ibyishimo by’ukuri. Ubukwe bwabo akenshi buba bworoheje kandi butuje, ntibuba nk’ubukwe bwa mbere bw’igitangaza cyangwa bushimishije, ariko mu buryo bumwe biba bifite ubwiza bwinshi kurushaho. Ni nk’aho babonye urukundo rufite uburemere bwinshi,…soma byinshi
Mfite umuyaga mwinshi hano kandi akazi karafunzwe. Naratandukanye n'umugore wanjye hashize igihe gito, ubu abavandimwe bange bose ni abakozi cyangwa bar消失 hamwe na we. Sinamukumbura. Mu mpera z'ubukwe bwacu twari turi bibi hamwe kandi yibwiraga ko itumanaho ry'ukuri risobanura gukora ibyo ashaka.…soma byinshi


Natekerezaga ko kwibanda ku kopi zidatunganye ari ibintu byiza cyane kandi hari byinshi byo gukuramo. Hashobora kuba ibitekerezo byinshi cyangwa byibuze ibisobanuro byinshi! Ndumva koko hariho ibitekerezo bimwe ku buhanga. 1) KOPI ZA BACKROOMS Backrooms yabyaye abakopi benshi mu itangazamakuru…soma byinshi
Nzi ko ubu ndi ikimenyetso cy'ikibazo. Sinshaka ikintu gikomeye. Sinshaka kongera gushyingirwa. Nshaka gusa kuganira n'umuntu, kumva umuziki, kureba filime, kujya ku isoko ry'ibintu byakoreshejwe. Ntekereza ko ndi mubi ku buryo bwo kureba. Cyangwa utekereza ko ntakigero cy'ubwenge mu…soma byinshi
