40s Community

Gaming in your 40s is browsing your steam library till you fall asleep 😂

41 y/o and natty...whats your excuse?

Are you proud to be in your 40s and in great shape without using any PEDs? I've done a few bodybuilding shows and won a few things but im wondering if I should bulk and go again next year or just stay in shape and make the most of my life in France now...what do we think? Help an old boy make a… (edited) read more

What to do when you’re on your own for Halloween?

This head is the first year where everyone I know is busy. While it does mean some level of freedom, I have no idea what to do. I don’t drink so the annual pub crawl my city does isn’t an option, and I’m way too old for trick or treating. I’d check out some rave/paeties, but I’m in my 40s and don’t… read more

Being in my mid 40s has unleashed a new power...

I suddenly have the ability to not care? I have... don't care powers now? Am I a wizard now????

Looking for friends

Hi! I'm looking to make some new friends male or female doesn't matter. Making new friends in your 40s is tough so I'm trying this out. I can be somewhat quiet when I meet new people but online is much easier. Once you get to know me you'll find I have a serious case of sailor mouth, a wildly… read more

I didn't realise how slow I was going, but the pain decreases so much. I guess I'm somewhat still in rehab. I just need not worry about rep count and just focus on doing what I can in 40s. I'm grateful I added weight today and I'm planning too again in 3w 😁

Are american men okay!? Most of the time I find American men in their 40s and 50s telling in comment section of memes I share that I'll end up with cats and bla bla bla! Like sir, get a job!! Stop harassing women half your ages!

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Nobody talks about the late 30s to 40s personality shift, where you no longer want to be impressive. You want to be more rested, reserved, and completely unavailable to anything that draining.

The truth of it all.

Dating is such an intricate process. I feel it used to be a lot easier. Maybe its my attritive time spent not caring in my 20's ironically coming back to bite me in the ass, but aren't our 30's and 40's supposed to be the glory years 😅

This is your daily reminder

G'day team. As a 30 year old man, and for many of you out there even in you 40's, remember you are young and most beautiful when you are yourself! Just like in DnD, character flaws are not a bad thing, every person has their priorities and their own beliefs. Lean into them! When you are your true… read more

My Studio Monitors

604 HPLN Studio monitor build. This is my now third attempt to turn these awesome 40 lb frames into the studio monitors that I know they can be. The problem I've been having is that the kits they sell for these Altecs are the worst kind of junk, and in no way resemble the originals in materials,… read more

Someone special for me✨🫦🍰🍒🍑🎁🪩🎆🎉

I certainly wouldn't deny that the pull of external factors—like physical appearance—plays a significant role in sparking an interest in getting to know someone. However, what matters more is a person's true self. You come to know that through conversation, meeting in person, exchanging ideas, or… read more

Someone tried to comfort me by saying, “Don’t worry, even national celebrities in their 40s are still single.” Yeah… but those celebrities are gorgeous, rich, and have millions of admirers. Meanwhile I’m just single with a face that even Face ID sometimes rejects. 😭

Now that I'm older, I've realized that being single in your 40s is basically being 20 again—but with your own money and total freedom. The only new 'features' are back pain, knee aches, and getting sleepy way too early! 🤣😅😭

Expected to be the shield , without ever having been a priority

A guy once told me: Men in their 20s have time to date. Men in their 30s spend half their time dating and the other half building their careers. Men in their 40s are focused on their careers. He hopes I can be "the woman behind him." I understand all the reasoning he gave. But who is going to be… read more

40's

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For me it's the 40's

The dilemma of teenagers in their 30s and 40s: If you feel forever young, it's just an illusion. In the eyes of high school students, we look like mothers😭🤣

This hit me hard🫠🤣😌

Im a year sober!!!!

I cant believe today marks me being 1 year sober off of alcohol I couldn't be more proud of myself from getting jaundice pancreatitis acidosis dts psychosis I made it out I did it an entire year. I was deep down bad at one point waking up on park benches drinking a 24 case a night 40s 60s I DID… read more

Wanting children

Why are there so many women in their 30s and early 40s unsure if they want kids or not? (edited)

No women to get meals with but I went enjoy Indian food earlier alone

The sad reality of being in your 40s

Fitness in my 40s

Still having my boba tea, cookies, cheese cake and samosas. What a fun ride! 😎 I think you can age in reverse. 🙃 I don't wanna be a body builder. I don't want to count calories and those things it adds up to my pressures in life. I used to have an obsession of being skinny. I did achieve that.… (edited) read more

Mentally, what's your age Boos?

Does this cat look like?

It resembles the Austrian painter who started a war in the 40s.

Who else loves old horror movies from the 30s and 40s

No women to get brunch, coffee, book, thrift shop.

The unfortunate reality of being in your 40s and being in the South. 🤷

ND trauma

Who has been punished for being ND? Feel free to share more. Ie: I was paddled in second grade for not making eye contact with the teacher. After that I started making eye contact. I guess it helped me mask but then I didn't find out about ND stuff until this decade, in my 40s. And now I don't mask… read more

Do you think it's hard for someone in their 40's to find love?

Fitness in my 40s

Strong is not male exclusive. 🩷👸🏻 If you're looking for a sign to work out, this is it. And while you're at it, don't forget the cute skirt. 💅🏻🫶

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I recently asked my mom about what she thought about the concept of lifelong learning, and how important she thought it was, on the back foot regarding who you surround yourself with. Now I had heard many stories, and had an inkling of way that she’d answer. She’s someone who started off working… (edited) read more

Healthy Eating. Saturday Vibes 🍳

Do we real care for what we cook and eat? Especially from our mid 40s to shape us to our 50s and healthy 60+. Let us re-evaluate our life styles - eatanddrinkhealthy ❤️🍎🍒🍓🥕🍊🍑🍐🍠🍆🥐🍈🍋🌽🍌🍍🥭

Flexible in my 40s :( Well trying to be lol (edited)

Women in their 40s

Women in their 40s often have a very different beauty. No longer the beauty of youth, but the beauty of experience. They have gone through the years: * love with all their heart! * sacrifice for family! * bear the pressure of food and clothing! * sometimes there has been a breakdown, loss or… read more

🤔MicrovascularDysfunction /CoronaryVasospasm pondering Wether I may have this

When the "All Clear" Misses the Full Picture: Why Advocacy Matters 🫀🩺 I’m sharing a bit of my recent health journey because it has taught me just how vital it is to look at our own data and be our own biggest advocates in the healthcare system. Recently, I had to visit the Emergency Department… read more

The Speedy Escape

A man in his late 40s was driving down the highway when he noticed police lights flashing in his rearview mirror. Deciding to have a little fun, he accelerated, hitting 90 mph before eventually pulling over to the shoulder. The state trooper walked up to the window, looking highly annoyed. "Sir,… read more

Mid 40s , never stop exploring

More volume? I better wake up earlier

How you perform each rep really matters because banging out junk reps gets you no stimulus. But when you demonstrate how well you can perform reps in the time you have, for me that's only 40s per set, then that stimulus actually contributes to something.