Is to minimise Negativity Bias. I'm still reconciling and managing this sh1tty part of my life whereby I intentionally ignore most of positive things and focusing too much on Negativity. It's a yo-yo stage at the moment, but I will continue fighting 💪 #newyear25

#writing

Vinay Krishna

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Libra

Shattered thoughts, eyes parched and dry, A mind racing, to justify the why. A heart weighed down, by sorrow's crushing might, A faint smile flickers, a resilient light.

#boo #betray #dating #poetry #relationship #books #philosophy #psychology #life #lifeadvice #quotes #univers #soul #book #thoughts #learning #emotions #reality #hopelessromantic #sensitivity #friends #partener #single #pov #infj #depressed #depression #mood #advice #libra #sad #lonely #poet #poem... read more

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

A smile that shines, a mask I wear, Concealing the pain, that's hidden there. My eyes tell a story, of a different plight, A toast to those, who wear a similar light.

#advice

Noman Hyder lodhi

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ESFJ

Pisces

🫣

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Aneia

INFP

Leo

Does anyone have any tips on how to socialise lmao I've been depressed and isolated for so long I don't know how to talk to people anymore 😅

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Ash Katie

ENFJ

Pisces

1 Award

I Choose Me 🥰

That radiant glow speaks of the happiness within... 2024 has taught me to let go of negativities and focus on what really matters... ME. Being on a dating app made me realize the harsh reality that I come into terms with as the year is about to end... "Self-love is paramount to my happiness and... (edited) read more

114

#single

Ash Katie

ENFJ

Pisces

It's only one float away...

Coping with stress is difficult for an expat like me. Most of the time it drains the sh!+ out of me. One of my pick-me-upper is to go for a quick swim after a long day at work and float my worries away... No one will notice the tears. 😉 the downside of it tho is progression of colds due to... (edited) read more

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Diana

INFP

Taurus

How do i stop self sabotaging my romantic relationship

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Capricorn

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Capricorn

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Vicky

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Taurus

🙏

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

As fireworks light up the midnight sky, Others rejoice, with hopes of a new high. But I see through the haze, to the truth below, New beginnings are illusions, and I'm stuck in the woe. I wish I could believe, in the promise of a fresh start, But reality's heavy chains, hold me captive in my heart.

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Tyler

INFJ

Gemini

How to meet someone in public?

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Koffy

13d

ENFJ

Sagittarius

2 Awards

SEASON'S GREETINGS...❄️🎄☃️🎅❄️🌟🐴🫏🥰🤣🤪✌️🙌

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#boo

S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️

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ISFP

2 Awards

Engagement Farming vs Engagement Nurturing in B00

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Koffy

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ENFJ

Sagittarius

7 Awards

HONORING YOUR WORTHINESS...🥰😉💖✨️🌻🌈🫶🫰

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Sagittarius

4 Awards

GIVING YOURSELF CREDIT REDARDLESS OF ANYTHING... 😍🥰🫰🫶🌻🌈💖✨️

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Vinay Krishna

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Libra

Pain's weight crushes words, leaving me mute, Silence wraps my tongue, a heavy, hollow hush. I long to speak the anguish that I hold, But find no ears to hear, no heart to unfold.

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Vinay Krishna

11d

INFJ

Libra

This is exactly me ugly looking literature graduate 😅😅😅😅

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Lída

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💧🌊

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Lída

ISFJ

Patience

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Margaret

12d

INTJ

Scorpio

😊

#philosophy #psychology #advice #intj

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Vinay Krishna

21d

INFJ

Libra

I once wondered why hearts burn with fiery rage Why love can turn to anger, and a soul's dark cage But now I understand, for I've walked that same flame And felt the fury that fuels, the heart's deepest pain

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Libra

You'll Be Fine 🤗

Knowing that we are all stupid sometimes boosted my self-confidence. If we are all stupid sometimes: No need to feel imposter syndrome. Nobody knows what they are doing. Everyone is trying to figure it out. They are just good at pretending to know. Under the water, they are paddling like mad. Also,... read more

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Tears well up, thoughts wander free, A heavy heart, a soul's melancholy. Yet, a gentle smile, on lips does stay, A paradox of emotions, in a fragile way.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

10d

INFJ

Libra

A heavy heart beats, beneath a smiling face, Tears well up, in a secret, hidden place. What kind of pain, can bring such a test? A heart that's hurting, and still finds rest.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

19d

INFJ

Libra

A heart that's numbing, a soul that's worn, I've buried the pain, and the tears that are born. I say nothing, I feel nothing, it's true, For in silence, I've found a way to see this through.

#lifeadvice

Dale Marcella

11d

INFJ

Aquarius

Listen Up Men/ Women

This is a lesson every man and women now must not only learn but pass on to the younger ones: know the difference between a stage and a choice. Life’s stages are non-negotiable—they happen to everyone. Teething, puberty, adolescence, aging—these are stages you can’t escape. But the decisions you... (edited) read more

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

We often draw lines, man and woman apart, But loyalty's true test lies in the heart. A battle rages, love versus lust's desire, And often, it's the flames of lust that burn like fire.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

19d

INFJ

Libra

Two faces of sorrow, a tale of pain, One hides behind a smile, a lips' disguise in vain. The other reveals the truth, in eyes that dimly shine, A window to the heart, where depression's darkness entwine.

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Jorin

INTJ

Taurus

Dating profile

If anyone is willing, I'd appreciate it if somebody rates the profile I've written.

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

A heartbeat of foresight, warns of goodbye's sway, A knowing that's both gift and curse, each passing day. I see the end, before it begins, A bittersweet wisdom, that echoes within.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

18d

INFJ

Libra

We try to hide in silence, to escape the heart's despair, But pain is a persistent guest, that's always lurking there. It seeps into our quiet nights, and whispers every day, A constant reminder of the hurt, that refuses to fade away.

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Tejas Patel

ISFP

Pisces

Love is blind bt crocodile 🐊 not so wekup now...... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Arj♠️🐺🧭

25d

ENFJ

Sagittarius

1 Award

You don't need to look for it everywhere, take a step back, consider the reality of the situation. Let yourself feel but don't forget to listen to your mind 🙏🏽 Things tend to find you when you don't look for them. Be well 🌻

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Blue Ocean

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Gemini

...

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Shikha

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INFJ

Taurus

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Tears well up, thoughts wander free, A heavy heart, a soul's melancholy. Yet, a gentle smile, on lips does stay, A paradox of emotions, in a fragile way.

A heavy heart beats, beneath a smiling face, Tears well up, in a secret, hidden place. What kind of pain, can bring such a test? A heart that's hurting, and still finds rest.

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We often draw lines, man and woman apart, But loyalty's true test lies in the heart. A battle rages, love versus lust's desire, And often, it's the flames of lust that burn like fire.

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A heartbeat of foresight, warns of goodbye's sway, A knowing that's both gift and curse, each passing day. I see the end, before it begins, A bittersweet wisdom, that echoes within.

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