What is the best advice you have ever received?

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Aloha

11h

ISTJ

Pisces

1

2

👍

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Manuel Victor Fernandez

1d

INTJ

Aquarius

Conserve your energy

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Carla

4d

INFJ

Gemini

1

2

Don’t love them or treat them right for their approval or as a favor, that’s not love or genuineness. Love them because you actually do. Love them from a distance even if they don’t reciprocate it and not based on whether you judge that they “deserve” it or not.

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17d

ISTP

Beware of people here, including me.

Some are magnetically charming, great conversationalist, witty and actually enjoyable to interact with. However once you observe and slowly build rapport with them, some "cracks" will eventually show. That's all.

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Aleksa

2y

INTP

Pisces

2

3

What to do what to do...

What does anyone here do when you form a connection with someone here who is half the world away?

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Zion

6d

ENFJ

Libra

How to Handle Ghosts

Online dating taught me this: when someone ghosts you, it’s not a reflection of your worth. Please don’t waste hours wondering what you could’ve said or done differently — the answers aren’t there. Ghosting usually happens because some people can’t handle complex emotions. For them, silence is... read more

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Ryan

3d

INFP

Taurus

I feel more comfortable talking to random people.

Hi guys! I'm looking for advice here on maybe whats going on. so I reinstalled this app because I have honestly gone insane this last week. so it all started on another dating app a month ago. me and this girl were talking. we decided to play a game together online. so we played almost every night... (edited) read more

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Gen

2y

INFP

Gemini

Never chase a man, a never want for a man to chase you!!

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Myya

2d

INTP

Scorpio

6

7

You can be...

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Kyle

2y

INFJ

Aries

8

7

Hidden feelings complicated

So I'm sure there are those of u out there who have that one friend that u have deep feelings for and they don't know either they do no and brush it aside but arent mean about but they never felt the same dated others instead drives u a little crazy tell me how do u deal with that in your own way... (edited) read more

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Sergio

21d

INTP

Aquarius

What do you guys think the best way, or the healthiest way to express anger or any other negative emotions?

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Brandon

5d

INTP

Virgo

8

7

YOU WILL NEVER RECEIVE THE SAME LOYALTY OR LOVE YOU GIVE OTHERS! ACCEPTING THAT IS HARD.

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Angy😇

8d

INFJ

Soul monolog

No one truly wishes to live in suffering. Yet the truth is pain often comes uninvited, appearing in the form of loss, disappointment, loneliness, or silent wounds. The world never asks if we’re ready, it simply pushes, presses, and tests us. It forces us to be strong often before we even... read more

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💕

14d

INFJ

Pisces

Don't trust easily.🖤

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Riley

2d

INFP

Taurus

Help

How do I get someone to date me when they just unadd me when they see my face or hear my height

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Haythem

5d

ESFJ

Aquarius

🙏

When life gives you a hundred reasons to break down.. show life that you have a million reasons to smile and stay strong..

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Lavi

7d

INTP

Cancer

6

7

I need advice!

I need advice from fellow peoples in IT! 💻🖥⌨🖱📖 I'm finishing a Diploma in Systems Development at the end of this year and an looking for work in the field. However, everyone wants someone with experience. Is there a way to get onto the field without an internship or a way to get experience so... read more

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Jordan

19d

ENFJ

Taurus

8

7

If someone gets you into another app to chat but deletes their messages and/or makes their profile unseen to you on here, it's a red flag, pls take my advice!

Two girls both turned out to be awful ppl, in different ways, I won't fall for it a 3rd time even if I seem overcautious; I'll be OUTTA there lol

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Jay

28d

INTP

Aries

Penny for your thoughts?

I'm interested in some advice about my position. Because of some brain things, my emotional state is perpetually muted to near non-existence. What should I do about this when trying to become friends or enter relationships?

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✨🪞 𝓘𝓼𝓵𝓪 🌷🤍

11d

INFJ

Libra

8

7

🎭

Narcissists will never believe they've mistreated you. In their minds, they are always justified, convinced that their behavior is a reasonable and appropriate response to how you have supposedly treated them. They view every interaction through a lens that paints them as the victim or the... read more

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Manuel Victor Fernandez

3d

INTJ

Aquarius

Be kind

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Brandon Mccall

16d

ENTP

Taurus

6

5

Social anxiety

What is everyone best advice to getting over social anxiety, or that gut twisting feeling when you want to talk to people and make friends?

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Zion

7d

ENFJ

Libra

Avoidance and Isolation masked as “Healing”

I see this a lot: someone says they “need time to focus on themselves” and “can’t date right now.” At first, it sounds like growth — but more often, it feels like a projection of inadequacy, not a reflection of healing. Real growth requires you to face difficult truths — about yourself, your... (edited) read more

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C

15d

INTJ

Virgo

Part 2: If you can't picture her in the aisle walking towards you with teary eyes,leave her alone!! If you can't picture out buying your First house, your dream car, building family with her, leave her alone!! If marriage isn't the goal, then what's the point?!

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Chozo

3d

ESTP

Leo

7

8

Wedding gift

My two roommates are getting married at the end of the month and I'm stumped on a gift to give them. I want to give them a new fridge since that would be a gift for all of us, but I also know the roof has leaks and needs repairs, so I could offer to cover half of the repair costs, but neither of... read more

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C

16d

INTJ

Virgo

Part1:You deserve someone who has plans on marrying you one day. Love is not a game, it's an investment, commitment. You know, as a man you should look at your girl as the mother of your future babies.. She could be your girl for a lifetime.. She'll be your baby mama, partner and bestfriend in one..

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C

10d

INTJ

Virgo

If he can't focus on you when you're right next to him, he's not your man.. Choose the one who makes you feel Chosen!

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Aaron Bloom

29d

INFP

Taurus

6

7

Help to stay up

For context, I recently came out of a steep depression that lasted over a year where my loneliness and lack of success destroyed my hope, costed me my job, and put me at rock bottom. I only now began feeling like I'm getting out of it for a reason not even I know. I'm applying to multiple jobs a... read more

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Maris

22d

ESTP

Taurus

🙏

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M̷̷A̷̷R̷̷I̷̷A̷̷ ̷A̷̷N̷̷G̷̷E̷̷ ̷🖤

4mo

INFP

2

1

IDK guys… thoughts? 🤷🏻‍♀️😂👀

#relationshipadvice #advice #humor #dating #relationship #single #funny #random #food

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C

15d

INTJ

Virgo

A Real Man treats his lady the same way he wants another man to treat his daughter!

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Ragie 🖤

20d

INFJ

Libra

7

8

Treat Your Friends Better

Some of you have to treat your friends better. You give your love interests gifts, take them on trips and dates, eat them from the back, and provide never-ending snuggles. Yet, you expect your friends to carry you emotionally for what exactly? To experience the worst version of you while watching... read more

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Manuel Victor Fernandez

10d

INTJ

Aquarius

Hold on to your energy

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Angeline

20d

ISFJ

Taurus

1

2

Take note.

Life can't always go your way, take your time in everything you do..

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Manuel Victor Fernandez

3d

INTJ

Aquarius

Give yourself the time and space needed to grow: (edited)

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Xavier

14d

ESFP

Aries

7

6

Words to live by

Don't like coffee, love tequila and of course, sex, who can say no (edited)

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4mo

INFP

2

1

Real talk 🙌💖

#relationships #friendship #mentalhealth #dating #advice #self #selfcare #selflove

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Brandon

22d

INFP

Capricorn

2

3

Burned out

How do you get back into a good headspace for relationships after facing abandonment, neglect, or no communication two relationships in a row?

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Jordan

20d

INFP

Cancer

2

1

Weight loss with health issues?

Is there anyone on here who also has joint issues and spinal arthritis? I also have a pain disorder. The issue is that I had lost 70 pounds on my own and I felt great, was deadlifting 300+ lbs, had tons of stamina and could walk all day,I looked healthy, but the problem now is that in the last... read more

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Saqr

19d

ENTJ

Taurus

2

1

Who am i ?!

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Pebble

18d

ISTJ

Sagittarius

8

7

Grief

So due to some unfortunate circumstances these next few weeks will be hell so my question is, how do you handle grief? I don’t really know what to do with myself, I’ve taken myself off the market tho. So I’m not looking for anything atm.

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Maris

23d

ESTP

Taurus

Who am I?