Autism Community

One of my stims is riding an HD motorcycle through some really gorgeous landscapes. The sound and the scenery together are just very nice sensory reset. While some people find it ironic because autistic individuals are often assumed to hate all loud noises, I find this sound actually grounding. (edited)

Listen , listen .... This is my squishy

I'm frustrated , had a guy come over a couple days ago as he was sitting there he saw my squishy in its box he then picked it up and opened it and played with it .... He then lost focus while talking to me and started picking at it and stabbing it with a screw so a nail .... And when I said CAN YOU… read more

CALM Model

(Criteria for Decision-making that doesn’t require you to be regulated) The CALM Model C — Come back Before deciding, orient to the present moment. One slow breath if that feels comfortable. 
Feel your feet or the chair. Look around and name one thing you can see. The purpose is not “be calm”.… (edited) read more

"I want an Autistic gf, but not like the WEIRD kind of Autism."

Well I got diagnosed...

Turns out I've had autism (level 1) for my whole life. The funny thing is the initial testing shows that I don't have autism, but the social camouflage section (which has a score threshold of 100 meaning 100 and higher is an indicator of autistic masking) showed that I have a masking score of 151… read more

Autistic in trouble

I dont know what i do wrong

I really really dont know.every time i find a new friend(not so often) i get so freaking happy,but then,i get ghosted,almost always.the ones i really really connect with does not seem to connect with me,and the ones who connect with me,i cant find myself connecting to them,its so extreamly hard.are… read more

Autism makes dating so difficult

As an autistic person who expects to be single forever I find it so weird to see people in my age getting into relationships so effortlessly. Dating has so many unwritten rules that can be difficult for someone like me to pick up on.

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Almost had one today lol

Assessment Results

Has anyone taken an autism assessment and ended up being told you weren’t confirmed to be autistic? How did it make you feel? Did they tell you you might have something else like ADHD? I just took my first appointment today. My next one is this Friday, and then the last one will be about the… read more

Work in progress

The Architecture of Insight

A representation of exceptional pattern recognition, learning, and interconnected thinking. #BeyondPatterns #TheLanguageOfComplexMinds #SemanticConstellations #CausalThinking #SystemsThinking #ExceptionalCognition #PatternRecognition #TwiceExceptional #Neurodiversity #2e

Just saying hi!

Looking to make friends : ) Wishing everyone a great day/night ✨✨

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Went shopping today 🛍 😭💀

Neurodivergents here ?

Being around a lot of people is an overwhelming rush

I went to my local tabletop rpg/card game/board game store to learn how to play Magic The Gathering. It was a really good time, but after it was done I felt like I was shaking. I’ll still be going back, but having to interact with so many people is a big deal.

Optimising Environmental Operating System

Because I find ontological and heuristic data interesting, I started mapping a way of understanding which (x) environments are optimal for producing (y) outcomes. Sure, I can be subjective and say, I enjoy nature or being in a shopping mall is challenging, etc., it was interesting to start… read more

Moving house

Holding deposit paid, references being checked; its getting real. Gonna be the first time in 13 years I've lived on my own. The move itself should be fine, I'm literally moving 20ft down the road but the actual living part maybe a different matter

Please tell me it's not true 😭😄

My little sister told me tonight that is autistic for me to be a grown ass adult and still be rocking graphic tees. Now I can't stop thinking about it 😆 The fact that I recently bought this "Rizz 'em with the 'tism" tee isn't helping. Why did she have to do me dirty like that?! 😭😭😭😄😄

Autism and dating.

It's been a fascinating journey being autistic, but now I'm curious, does being autistic really affect dating someone? 🤔

Unmasking begins

So I was super worried that my therapist didn't want to take on the challenge but she said she didn't want me to mask. She wanted me to be my true self so she took on the challenge. At 1pm (EST Time) we will be deep diving into it. Can't wait! (edited)

At what aged did you get diagnosed?

I started to get diagnosed at 2/3 years of age and fully diagnosed at 6

Pain

I ripped off all my masks that I had and no it's a rollercoaster of pain and emotions. I'm using coping mechanism like crazy like my therapist taught me but DAMN is it more painful when they're ripped off...

Seeking clarity

If someone you were dating constantly asked you to stay longer each time you visited them, and you made it clear on each occasion that you intended to leave at a specific time, how would you interpret their behaviour? For context, I intend for each visit to last at least 4 hours, after working for… read more

Diagnosis

I find that the diagnostic landscape has a few camps that are not entirely binary. Some say that a diagnosis is merely a label and does not encapsulate the entirety of a human being. Others laud the efficacy of a diagnosis because it provides context and the ability to start telling a story, going… read more

Loot from 714 solo chambers of Xerics

All solo, 80% of these are full layouts which end up on 53k points per clear. About 34-35m total points. Just a tad bit behind on purple rolls :) #autism

Silence Where Storms Live.

This is how it feels to be calm, even when the world around me is noisy and chaotic.

Sensory sparkle ✨ mini squish cubes

My parents ordered me some new sensory items aren’t they adorable little squish sparkles ✨

Friends After Dating

Man I had a moment where it was clearer than ever that I take speak and interpret too literally. Ex and I tried to be friends after we broke up and apparently "we'll have to see that movie when you're up for it" and "make sure you're taking care of you" were interpreted as "we should get back… read more

Gone blue again

Weighing up a new colour for next time, not sure what will work though

Neurodivergent Struggles #II

I've always wondered if I'm allowed to be happy, and this isn't some woe-is-me thought, but rather something that has deeply plagued me long before I even realised how much of myself I used to sacrifice to keep everyone else happy. And now that I've been putting in the effort to show up more… read more

Trying to life

Wtf happened to the timeline people... The very moment I finally am able to move out and away from my home town everyone decided they gonna go to war. Anyways enjoy this picture of a guinea pig lol

Breaking a habit

I've chosen a bad time to try and break a habit, though it's helping with slowing things down and not chasing the next dopamine high lol (edited)

Which one resonates with you the most? What would you add?

1. I see patterns that other people don’t seem to notice. I connect ideas very quickly and arrive at conclusions that feel obvious to me, only to realize that others often need much more context or time to see the same connections. 2. I can solve highly complex problems while struggling with… read more

Support Groups

Can't find any that aren't prissy about terms used. This is hopeless... Edit: no I'm not looking on Boo for support groups (edited)

One thing i wont miss about apartment living is all the damn people attempting to make small talk with me. I hardly want to be on this planet to begin with...leave me tf alone I am just trying to do laundry (or check my mail) god damn.