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Tristin
Tristin

10mo

INFP

Gemini

Monogamy? In this economy?

Anyone else feel like eventually it won't be feasible for working class americans to do more than just survive on 2 incomes alone? Which might lead into polyamory/polycules becoming more mainstream?

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Tracy

Tracy

10mo

ISTP

Aries

8
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Roommates have always been a thing bro, why would they have to be in a relationship?

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Colin

Colin

10mo

ISTJ

Aries

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5

If it did it'd be waaaay down the line. I imagine having kids would be the first thing to go, well very sharply decline.

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Anthony

Anthony

9mo

ENFP

Aries

4
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Makes sense to us. A big loving respectful tribe. Fueled by love and mutual attraction

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Tristin

Tristin

Author

10mo

INFP

Gemini

@Tracy Sure but I'm not talking about just living expenses but large financial commitments you might not be comfortable making with good friends let alone roommates. Like buying a home for example.

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Carlos

Carlos

6mo

INTP

Sagittarius

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7

Lol this is actually culturally normalized in a sci-fi series called The Expanse.

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Clockwork

Clockwork

8mo

ENTP

Pisces

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7

I know actual instances where this has happened due to the financial hardships of being a couple

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