Does anybody else unable to connect to a person who is simply 'Good on Paper'? I always thought that I would deserve such a person. But something is just quite off. I guess simplicity or a life 'figured out' doesn't quite fit into a fixer's life.

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Yes. When you think it should be right because they meet all the things you think you want but there's just no spark and the feeling is missing.

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If a person is good on paper they probably already have enough paper;they don't need any more. Sorry you have so much excess paper to give, some people are also struggling with that issue. (edited)

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Yes, i am unable to connect with people who are good on paper. They never swipe right on me. 🥲 Well, other than you, of course, but that's cause i wanted to be able to find your posts more easily

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It's missing sexual chemistry. As far as I can tell it comes from ego. Relationships are about balance and someone without sufficient ego probably won't spark. It's an ugly truth. Ego can be genuine self esteem(healthy relationship) or a bluff over a disgustingly stunted personality(abusive relationships).

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Yes. When you think it should be right because they meet all the things you think you want but there's just no spark and the feeling is missing.

If a person is good on paper they probably already have enough paper;they don't need any more. Sorry you have so much excess paper to give, some people are also struggling with that issue. (edited)

Yes, i am unable to connect with people who are good on paper. They never swipe right on me. 🥲 Well, other than you, of course, but that's cause i wanted to be able to find your posts more easily

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