Ines

Posted Sunday, August 13, 2023

9mo

ENFP

Aries

4

5

Is it wrong?

I'm a pretty flirty type of person. I like to flirt and giving hugs and cuddles. My friends and i know each other for over 15years. We don't see each other often but when we meet up it's like we saw each other yesterday. For me it's normal to cuddle with my female friends. Giving them peeks on lips and cheek. Back hugs, let them sit on my lap, lean on each other... since i'm close to them i never thought of it as weird. With my male friends it's similar. I love to hug them and they treat my like a little plush toy. Rubbing my head. Pinching my cheeks and nose. Showing affection but not in a sexual way. It's more like a close siblings relationship. Honestly i never thought of it as weird. Because i view the group as a big family since we also have a quite big age range. The youngest is 21 and the oldest 54. There are some couple but definitely not some weird kinky stuff going on. I made some new friends and we talked about how we grew up and what we like to do. I told them about my Friend Group and they looked at me like i was crazy. They also jokingly said stuff like - you're not going to kiss us right? I don't know how i should think about it. I never touched them more like a quick hug for a greeting and never started some skinship. But they made me feel like i'm a pervert. With my friends i never thought of it as weird or dirty to show affection. Since they also show it to me in the same way. It just felt like Home when i'm with them. So am i wrong of showing affection through physical touch towards my friends? (edited)